Dahjhi:
AS KARCHISBABIE DON TALK IT SHOULD NOT BE PARMANENT And the moment to be spent should be defined....... Or else... Women (wifes) ehn.. And those relatives esp Ladies.... Na to turn sontin else later

Very true o.
The last time I was in this position ehn, they tabled my matter for village. They said I am using all my husband's money to buy shoes.


How many pairs kwanu? Just like 80

Kachisbarbie:


Very true o.
The last time I was in this position ehn, they tabled my matter for village. They said I am using all my husband's money to buy shoes.


How many pairs kwanu? Just like 80

AndreRose:
Its said that too much familiarity leads to negligence. At a time insult and disrespect will creep in. The house wil turn from sweet to bitter. And this can be caused by misunderstanding and who should be giving the "lions share" and as well jealousy of what and how lovely the husband treats the wife an vice versa. At a time the girls sis might start seducing the husband, and from there a lot of trouble will stir up.
Even the sex life of the couple will be curtailed too. They might not be as wild as they planned to.lol
They are free to pay a visit but to stay permanently? No way!

Kachisbarbie:


Very true o.
The last time I was in this position ehn, they tabled my matter for village. They said I am using all my husband's money to buy shoes.


How many pairs kwanu? Just like 80

[size=24pt] LMAO... WHAT IF U CON BE SHOEFREAK? [/size]

emusmith:



Do you presume it's your decision to make?

What if your hubby is the first and younger ones all depend financially on him? They have no place to stay while he has a duplex.

His mum says they should live with him, what will be your reaction?

Kachisbarbie:


How many pairs kwanu? Just like 80

Chai I don die.
*falls from plantain tree where he was hanging*

emusmith:


80?

AndreRose:

We must have talked about this before getting married. And since he has a duplex, I guess he can afford a flat for them. And hopefully, if am successful, I can still take care of their flat. Its just how much I detest living with relatives.

afolag:

u jst acted like a family member in d village. wat if she was aving 160 befre ur brother met her.
not directly to u but family members out thre who ar nothing but spy.

emusmith:


Yea. True.

Why do you detest them? That's a strong word.

Relatives are a part of the marriage, you know?

Detesting them is choosing not to sail happily in marriage especially if they're many.

Besides, relatives are people like us too.

Don't mind me, I used to detest them until I got in their shoes in my search for a job in another state. I lived with my sis and hubby for four months...

Kachisbarbie:


Very true o.
The last time I was in this position ehn, they tabled my matter for village. They said I am using all my husband's money to buy shoes.


How many pairs kwanu? Just like 80

AndreRose:

Am going to like my husbands relatives,that's for sure. And I can live with them too, but living with them for a very long time? I can't. Am just speaking from experience. Maybe mine might turn out good anyway.

Kachisbarbie:


Very true o.
The last time I was in this position ehn, they tabled my matter for village. They said I am using all my husband's money to buy shoes.


How many pairs kwanu? Just like 80

amokeme:
I don't want any body in my house

emusmith:


Nice

Your heart tastes good..., Fear Not

rationalmind:
Majority of those who have commented before me have conveniently highlighted the disadvantages and left out the advantages.

Let's not deceive ourselves, we all need each other.

I live with a young couple myself, they both come back from work late at night and meet food on the table. The wife only cooks on Saturdays and Sundays. They need not bother about ironing their clothes which I do without being told, I sweep the house, clean the house, fetch water, wash the dishes, fuel the gen, and almost every other household chore you can think of. Did I tell you I also got to work just like them and come back very tired? Yes, they can get a maid. Need I remind you of the magodo maid? That apart, won't the maid also appear as an intruder? Won't the lack of privacy still be there?

As much as I need their accommodation and might one way or the other inconvenience them, as far as I'm concerned, they also need me.

So, before you talk of the lack of privacy and all that, remember you also need that cousin, that nephew, and that niece who wants to come and stay with you.

emusmith:


I laffff

amokeme:
all these wicked family members.. both what they see and what they did not see will be the topic of discussion to the rest of the family.. If atal Ill let someone stay, ill prefer a stranded stranger to a family member

emusmith:


Someone else will or is calling you a Family member. If they address you as "wicked", is it okay?