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Guyz Pls Help Decode This by clemz85(m): 2:57pm On Mar 25, 2015
there is this babe that came boldly to me in quest of
dating, she had made all her interest open,
now I'm a guy with a strict decision not to date any
girl I can't marry left to bleep her, I made my own interest open too, I told her I'm yet to fall in love that
I have not been in love, don't love her, she got angry
said I'm wicked, ok, after much ado, she locked up for
some days but started calling again, yesterday we meet at an Eatery where she spilled all her emotions out, this time I said to her something I considered
the silliest thing to a lady but it was challenging,

I asked her if she is trynna use me to satisfy her urge
or pass time till she meet another guy, when I said this
she buried her face for five mins that I had to lift her,
her face turned red, her eyes was full, she couldn't look at my face or utter a word, she was weak emotionally.
I had to cheer her up, later she became elated.

guyz was that guilty or hurt?
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by dharay99: 2:59pm On Mar 25, 2015
ehmm...

Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by ipleddge: 3:07pm On Mar 25, 2015
Make I buy land here
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by ipleddge: 3:08pm On Mar 25, 2015
Am coming
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by Nobody: 3:09pm On Mar 25, 2015
Situation critical
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by goodmorning40: 3:09pm On Mar 25, 2015
Only I were there I would know, next time seek my presence
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by clemz85(m): 3:10pm On Mar 25, 2015
chei!!!!! dem don start
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by clemz85(m): 3:11pm On Mar 25, 2015
goodmorning40:
Only I were there I would know, next time seek my presence

Amen
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by clemz85(m): 3:11pm On Mar 25, 2015
kevinberry:
Situation critical

911 calling...
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by Nobody: 3:14pm On Mar 25, 2015
clemz85:


911 calling...
Lol
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by cutieberie1(f): 3:17pm On Mar 25, 2015
it was hurt.......op y...
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by purplesummer(f): 3:17pm On Mar 25, 2015
I don't know what she felt...but I think you are beginning to fall for her undecided
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by Dotwillis1(m): 3:22pm On Mar 25, 2015
Hey nigga, What is it yhu want us to ' decode now
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by clemz85(m): 3:25pm On Mar 25, 2015
cutieberie1:
it was hurt.......op y...

I can't afford pretending, I think that could be the worst, I guess it was hurt though, so I cheered her up later
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by clemz85(m): 3:26pm On Mar 25, 2015
purplesummer:
I don't know what she felt...but I think you are beginning to fall for her undecided

you must be coming from some point I wish to know,

y did U say dat?
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by clemz85(m): 3:28pm On Mar 25, 2015
Dotwillis1:
Hey nigga, What is it yhu want us to ' decode now

sorry, not like TV decoder,
I meant figure out why she behaved like that, aah
read the last sentence na
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by cutieberie1(f): 3:30pm On Mar 25, 2015
clemz85:


I can't afford pretending, I think that could be the worst, I guess it was hurt though, so I cheered her up later

lol...oky
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by clemz85(m): 3:30pm On Mar 25, 2015
dharay99:
ehmm...

how far? Ifa don respond?
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by clemz85(m): 3:31pm On Mar 25, 2015
dharay99:
ehmm...

how far? Ifa don respond?
ayam still dey wait
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by dharay99: 3:35pm On Mar 25, 2015
cutieberie1:
it was hurt.......op y...

wat are u lookin 4on d floor, u miss shoe wear ni? @ur dp.
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by dharay99: 3:38pm On Mar 25, 2015
clemz85:


how far? Ifa don respond?
ayam still dey wait

ifa no gree get answer for ur problem...abeg shift, Tb Joshua myt b of assistance. lipsrsealed
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by clemz85(m): 3:53pm On Mar 25, 2015
dharay99:


wat are u lookin 4on d floor, u miss shoe wear ni? @ur dp.

wow! she no bad o, what do you think?
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by leshluap(m): 4:02pm On Mar 25, 2015
story for the goddess......
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by leshluap(m): 4:03pm On Mar 25, 2015
?
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by clemz85(m): 4:04pm On Mar 25, 2015
leshluap:
story for the goddess......

wetin de work U naa?
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by ozyblazze: 4:28pm On Mar 25, 2015
these nairalanders sha
just don't have pity-sex with the her
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by suyamasta(m): 4:31pm On Mar 25, 2015
clemz85:
there is this babe that came boldly to me in quest of
dating, she had made all her interest open,
now I'm a guy with a strict decision not to date any
girl I can't marry left to bleep her, I made my own interest open too, I told her I'm yet to fall in love that
I have not been in love, don't love her, she got angry
said I'm wicked, ok, after much ado, she locked up for
some days but started calling again, yesterday we meet at an Eatery where she spilled all her emotions out, this time I said to her something I considered
the silliest thing to a lady but it was challenging,

I asked her if she is trynna use me to satisfy her urge
or pass time till she meet another guy, when I said this
she buried her face for five mins that I had to lift her,
her face turned red, her eyes was full, she couldn't look at my face or utter a word, she was weak emotionally.
I had to cheer her up, later she became elated.

guyz was that guilty or hurt?
If u like her then accept her if, u dont then tell her u can just be friends!
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by Nobody: 5:07pm On Mar 25, 2015
this is why its always dfficult for a lady to walk up to a guy & profess her feeling to him, guys will like this babe is a spoilt babe.

guy that question you asked her was to make her feel approaching you in the first place was wrong, you made her feel a bad girl.
just leave her & let her be, she will get over you instead of pretending to her,bleep her & then dump her.
dont hurt her anymore, pls let her be
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by clemz85(m): 5:08pm On Mar 25, 2015
suyamasta:

If u like her then accept her if, u dont then tell her u can just be friends!

she knows that, I told her once I'm not ready for date she said we should just be friends
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by jaybee3(m): 5:10pm On Mar 25, 2015
oya

for yaself.....

You made a girl cry hehehehehehhe


On the more serious note though, rejection is hard to take more so if the initial approach was made by the girl. You have to be mature in dealing with her obvious dissapointment. Explain to her that you appreciate the friendship that you have and would have dated her if the other extenuating circumstances where different.
Reassure her that you value your friendship with her and wouldn't want it to suffer because of this


lo ba tan

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Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by clemz85(m): 5:16pm On Mar 25, 2015
Midehi:
this is why its always dfficult for a lady to walk up to a guy & profess her feeling to him, guys will like this babe is a spoilt babe.

guy that question you asked her was to make her feel approaching you in the first place was wrong, you made her feel a bad girl.
just leave her & let her be, she will get over you instead of pretending to her,bleep her & then dump her.
dont hurt her anymore, pls let her be

let's face the truth, girls are naturally gravitated to reserve guys, I can dig that with you, I'm talking from experience,
I admit I was wrong, and I don't plan to bleep her, how else do I make her go?
Re: Guyz Pls Help Decode This by clemz85(m): 5:23pm On Mar 25, 2015
jaybee3:
oya

for yaself.....

You made a girl cry hehehehehehhe


On the more serious note though, rejection is hard to take more so if the initial approach was made by the girl. You have to be mature in dealing with her obvious dissapointment. Explain to her that you appreciate the friendship that you have and would have dated her if the other extenuating circumstances where different.
Reassure her that you value your friendship with her and wouldn't want it to suffer because of this


lo ba tan

well that logical but idea of implicating the whole issue on her making the 1st move is still unaccepted by me. what would you do if the wrong one fall for you? take her cuz she's the one that fall?

hm, this is serious

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