Today being 22nd of march 2015,I have come to
d realization that putting my eggs in one basket
will be my greatest mistake of life apart from d
ones I have already made.yes I know that i love
her but i don't think that this will stand d test
of time,then why caging myself because of her
since this is all I could get?y scaring away all d
ones am with and d ones that are willing to play
along with me?i don't think it worth it anymore
cos even thou she is d one my heart desires
should that be d reason why she should b
controlling me like a puppet?will I die if I later
don't get married to her? It's time I care less
about her and her relationship with d opposite
sex and mind mine,after all no one will get all
that he desires.oh yes I desire her but what if d
desire is not available won't d available become d
desire?someone begged me to attend her matric
today even to d extent of traveling from Omaba
down here to okpoko to invite me and I didn't
honor it today cos of her but what did i get in
return?I canceled an appointment with a friend
infront of her today,what did I got in return?
am suppose to visit and spend time with my
Aunty on Sundays but I don't normally go cos of
her,what do I get?am I not her puppet?I think
it's time I play my cards my own way and if she
don't like it let her bounce,after all in future
she is prone to leave me to follow a moneybag if
her parents,peers or mates insult her for being
with a poor boy from a poor background like me,
I think i rushed in too fast cos am just 23 this
year,am suppose to focus on what life has to
offer.God i need ur intervention cos i don't have
control of this heart of mine since evening,can I
possibly sleep this night?

You ARE the problem, not her!
It is very obvious!
Typical BLACK man and emotional instability!
Abeg, go cure yasef before you marry o!
You are doomed to fail because you lack any sense of direction in your life!

*thanks for not posting the yeye blog. lack of originality still smelling in the h-air*

. . . . . Logging off! Back to my Netflix jare!!!!! Off for 4 days and loving it!!!!!

Your write up showcases a future nagging husband With a capital letter N

The last time I checked, friendship/relationships calls for sacrifice most times.

If you don't want to sacrifice, do not be in them.

You are young and still got a lot to learn in those department.

@Richy.what do u mean when u talk about sacrifice in relationship here, what makes u do sure that I hadn't sacrifice anything here? @Kanwulia,I don't understand it point here.

You have found a perfect word to describe what you are...naive.I could add immature,unstable to it.

All the stuff you've typed up there is just you saying a lot without actually saying anything. It's called ranting-not for real men.

Focus on finding yourself a place in life. Live, learn,grow up and then you can figure out the rest.

Move on
Make money

So stop acting like her puppet.

It is never her problem but yours bro. If at 23 you still do all these things you wrote down, then trouble is looming.

You have to man up.

Op sorry oh. Kpele.
Is this the first time you are having a broken heart?

Don't worry, it will get better OK?

All those people above me forming boss, "you are not a real man" group, the same thing has happened to each and every one of them.
They too have learned their lesson.

I remember when I was a soldier, I travelled from Kwara to port Harcourt all cos of some babe who didn't appreciate it.

I was naive then.

I am hardened now.

Get hardened bro.

Pick yourself up and get hardened.
. The ladies, they don't like the nice guys.

They want domination. A man who will treat them like they are an afterthought. A man who acts with confidence and damns the consequences.

Man up bro.

MAN UP.