Orijin101:
Love gat nothing to do with age, if you love her, then you are free to stick to her.

Tallesty1:
I won't advise you or anybody to marry a woman who is older than him.

I know that people here will tell you that age is just number but isn't jail a room?


A time will come when you will regret marrying her no matter how good she is atm.

deleib:
Hello, Nairalander. I need your candid advice. I am in love with a lady who is a little bit older and educated than i am. I have tried hard to fight the feeling but she just keep coming and always admiring me. It's a confusing one. Now, my fear is that if i venture into d relationship, it might not last. Infact i even see her as a wife material but the age barrier sucks.

deleib:
Bro, she's nt my gigolo. I love her.

khia:



I am shocked.
You have met a woman who is good to you that you love and feel she would make a loving wife for you and you are worried about a very very small age difference of 3 years not 10 but 3?
I am just as shocked at people telling you there is something wrong with it. Please follow your heart and don't litsen to the people who are stuck in a time warp, to those who it applies, don't get mad atleast I didn't call you backwards.
Narialand suprises me everyday, I guess that's what keeps it interesting.

Tallesty1:
The emboldened is the worst advice ever.

EroticAngelina:
fvcking age doesn't matter.
love and comparability z what matters. so go for it as long as she feels the same.

rawpadgin:
more than 20 share no likes how u do am pass

#fraudstar

charijee:
3yrs is no biggie.....love is ageless

starlingleanets:
una fit marry sm1 3yrs younger than you?

charijee:
Even 5yrs

khia:



It is very good advice, the heart is guided by the brain, and hopefully he is smart enough to weigh the pros and cons of the situation just as everyone should do when considering marriage.
Tallesty1 are you married? If you are you did what I advised him to do, you followed your heart.

starlingleanets:
pigs will fly if you can do that

Tallesty1:
Listen dear, I am not here to claim I sabi too much but follow your heart is the worst advice to give a confused person.

Follow your heart isn't really an advice sef, rather it is a terrible encouragement to do whatever it is he wanted to do in the first place.

The assumption when the follow your heart advice is given is that s/he generally knows what they are doing, that they have all of the resources within them to understand what they must do in order to avoid mistake. But the problem is they don’t; that’s why s/he is asking for advice in the first place.

Do you think he will be here begging for advice if he can trust his heart?

Telling someone who asked you for advice to follow his/her heart automatically puts them back to the place they started: lost.

Jeremiah says, “The heart is deceitful above all things and beyond cure. Who can understand it?” (Jeremiah 17:9)

follow your heart is the worst advice ever.




I am not married, and I don't see it happening soon.

charijee:
let them get ready to cos I'm about doing that