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Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by edwife(f): 6:21pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
BABE3: Now this is sickening! Never will i consider such a fellow as normal,never.... |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by coogar: 6:22pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
edwife: nah, i said most nigerian women have the libïdo of a shoe. it's one thing to have a very low sėx drive, it's another thing to not reach orgäsm. BABE3: very valid point! although, in fairness, some of the women stopped breästfeeding altogether when they had the strange feeling. however, we cannot rule out the fact that some of them wouldn't have stopped. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by BABE3: 6:23pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
edwife: Lol. But it's nature. You can't control how your body responds. You can control what you expose yourself to. Even women that are being ráped get "wet". Do they like getting ráped? No. Can they help how their bodies respond? No. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by edwife(f): 6:33pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
BABE3: Nah,you can-just like you can control who you want to have sex with.@rape,not all rape victim get wet,i can guaranty you that;especially when they are brutally raped that's why they bleed most often. @ coogar Will you lay a woman you are not sexually attracted to?can you arouse when a 80 years old woman touches you? |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by cococandy(f): 6:35pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
I'm not ignoring it. I admit the n1pples are sensitive but like I said, it is all in the mind. Same reason why I will feel disgust if my bro (for example) touches my boobs but won't mind if my man does. See? Mind conditioning. And even when the lady can't get herself to not feel the pleasant sensation of breastfeeding, it is not enough reason to stop it. Isn't there a study that proves direct contact with the mother helps the child's emotional development? coogar: 2 Likes |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by coogar: 6:36pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
edwife: all of them don't get wet because the räpist didn't wait enough to get her wet before going in.
i will not lay with a woman i am not attracted to but at a gun point, every man would be aroused if touched. it might take time but the simple laws of nature would always prevail. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by cococandy(f): 6:39pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
damiso: Some ladies say it is like having a treadmill strapped to your chest. Just a convenient way of letting out all the calories so they breastfeed for as long as possible to reduce the rate of weight gain. 1 Like |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by coogar: 6:42pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
cococandy: which mind? this is why i said you can only speak for thyself. some people are extremely sensitive with their nipplës. it doesn't make them weird.
this is a different analogy altogether. a baby must feed - genuinely, these women only wanted to feed their kids and they realised some strange feelings while doing it. a perfect analogy would be you asking your sister to massage you......and in the course of the massage, you started feeling funny.
if one child is abused in the course of brëastfeeding, it's enough reason to stop it.
it's a myth! kids whose mothers died during labour coped quite well with nan baby formula. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by BABE3: 6:45pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
edwife: I never said all ráped women got wet. Some did. Some didn't. Assuming they were not brutally raped (not all rápe cases are brutal), they do get wet. Glad you agree. yes, you can control who you have sèx with. But you can't control how your body responds when it's down to the wire. Coogar may not like the sight of fat girls; but tie him down and bring a fat girl (gbogbo big girl) to "ride" him, he may not respond, but his pènis will. Abi Coogar? |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by coogar: 6:49pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
BABE3: [img]http://media./media/KZvT5AWF4ADAI/giphy.gif[/img] |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by BABE3: 6:50pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
coogar: gross, but I'm right. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by cococandy(f): 6:53pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
I didn't say having sensitive n1pples makes one weird. Nope. But doing it for sexual gratification makes it weird. Which I think only a few women(if ever) would do. Using your own child to attain orgasmm? Coogar pls. coogar: |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by freecocoa(f): 7:10pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Chai coogar but I've always wondered sha. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by Nobody: 7:24pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Stop indulging coogar and his alternate . After marriage and a kid,he should come back and we will resume d discussion. For now,he is simply fantasizing about female nippples. Repent coogar,repent. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by coogar: 7:28pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
cococandy: between 33-50% of the women in the survey had orgaśmic contractions while breastfeeding.........of course, doing it for sexuäl gratification makes them sick but it doesn't remove the fact that the whole process is a classic case of child abuse! moca: this isn't indulgence, these are real facts! freecocoa: wondered what? why women can't stop breastfeëding in public? na konjiiiiiii! |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by freecocoa(f): 7:30pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
coogar:Wondered how women feel when the baby is sucking the nipples, given that it is an erogenous zone. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by coogar: 7:32pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
freecocoa: 60% feel nothing, at least 40% feel like they are in the 7th heaven......irrespective of their faith(born again or islamic, age, weight, skin colour, etc) |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by freecocoa(f): 7:34pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
coogar:If more than half feel nothing, shouldn't it mean that it is a mind thing? Atleast I know that it is a sensitive spot for atleast 87 or more percent of women. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by coogar: 7:35pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
freecocoa: it could also be argued that the ones who didn't answer in affirmative were not telling the truth. it could be more than 50% that was reported. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by cococandy(f): 7:38pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Oya na keep trolling. Was it not you that said one lady who wasn't breastfeeding her child deserved to be slapped. Who knows maybe she didn't want to abuse the child by putting n1pples in its mouth. coogar: |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by freecocoa(f): 7:39pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
coogar:Lol Guess we'll never know then. Then again, it has always been this way, does this mean many of us were abused by our mums? |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by coogar: 7:42pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
freecocoa: of course..... you can blame it on ignorance or whatever. same way kids were circümcised, caned, etc. it's all part of it. cococandy: abeg..... i never said breästmilk is bad for kids. i said feeding the kids directly from the brëasts is child abuse. the milk can be expressed in a feeding bottle & the baby can help itself from that point. pay attention to the details.... |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by freecocoa(f): 7:52pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
coogar:Then this your cause will definitely go no where, you are even the only one I'm seeing who thinks this way of bre*st feeding. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by coogar: 7:57pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
freecocoa: there are many campaigns against it on the internet. some of the mothers that felt fünny during breästfeeding also stopped doing it from their own volition. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by freecocoa(f): 8:11pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
coogar:Hmmm, I guess it will only go as far as mothers stopping at their own volition, surely you can't dictate what a woman should do with her bre*st, especially when her child is involved, not with the gazillion of campaigns on how important the milk is for babies. I know the milk can be expressed into a feeder but it goes bad after sometime, and you don't expect women to bring out their bre*sts just about anywhere to express milk, like they can do to feed the baby directly from the source. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by coogar: 8:13pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
freecocoa: mothers can always work out the feeding time of the kid. 15-30 mins before the feeding time, she should express the contents in a flask. it's a very easy process but konjiiiii nor go gree them. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by freecocoa(f): 8:20pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
coogar:It's not as easy as you make it look, the baby might refuse to feed when you expect it to, some babies don't even agree to feed from a feeder, most time mothers bre*st feed their babies with people around, so the baby can't be abused with people present. Coogar just say you want the bre*st to yourself alone instead of this tactic. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by coogar: 8:24pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
freecocoa: babies would adapt to whatever they are given. the babies that don't like the feeder have probably already tasted the nïpple, it would be difficult to just switch for them so that's understandable. a baby that never tasted breäst wouldn't ask for one.
the man owns the brëasts.... na me pay bride price. the baby is only a tenant for 12 months. after the 12th month, baby gets evicted(big brother style) |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by freecocoa(f): 8:31pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
coogar:Lmao . You are a clown, you know that right? A baby rejecting a feeder after tasting the n1pple shows, it is only natural that the n1pple should be in its mouth, if it was not so, some babies will reject the bre*st from the get go, the only babies who reject bre*st only do so, after they must have tired of it. Stop fighting nature coogar. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by coogar: 8:38pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
freecocoa: a baby rejecting the feeder after tasting the nïpple shows it prefers the nïpple more than the rubber but it doesn't necessarily make it right. so what happens to babies whose mother died on the day of delivery. whose nippleś did they suck? are you saying they grew up to become abnormal?
people must have considered fëmale cïrcumcision, slavery, killing of twins & wife spanking a natural process too way back. human beings should evolve. it was eve that borrowed that culture from animals while she was weaning cain. that era is long gone now, we should evolve. |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by freecocoa(f): 8:47pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
coogar:Rejecting the rubber shows the n1pples is what is supposed to be given to him and as little as he is, his mind recognizes this, the feeder is just there as a supplement. I haven't said anything about babies who had no bre*st to suck on being abnormal, have I? They must have looked for the n1pple, cried for it but it never came so they have no option but to adjust, do you know that even new born babies try to grab the bre*st? You can't compare circumcision and the likes to a baby knowing where it's food comes from and reaching for it, what's the correlation? |
Re: Gosh!!! No One Said It Was Gonna B Like Dis... by joanne1(f): 8:56pm On Mar 19, 2015 |
Thanks everyone for profering your solutions, thanks edwife, greatgod and a host of plenty others, dyt u are indeed Lucky... And Mr coogar I want to believe u are joking like someone said earlier maybe u jus want to say DAT u don't want your baby to suck on your wife's boobs... Thanks once again...(buh its still paining mi sha) |
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