Couple of months ago, this charming man asked me out on a date. He happens to be a regular customer at the bank I work. He has almost all the qualities one can ever ask for in a man. Rich, handsome, caring, romantic, everything. I love him a lot, but he is gay. As in, I couldn't believe it too but I noticed he doesn't make moves for sex anytime we are together, even though we do romance and smooch. I am against premarital sex myself, so I only thought he was waiting till marriage like me. Until I discovered some unusual text messages and whatsapp chats between him and one of his close friends that always behaves like a girl. The messages seem too romantic and sexually-suggestive to be for just friends. I haven't asked him and he hasn't told me anything, but I already can tell he is homosexual. He keeps saying he wants to marry me and that his mom wants him to marry soon. I've met his parents, and he has met mine. We are about fixing time for the introduction, though he is yet to officially propose. I am afraid he won't be able to behave like a normal man sexually if we eventually marry, though I want to risk it since good men like him are hard to find. Can he change if we start having regular sex during marriage? Is there any way I can make him straight? I don't want to lose him.


I just got this. Any expert opinions?

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Help? .... *walks outta thread*

so.... this is not something that happened to you but you found it on another blog?

25omega:
so.... this is not something that happened to you but you found it on another blog?

I didn't find it on any blog. It was sent to www.confessionsnigeria.com Nigeria's first anonymous portal