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You travel by road all the way from Kano to Ibadan and she treats you like shit

When are you going to wake up and smell the coffee 

You are only wasting your time with her. Be a man and be firm with your decision at calling it quits.

It seems she enjoys all the attention and sacrifices you are making for her sake which is the reason she is not willing to let you go.

A relationship should never ever be one-sided affair.

@ Funkybaby, Well said mate.

are you her bf or her uncle?

Bro pls move on before something bad happens to you on the road . . . God forbid but the girl will simply forget you and move on.

She doesn’t even smile anytime she sees me, she just keeps frowning anytime she’s with me.

Hehehe . She doesn't like you. If I liked a guy, I don't mind jumping the fence to see him, parental restrictions or not.

@ poster
what part of this your story makes it unclear to you that you should bounce this girl?
Guy imagine the amount of money you spend on your sorrow-seeking journeys! Dump the girl and use the money to seek joy for christsakes!!

Guy i dont know exactly how you feel for this lady but did you just mention OSU(OOU)? oboy fashi abeg, na OSU the babe even de na im you de here de kill yourself, i tire for your kain person. OSU we night no de, we bi se na flexing na im be the other of the day, before dem carry am go 'belle' three times she don forget your name sef.

Wo my man kano might be boring but you know what no place aint boring you only have to spice it up.
Look for new friends and have dem hook you up with happening babes in Kano,

I go even like know how Hausa babes de mourn seriously i aint trying to be naughty here but to let you know you are in a good spot and should use the best of it.

she is using your head and eating your hard earned money. All the so called fake cries are just to get ur attention cos she sees you as a weakling

She's not yours. Go get another chic.

@ Poster, you already got good advice I believe. However, should you be in doubt that you need to leave IMMEDIATELY, please do! I don't find this situation amusing as I can relate with what you have narrated. Take it from someone who has experienced it: LEAVE NOW and don't care about anyone's pleas or tears. I am sure there are several BETTER options in Kano.

@ poster

bra, you have your answer already. Next thing is implementation.
Hope you will come back and tell us what happened. Good luck!

"She's just not into you". . . .can't wait to watch that movie sef

guy, hope that you've taken to the advice of these wonderful nairalanders, hope you've don the bold thing, move on

poster, if u r really in luv with this chik, use this strategy by gaining the ground of a field marshal in the relationship, as in the commanding BOSS. Tell her that if there is persistence in what you complain about, then it will be finally over, and u wont be accepting any apology to bring about any make up, then if thereafter the same thing happens, my guy vamoose from the relationship.

I swear there's one thing alot of them lover boys dnt understand, if u got a gurl ur really in luv with, and things start to go wrong, u'll feel insecured thinking u might not find any other gurl like this IF U LOSE HER, but believe me you, by the time u have another gurl, she'll be quickly forgotten, fresher love has stepped in and might probably still step out. Love is a bird, and it needs to fly, it dnt stay one place unless u want to cage it, and caging it takes alot of sacrifices. CHAO!!

Do you need an oracle to tell you that she's not that into you? That she's probably stringing you along as backup? I beg you with everything you hold sacred, just gather up the shreds of your self esteem and find some other girl that deserves you.

I remember when i was still dating my husband, he would punish himself to travel to see me. He would do late night plane rides, night bus if need be, name it he did it. And you can bet your last dollar that i was at the other end biting my nails and looking out of my window a hundred times to see if he was coming yet.  Not treating him poorly on arrival. Life is too short to spend affection on someone who doesnt deserve it. 

Shait! I am soooo angry with your gf!!!!! Abeg ohhh. . . It takes two hands to clap!

For me if I were in your shoes, I would tll her off how I feel and if she doesnt change soon, I will tell her that perhaps we do not see each other anymore.

She will kill you eventually. . . . . . .

spoilt:

Do you need an oracle to tell you that she's not that into you? That she's probably stringing you along as backup? I beg you with everything you hold sacred, just gather up the shreds of your self esteem and find some other girl that deserves you.

I remember when i was still dating my husband, he would punish himself to travel to see me. He would do late night plane rides, night bus if need be, name it he did it. And you can bet your last dollar that i was at the other end biting my nails and looking out of my window a hundred times to see if he was coming yet.  Not treating him poorly on arrival. Life is too short to spend affection on someone who doesnt deserve it. 

holy mackerel, why did I just laugh like a mad man?

Poster, if I were you, I keep this girl as my phocking partner and I have another girl where she would always appreciates me for who I am.

Its not going to be very easy but just try as hard as you can to make up your mind and just forget about her. its not going to be easy just try.[td][/td]

gabrywyl:

Shait! I am soooo angry with your gf!!!!! Abeg ohhh. . . It takes two hands to clap!

For me if I were in your shoes, I would tll her off how I feel and if she doesnt change soon, I will tell her that perhaps we do not see each other anymore.

She will kill you eventually. . . . . . .

Nice pics you have there. I just hope thats you.

please forget about the foolish girl and fine your level.she is not ready yet

@topic the girl is obviously confused ~~~~~like most confused girls
.Apart from traveling and spending money on her,do you take time to educate her,teach her and talk with her?She might have had a terrible past _{i doubt if she is naive},hence the surveillance by her folks.

Lest I forget,
Rule No 1 of work ethics-Never travel out of your state for a thing as unproductive as meeting a girl

[i]offtopic- does it mean you've never seen her kini?