all4naija:
No, you are supposed to be intelligent from a civilized perspective. Many of you use too much emotions to address issues. Feminists by hearts aren't reasonable enough to understand they are going too far with some of their views when they are not necessarily required of them.

Mandu94:


I'm going to ignore that statement.

all4naija:
No, you are supposed to be intelligent from a civilized perspective. Many of you use too much emotions to address issues. Feminists by heart aren't reasonable enough to understand they are going too far with some of their views when they are not necessarily required of them.

Mandu94:

"Don't try to go personal with me. Firstly the request was simple yet the employee took it so personal he ignored her. That shows his ignorance and how he views women.

Once again he WOULD have done it if the manager was a man."

He said I doubt you have worked in a structured company before. (You know what all4naija, Im sick and tired of you) . You take it like a man vs woman issue. I don't.

This is why I like you. You have uncontrollable anger at times. .You take everything personal. I understand that but if he rejected a male boss in the same manner you wouldn't say the same thing. Let's be sincere with ourselves for once. Don't you think the female boss overreacted?

Emodeee:


dat YANSH is fit for a doggy style. U dn't even need to bend ya kneels and touch ur toes@ya dp.

all4naija:
This is why I like you. You have uncontrollable anger at times. .You take everything personal. I understand that but if he rejected a male boss in the same manner you wouldn't say the same thing. Let's be sincere with ourselves for once. Don't you think the female boss overreacted?

Mandu94:


Ofcourse it will be different. And that's where you don't understand.

It won't be different. The fact that most women who gravitate toward the ideology of feminism often than not react negatively in most situations like the one we are discussing about. This is a single incidence though. There have been many instances around the world where female bosses receive fair treatment from male employees than the female ones. You are begging the question by procrastinating on what you think the outcome would look like when it is a male boss involved and it is not helping in your fight for equality.

How are you? No fighting, please!

all4naija:

It won't be different. The fact that most women who gravitate toward the ideology of feminism often than not react negatively in most situations like the one we are discussing about. This is a single incidence though. There have been many instances around the world where female bosses receive fair treatment from male employees than the female ones. You are begging the question by procrastinating on what you think the outcome would look like when it is a male boss involved and it is not helping in your fight for equality.

How are you? No fighting, please!

Mandu94:


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Jeez! What is that one for? You are very complicated to say the least!

all4naija:
Jeez! What is that one for? You are very complicated to say the least!

Mandu94:


Why do you keep emailing me. I cant even access the emails.

all4naija:
Just to see around. You can pm me so that I can email you properly. How are you?

Mandu94:


All4Naja, I don't like how you spoke to the girl about dating whether she should date the african American. You cross the line of being highly opinionated person to being a bully.

all4naija:
Oh,yeah! What has that got to do with this thread?

Mandu94:


And what has asking me whether I'm okay, got to do with the thread either.

Mandu94:


But he would have done it if she was a man. Its the problem with society and how men look down on women. He should be respectful he is an employee.

pcguru1:


That's actually false, because they mentioned peers there's no way I would carry peer's bad just because his father owns the company. regardless of the sex I would turn them down. It's not in my job description, also he is respectful as an employee but not a servant, he's duties are confined to his work and not personal tasks. Also am curious how has refusing to help someone got anything to do with how the society looks at women. There are women in top organizations who men look up to; so not sure where you're getting at.

klark3:
I was employed as an architect in a medium size architectural firm, my boss happens to be a lady.

I hitched a ride in her car after a meeting with a client on site, It's was even my first time of hitching a ride in her car, as I have always eschewed it, on getting to the office she asked me to carry her hand bag along, but I turned deaf ear to her request and swiftly went straight to the office, but she came to my office and gave me a sullen glare.

I thought the malice won't last long, but unfortunately for me, she fired me this morning for a no cogent reason.

I'm downcast and bewildered, she's just privilege to be the manager because it's her dad firm, she's my contemporary, and I was on the verge of supervising a gigantic project.

Was I wrong?

Mandu94:


Little events represent larger issues. Its about being able to see that rather than seeing things literally. You may say that you will refuse if it was a man, however you see it more degrading if it were a woman.

. This is done tongue-in-cheek way.

Mandu94:


Little events represent larger issues. Its about being able to see that rather than seeing things literally. You may say that you will refuse if it was a man, however you see it more degrading if it were a woman.

Mandu94:


Every guy who likes this statement hasn't had sex for a long time. # No to sexism

all4naija:
I do! I like that post.But, you are speculating.

Mandu94:


I know lol

Okay. Are you still a feminist by heart? How are you? I know you hate to be asked about your condition.

Mandu94:


That's where you miss the point, it wasn't trivial as he displayed uttermost disrespect by entirely un-acknowledging her request. This means he undermines her authority therefore it is essential that he is fired to sustain a healthy workforce and environment. This has nothing to do with her self esteem, it is simply the problem many men have as a result of patriarchy over centuries. This very primitive mindset will cause society to be quite restricted. And be very honest to yourself, he would have behaved differently is she was a man.
#Equality for women

klark3:
I was employed as an architect in a medium size architectural firm, my boss happens to be a lady.

I hitched a ride in her car after a meeting with a client on site, It's was even my first time of hitching a ride in her car, as I have always eschewed it, on getting to the office she asked me to carry her hand bag along, but I turned deaf ear to her request and swiftly went straight to the office, but she came to my office and gave me a sullen glare.

I thought the malice won't last long, but unfortunately for me, she fired me this morning for a no cogent reason.

I'm downcast and bewildered, she's just privilege to be the manager because it's her dad firm, she's my contemporary, and I was on the verge of supervising a gigantic project.

Was I wrong?

mexzony:
Pls he is not wrong. Handbag is not part of the job description.Nigerians just like taking ppl for granted just because they are in a higher position.

duni04:

There's a thin line between humility and preserving your dignity. Its sad that people like you don't know where the line is. You're probably the kind of person that'll eat shît to get a job. Smh for u

eyeview:
You weren't wrong. It was never stated in the offer letter that you job description included carrying her hand bag. She has inferiority complex and she could only overcome it by seeing you do attend to her domestic needs. She wanted to cross the line and you didn't let her. That's the same way some people get to start doing uncomplimentary things to keep their jobs. You were a man.
Don't feel bad,other jobs will turn up.