Hello all, I need to help a friend out here, his marriage is falling apart.
Married barely a year ago and very much in love with each other and all seemed so wonderfully well for this new couple until his wife got this new job and barely 3months into the new job, she was sexually assaulted by her boss. As the story goes, she was in the office when her boss asked her to accompany him to an official location to see a client. en-route, the client site, her boss claims the car developed a fault and proposed that since his house was close by, he can manage 2 drive down there, park the car and get them a taxi to continue his journey. Well they get to the house and upon inviting her into the house, he eventually rapes and sexually assaults her.

She calls her husband who in obvious outrage gets her to the clinic and files a report, the assailant upon hearing of the vengeful venom of the husband comes begging with a host of emissaries and offers a sum of money which the husband reluctantly accepts upon several pleas. However he didnt mention a thing about the money to his wife or family as he claims he wasn't right thinking at the time. Eventually the wife gets to know of the said sum and feels her husband has exploited her. In a turn of events, the boss is now claiming that the said lady and her husband colluded to swindle him of the sum of money.

At the moment the wife has moved out of the matrimonial home on the claim that her husband has sold her and she has not returned for close to 2months. All pleas to the wife to explain why he didnt mention the money issue has fallen on deaf ears, the wife seems set not to return, please Nairalanders what can I tell my friend he is loosing himself. She would not talk to him, she wouldnt pick his calls and she also avoids his friends who try to wade into the debacle. She has also avoided his family members who only wanted to settle the issue.

My friend loves his wife so much Kiss and this is hitting him like a tsunami of sorts Huh Huh, , please what do you think? Is something else going on, is he having an affair with the boss?, was she actually raped as she claims?, please help with your insightful views,

Nairalanders, I need you views again. If u recall, sometime lasy year I mentioned of a newly married couple 9about 10months old) whose wife came home and said she was raped by her boss. Out of rage and certain circumstances the husband collects a N1m naira from the bosse's family which the wife latter finds out and as a result she moves out and abandones her matrimonial home!! The husband has tried frantically for over 11months to mend fences and plead his wife but she insits that she won't come home, she also won't file for a divorce, please fellow nairalanders, what do you think she wants? she wont come back hime even after several pleadings and her husbands return of the N1m to the bosses' family, she wont even want 2 see him, she avoids her husbands calls, SMS's and all, she also wont file for divorce. Out of confusion, the husband wants to file for a divorce do you think this is a wise decison. I f he cant be forgiven then let him also move on!!

Please matured opinions is being humbly sough there!! Help, any questions for clarifications is welcome,

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mexy_fly:

Guys pls this is between ME an my WIFE!!

mexy_fly:

, she wont pick my calls, gush it's so demoralising

mexy_fly:

busybody; am so taken away by your comments!! u simply leave me breathless, for the first time in a long time am hearin words that sound like, "hey u goofed but this can help"

How i wish i could a few more chit chat and hints like these,
well the biggest battle i have is tryin 2 even understand her mood ; she wouldn't want to see me, she says she's scared about me - and that single language beats my imagination, here is someone we shared a life 2gether, then I slip and mess up and she won't even wanna hear my name,

she has changed her phone numbers and visited the house last weekend unannounced, though i wasnt home, she called and said she was in my place, my megaurad said the same thing, and she sounded so ;loving on the phone, am just so twisted and confused. sorry but busybody does she need forever to heal>, 12months away from me in a 2yrs marriage, gush!! am so so sorry and worried, pls help all the same,
Thanks for your though,

Treetop20:

This is not just any slip and mess up
she was raped! and you took some money
as well. What happened on the 13th?

mexy_fly:

busybody; am so taken away by your comments!! u simply leave me breathless, for the first time in a long time am hearin words that sound like, "hey u goofed but this can help"

How i wish i could a few more chit chat and hints like these,
well the biggest battle i have is tryin 2 even understand her mood ; she wouldn't want to see me, she says she's scared about me - and that single language beats my imagination, here is someone we shared a life 2gether, then I slip and mess up and she won't even wanna hear my name,

she has changed her phone numbers and visited the house last weekend unannounced, though i wasnt home, she called and said she was in my place, my megaurad said the same thing, and she sounded so ;loving on the phone, am just so twisted and confused. sorry but busybody does she need forever to heal>, 12months away from me in a 2yrs marriage, gush!! am so so sorry and worried, pls help all the same,
Thanks for your though,