1. If your child lies to you often, it is because you
over-react too harshly to their inappropriate
behaviour.
2. If your child is not taught to confide in you about
their mistakes, you've lost them.
3. If your child had poor self-esteem, it is because
you advice them more than you encourage them.
4. If your child does not stand up for themselves, it
is because from a young age you have disciplined
them regularly in public.
5. If your child takes things that do not belong to
them, it is because when you buy them things, you
don't let them chose what they want.
6. If your child is cowardly, it is because you help
them too quickly.
7. If your child does not respect other people's
feelings, it is because instead of speaking to your
child, you order and command them.
8. If your child is too quick to anger, it is because
you give too much attention to misbehaviour and
you give little attention to good behaviour.
9. If your child is excessively jealous, it is because
you only congratulate them when they successfully
complete something and not when they improve at
something even if they don't successfully complete
it.
10. If your child intentionally disturbs you, it is
because you are not physically affectionate enough.
11. If your child is openly defied, it is because you
openly threaten to do something but don't follow
through.
12. If your child is secretive, it is because they
don't trust that you won't blow things out of
proportion.
13. If your child talks back to you, it is because
they watch you do it to others and think its normal
behaviour.
14. If your child doesn't listen to you but listens to
others, it is because you are too quick to make
decisions.
15. If your child rebels it is because they know you
care more about what others think than what is
right

noted

wetin concern me..mortar don finish 4 market

You have put it succinctly

jairusben:
wetin concern me..mortar don finish 4 market

Lol.

The solution is KOBOKO: This instrument sets a nigerian child to default settings.