danbrowndmf:
hmmm the "Ok" was jus lyk u shun me




pls im i bothering u? or stalking u?.

MzNelly:


It won't happen.
Whether its on this site, in person, or wherever.

It's not guts, it is what it is.

mentorandfriend:
Nne just jejely drop your control digits if you're too confident and let me prove you wrong; if you really wanna play. Amma sweep you off ur feet in days. I dont do nairaland shyte.

Lala247:

Yup

danbrowndmf:
Alryt,sorry,i BackOFF frm Now On.hv a nyc Day!

MzNelly:


I don't want to waste your time....and mine.

mentorandfriend:
Hehehe. I talk am. Truth is you've not met guys with the x-factor. All these your talk of "if a girl doesnt want you" na for your pocket o. You go fall hopelessly.

Minemrys:
I kinda find it funny when guys claim to be chasing a girl for m0nths and still n0t lucky to have her. You kn0w why? Cause they s0metimes show obsessi0n or d0n't follow the right procedure. The 0ne rule to getting a girl is attracti0n and having a chemistry with her. Get her to be attracted to you. Never try impressing her cos she'll never take you seriously. Instead Let her try impressing you.

To get a hard to get gal c0mes with attracti0n, flirty talks, be suspense filled and interesting with a little bit of mystery clamouring you. Then try ign0ring her or paying less attenti0n to her after your antiques, you'll see the difference. Girls like interesting and mysterious guys n0t the ones that her one sided with obsessi0n, they see them as sex freaks.
The worst a guy can do is to show obsessi0n. Ur obsessi0n freaks her into n0t taking u seriously and treating u like dirt. Getting a lady isn't supposed to take a guy m0re than 2 m0nths. If it does see your physician. Thanks.

MzNelly:


I won't
I'm sorry if this doesn't soothe your ego, but I honestly won't.

Thank you.
E.O.D.

mentorandfriend:
Lol @ego. Lol @soothe. Hehehehe. Some of those who come to nairaland to flaunt "I wont" usually have one low lifer screwing them at will. Only in nairaland can ladies form all these virtue and hard-to-get ambassadors. Not refering to you please. Just making a general statement sweetie.

MzNelly:


That is an undeniable fact.

But not everyone who says "I won't" will.
Just believe.

MzNelly:
Whatchu say?

If a girl doesn't want you, she don't want you.
All these one is story

bond77:

Hemmmmm,...... how many bottles of beer did you drink before you post this^^^^

Minemrys:
I kinda find it funny when guys claim to be chasing a girl for m0nths and still n0t lucky to have her. You kn0w why? Cause they s0metimes show obsessi0n or d0n't follow the right procedure. The 0ne rule to getting a girl is attracti0n and having a chemistry with her. Get her to be attracted to you. Never try impressing her cos she'll never take you seriously. Instead Let her try impressing you.

To get a hard to get gal c0mes with attracti0n, flirty talks, be suspense filled and interesting with a little bit of mystery clamouring you. Then try ign0ring her or paying less attenti0n to her after your antiques, you'll see the difference. Girls like interesting and mysterious guys n0t the ones that her one sided with obsessi0n, they see them as sex freaks.
The worst a guy can do is to show obsessi0n. Ur obsessi0n freaks her into n0t taking u seriously and treating u like dirt. Getting a lady isn't supposed to take a guy m0re than 2 m0nths. If it does see your physician. Thanks.

EnlightenedSoul:
I support the action 100%. If you're unwanted and/or shown no interest, please learn to back the heck off and stop being a nuisance. See if she'll chase you.

The prevalence of the notion that a girl must be "playing hard to get" when she says no is both irritating, and ridiculously draining. Why is it that you have to say NO a handful of times before plain English is well and understood? But no, it has to be a freakin' process:

First: HINT. HINT. HINT. 'No'.
Second: No. 'Noooo.'
Third: Polite reasons. 'No!'
Fourth: Avoidance - looking over your shoulder. 'No!!!'
Fifth? Sixth? Seventh? Tenth? 'No! No! No! Nooooo!!!'

'Till the point sheer exasperation forces you to completely lose your marbles, and say something abominably sharp-tonged that inevitably makes 'em walk off in a huff. This action is quickly followed by a wash of shock (wow, he's actually walking away. Never seen his back before..), guilt (wowzers, I just said that, but OMG it actually worked(?). Gosh, should I apologize?? No, don't. Donttt!), wonder (should I be this fvcking rude to begin with??), and finally...pure unadulterated RELIEF.

*Buys herself a cold coffee*

Lala247:

Thanks

Eliba:
Tomorrow is my birthday,i am so happy,pls join me celebrate,thanks.

EnlightenedSoul:


Beer? Beer?? And you call yourself Bond77 (as in James-freakin'-Bond)?

To answer you, I spoke the truth in a purely uninebriated state of mind. I'm currently high on coffee, textbooks, and the distracting I-Want-That smell of a stranger someone's parfum that I reallyyy don't need, but want. Should I ask what it is?

danbrowndmf:
hmmm the "Ok" was jus lyk u shun me




pls im i bothering u? or stalking u?.

MzNelly:


Oya, make me want you.

Minemrys:

That's n0t quite true. Girls d0n't kn0w what they want. We guys determine if they want us or if they d0n't. Mznelly, can u be attracted to s0me0ne u d0n't want? Thats impossible. Re read my write up and its inner meaning. Its all about psychology. Again, gals d0n't kn0w what they want.

refreshrate:


Why you sef go dey declare like dat on top the guy post? Anyway make i no too yarn. How much you go need?

MzNelly:
Whatchu say?

If a girl doesn't want you, she don't want you.
All these one is story

Jezyfreezman:
Iss0kay
Abeg suLe, Let Em h0es cum Thr0uqh

crudedude:
I'm very positive the OP is a teenager. How do I know? he types with a zero (0) in place of O.

it's mostly teenagers that do such.

I did it once.

olrotimi:

My point though, op isn't applicable to all girls. It holds true mostly for ladies who haven't really made up their mind on the kinda guy she wants, still testing the waters.
I usually tell my girlfriends, "we've been friends for months, hung out together, shared interesting moments.......then I venture to formally ask you out and ur giving me the "thinking about it response",I wldnt ask a second time, and if I don't get a response within days, I switch my mind to someone else". Whatever had she been doing with the previous months of our friendship? Spending my money about it?

Minemrys:
I kinda find it funny when guys claim to be chasing a girl for m0nths and still n0t lucky to have her. You kn0w why? Cause they s0metimes show obsessi0n or d0n't follow the right procedure. The 0ne rule to getting a girl is attracti0n and having a chemistry with her. Get her to be attracted to you. Never try impressing her cos she'll never take you seriously. Instead Let her try impressing you.

To get a hard to get gal c0mes with attracti0n, flirty talks, be suspense filled and interesting with a little bit of mystery clamouring you. Then try ign0ring her or paying less attenti0n to her after your antiques, you'll see the difference. Girls like interesting and mysterious guys n0t the ones that her one sided with obsessi0n, they see them as sex freaks.
The worst a guy can do is to show obsessi0n. Ur obsessi0n freaks her into n0t taking u seriously and treating u like dirt. Getting a lady isn't supposed to take a guy m0re than 2 m0nths. If it does see your physician. Thanks.

lefulefu:

Tafidah:

lol guy u dey my head, u wey knw?