Dear Bunmi,
When a junior colleague was having personal problems, especially with her landlord, I let her move in with me and my husband. She’s young enough to be our daughter and I enjoyed her company. It was to be a temporary solution until she found alternative accommodation.
Unfortunately, I’ve just discovered she’s been sleeping with my husband even after she moved out. I’m devastated, I feel like such an old fool!
Tessy,

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/01/took-seduced-husband/

Islie:




Who do we say is at fault now

Qhal:


The wife - for being stupid
The husband - for being a cheat
The junior colleague - for being wicked and a LovePeddler

Qhal:


The wife - for being stupid
The husband - for being a cheat
The junior colleague - for being wicked and a LovePeddler

Islie:




Who do we say is at fault now
The wife
The husband
The junior colleague

crackhaus:

None is at fault, they were all just being human - the wife was being generous, while the husband and junior colleague were only expressing their sexual desires which is perfectly normal.

I'd rather blame religion and society for making it seem like adultery is the worst thing that could happen in a marriage.

dre11:



That means all are to be blamed....... Meaning you don't help someone in need if you can't count the cost

crackhaus:

None is at fault, they were all just being human - the wife was being generous, while the husband and junior colleague were only expressing their sexual desires which is perfectly normal.

I'd rather blame religion and society for making it seem like adultery is the worst thing that could happen in a marriage.

Royver:
Why do ladies do this sef? The young woman no get family? Why put a hen in a rooster' den? Na wa o.

Vickybee:

This one blames a lady not forgetting the useless man.

*Exhales*

Islie:


If not adultery...... What can we call this?
because I have a strong feeling that the wife will loose her respect in front of the junior colleague...... Which to me its bad

Vickybee:

I'd rather blame HIV for making it to seem it's the worst thing to happen with human because when he contacts it, it will dawn on them.

Can't the foolish man control himself? Must he sleep with every Tom, dick and harry? He's just a loose cannon and I pray you'll be typing like this if reverse was the case.

crackhaus:

And you're angry because?

Islie:

Who do we say is at fault now
The wife
The husband
The junior colleague

Vickybee:

I'm an angry black woman - I speak the truth and feminism is my brand.

crackhaus:

Yea I'm happy for you.

So what has this got to do with the story or what I type in the reverse case?

Vickybee:

Click here

crackhaus:
Ohhh hell, it's you again. . . I was beginning to wonder who this person was.

Vickybee is the new more improved version of Vickyyb
I thought you died and went to feminist heaven already, spare the rest of us your little girl fantasies.

crackhaus:



I wish I could say I missed you, but I did not!

crackhaus:



I wish I could say I missed you, but I did not!

coogar:


this is a kodak moment....

crackhaus caught red-handed flirting with a feminazi.

coogar:


this is a kodak moment....

crackhaus caught red-handed flirting with a feminazi.