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Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by fantacie(f): 12:28pm On Jan 16, 2009
ladies wat would you do to a guy who says he loves u yet disappears when u need his help or something from him. the last thing he can tink of is to give u a gift but he wants to take u to bed all the time.he can not go to the movie with u except late at night so that u will end up in his bed. his regular word "love is not material things"

this is wat I'm facing right now please i need ur advice. it's so confusing bc the guy wont let go of me and he says he will marry me.
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by Okanran(m): 12:37pm On Jan 16, 2009
Excuse moi for intruding, of course I read this. . .
fantacie:

ladies wat would you do. . .

fantacie:

but he wants to take u to bed all the time.he can not go to the movie with u except late at night so that u will end up in his bed.

LMAO. . . Dat guy go gbensh u taya! cheesy lipsrsealed
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by Omolola1(f): 12:48pm On Jan 16, 2009
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fantacie:

ladies wat would you do to a guy who says he loves u yet disappears when u need his help or something from him. the last thing he can tink of is to give u a gift but he wants to take u to bed all the time.he can not go to the movie with u except late at night so that u will end up in his bed. his regular word "love is not material things"

this is wat I'm facing right now please i need ur advice. it's so confusing bc the guy wont let go of me and he says he will marry me.

its very, very, obvious, the guy does not love you at all, he;s only in love with your body. Stop wasting your time on him

my candid advice is
break up with him! He's of no use to you.
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by izeek(m): 12:50pm On Jan 16, 2009
atleast he loves somthing about u( ur body).

and the guy wey use gbensh, omo nah wah ooo,
long time since i heard that word.
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by Okanran(m): 12:56pm On Jan 16, 2009
izeek:

and the guy wey use gbensh, omo nah wah ooo,
long time since i heard that word.

Dat the idea, brings back memories! Hw's FTT*





*Festac
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by amebono14: 12:58pm On Jan 16, 2009
fantacie:

ladies wat would you do to a guy who says he loves u yet disappears when u need his help or something from him. the last thing he can tink of is to give u a gift but he wants to take u to bed all the time.he can not go to the movie with u except late at night so that u will end up in his bed. his regular word "love is not material things"

this is wat I'm facing right now please i need ur advice. it's so confusing bc the guy wont let go of me and he says he will marry me.

do u need anybody to tell u,before u know dat u r dating a player?who's gonna dump u sooner or later undecided
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by izeek(m): 12:59pm On Jan 16, 2009
omo festi dey tight oooh.

just mightnot be as u rememba it.

but its still got style sha.
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by Okanran(m): 1:05pm On Jan 16, 2009
izeek:

just mightnot be as u rememba it.
but its still got style sha
.

Na me u dey tell? Na job carry me comot, if not nuffin go make me leave FTT! wink

Enjoy!
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by fantacie(f): 1:07pm On Jan 16, 2009
Omolola1:

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its very, very, obvious, the guy does not love you at all, he;s only in love with your body. Stop wasting your time on him

my candid advice is
break up with him! He's of no use to you.


i tried doing dat but he came begging calling all my friends dat knows him to help beg me and i took him back thinking he will change as he promised. u see sometime he seem so serious dat 's why i get confused
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by amebono14: 1:09pm On Jan 16, 2009
fantacie:


i tried doing dat but he came begging calling all my friends dat knows him to help beg me and i took him back thinking he will change as he promised. u see sometime he seem so serious dat 's why i get confused

i bet u honey,u r wt d wrong man,he will even send his parents to beg on his behalf,but i tell u,when he tires of u,he wil turn his back on u,then it might be too late for u to start an emotional affair again
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by maputu: 12:46am On Jan 17, 2009
the guy likes ur body, not u. thought our sisters always say "no romance without finance", "what have u done for me lately", "nothings going on but the rent"? wait till he ENJOY u finish before ur eyes open. wake up and smell the coffee. sit him down and discuss the issue with him because the next guy may not be as generous. GOODLUCK.
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by janedoe(f): 1:05am On Jan 17, 2009
@ poster,when I read your post,I knew it reminded of me of something and after a few minutes I figured it out,you took biology in school right?
Question:what is a parasitic relationship?
Answer:Parasitism is a type of symbiotic relationship between two different organisms(in this case humans though) where one organism(him in this case), the parasite, takes from the host(you,I'm sorry), sometimes for a prolonged time. In general, parasites are much smaller than their hosts(don't know about this sha?who is bigger you or him?lol!sorry couldn't help myself), show a high degree of specialization for their mode of life and (he must have a some special skill to have have his tentacles hooked into your heart or mind) [s]reproduce more quickly and in greater numbers than their hosts[/s] ok,this does not apply in this case but you get my point?Girl, nobody should have to tell you when you're in a parasitic relationship,he's obviously the only one benefiting from this relationship,need I say more?
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by tope2000(f): 1:08am On Jan 17, 2009
I guess he doesnt really love u undecided
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by Treetop20(m): 1:10am On Jan 17, 2009
women can be daft
it is clear that he just wants to shag
and you are still confused about what he really wants
later you will say all Nigerian men are rubbish
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by Nobody: 1:16am On Jan 17, 2009
its clear as ice . . . your body is all he loves. You're the only one who cant see it.
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by Tatase(f): 1:27am On Jan 17, 2009
Your relationship is very simple: Obviously you feel like you should be getting something in return for putting out, and he doesn't feel the same way.

Is there an emotional connection? It doesn't seem to me that there's much more than sex/his appreciation of your body to your relationship and his refusal to help you out. So IMHO you guys are probably not going to work out in the long run anyway unless of course there's something to the relationship other than sex and his doing stuff for you. One of you will soon get tired and end it if this is the case; hopefully you'll be the one who's tired first.
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by A40(m): 1:29am On Jan 17, 2009
He's trying to hit it and quit it and walk off like Big Papi grin grin
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by MissyB1(m): 1:30am On Jan 17, 2009
fantacie:

ladies wat would you do to a guy who says he loves u yet disappears when u need his help or something from him. the last thing he can tink of is to give u a gift but he wants to take u to bed all the time.he can not go to the movie with u except late at night so that u will end up in his bed. his regular word "love is not material things"

this is wat I'm facing right now please i need ur advice. it's so confusing bc the guy wont let go of me and he says he will marry me.
How irritating!!!
I think you should also make him understand ''love isn't bedroom things''.
B.T.W. I Likie your profile picture and its caution under.
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by arramyjay: 1:36am On Jan 17, 2009
He is after your body.
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by amebono14: 1:39am On Jan 17, 2009
Treetop20:

women can be daft
it is clear that he just wants to shag
and you are still confused about what he really wants
later you will say all Nigerian men are rubbish


honestly i very well agree wt u here
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by JJYOU: 1:47am On Jan 17, 2009
buyers market. demand = supply. when will you learn boys dont pay for what they get freely on tap.  even pure water has its value.  you are using your body to get cinema ticket. it is better you forgo cinema and get your dignity.
Missy B:

How irritating!!!
I think you should also make him understand ''love isn't bedroom things''.
B.T.W. I Likie your profile picture and its caution under.
someone with that kind of pics giving sex on tap. God help us with christians like these
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by tope2000(f): 1:49am On Jan 17, 2009
JJYOU:

buyers market. demand = supply. when will you learn boys dont pay for what they get freely on tap. even pure water has its value. you are using your body to get cinema ticket. it is better you forgo cinema and get your dignity.

Dead!!!!!!!!! grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by JJYOU: 1:55am On Jan 17, 2009
tope2000:

Dead!!!!!!!!! grin grin grin grin grin grin grin
she is still alive tope
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by tope2000(f): 1:56am On Jan 17, 2009
JJYOU:

she is still alive tope

i know na tongue
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by amebono14: 1:58am On Jan 17, 2009
arramyjay:

He is after your body.

just saw ur siggy,hope dis love is for real undecided undecided cos we r tired of all dis nld love of a thingy,we dont want u lot declaring ur love open again,making noise inside our ears,b4 we know it,u guys have separated,wedding dat is suppose to be happening soon,will be postponed till further notice,all dis nairaland unfruitful and never progressing love sef

na today?all dis fake love pple undecided
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by MissyB1(m): 1:59am On Jan 17, 2009
JJYOU:

someone with that kind of pics giving sex on tap. God help us with vhristians like these
What makes her worse than any other christian who has had
sex outside wedlock Nufffin!!!
You upload a porn pic or religious pic on ur profile
makes no much difference . . . .
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by tope2000(f): 2:05am On Jan 17, 2009
amebo no.1:

just saw ur siggy,hope dis love is for real undecided undecided cos we r tired of all dis nld love of a thingy,we dont want u lot declaring ur love open again,making noise inside our ears,b4 we know it,u guys have separated,wedding dat is suppose to be happening soon,will be postponed till further notice,all dis nairaland unfruitful and never progressing love sef

na today?all dis fake love pple undecided

How u take know say na fake altho she did say she was married in her interview undecided
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by amebono14: 2:09am On Jan 17, 2009
tope2000:

How u take know say na fake altho she did say she was married in her interview undecided

so she told me one time,and then saw in some thread where she gave an impression dat she isnt married

yes ooo,i used fake love cos i am tired of dis open display of affection and nothing to show for it
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by tope2000(f): 2:11am On Jan 17, 2009
amebo no.1:

so she told me one time,and then saw in some thread where she gave an impression dat she isnt married

yes ooo,i used fake love cos i am tired of dis open display of affection and nothing to show for it

Lol . . . . . she is prolly just having fun flirting na grin
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by amebono14: 2:18am On Jan 17, 2009
tope2000:

Lol . . . . . she is prolly just having fun flirting na grin

ehen now u r talking?

married ko,engaged ni lipsrsealed undecided
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by spoilt(f): 2:28am On Jan 17, 2009
Aaahh! Those guys that only take you out at night and keep you out so late that you cannot go home.  grin . They only call you to come over at night after they have spent their whole day doing other stuff and hanging out with other people. They cant help you out when you are in need. You know them. You cant change anything about the relationship. Just call it quits today. undecided
Re: Is He After My Body Or Is He Really In Love by JJYOU: 2:39am On Jan 17, 2009
spoilt:

Aaahh! Those guys that only take you out at night and keep you out so late that you cannot go home.  grin . They only call you to come over at night after they have spent their whole day doing other stuff and hanging out with other people.
They cant help you out when you are in need
. You know them. You cant change anything about the relationship. Just call it quits today. undecided
what need are we talking about here? please help as i am trying to explain it to a third party . thanks

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