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Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by Airforce1(m): 10:13am On Apr 05, 2015
LADIES OF TODAY: Anything a man do, I must do too.
There was peace in homes, the society and world at large when ladies have respect for their men. But today, even some modern-day churches encourage wives to claim equal rights with husbands. How sad!


Fortunately, a lady just agreed with what "A certain blogger" complained about. Read her take below:

I am not comfortable when the EQUAL RIGHTS sermon is brought into a relationship/marriage. The old fashioned girl in me sees such as a sermon for the WORK PLACE AND OTHER SOCIAL INTERACTIONS. 
Marriage is not ‘benefits’ to be divided into two equal parts but a COMMITMENT (by two individuals) to become ONE-in every sense of the word. Ladies, be careful how you use words that end up entrenching selfishness in your relationship/marriage.
 

I will rather preach FAIRNESS when it comes to RELATIONSHIPS/MARRIAGE. Personally, I would desire nothing more from one who sees me as he sees himself, treats me like he would treat himself, sees mine as his’ and his’ as mine. When ‘fairness’ is the bedrock of a marriage/relationship…’rights’ don’t matter. Who drags ‘rights’ with him/herself-anyway? 

Dear ladies, STOP demanding EQUAL RIGHTS from your man...
preach FAIRNESS (which means ‘treat me as you would treat yourself’). Honestly, I can’t imagine a more magic word!

Nobody (in his right mind) cheats on himself, harms himself, maltreats himself, shortchanges himself or gets violent with himself . Cultivating the marital virtue of fairness will give your marriage not only equality but closeness, and it will require you to continually work both on your own and together – as a couple.



http://www.olufamous.com/2015/04/read-ladys-take-on-woman-claiming-equal.html?utmsource=feedburner&m=1

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Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by vizkiz: 10:17am On Apr 05, 2015
this one whey airforce just dey open thread, shey you don turn superMod ni? grin

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Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by Airforce1(m): 10:18am On Apr 05, 2015
Cc feminist Vickybee

Trouble maker nneka123

Lalasticlala
grin
Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by dicefrost(m): 10:18am On Apr 05, 2015
The equal right movement
Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by Chazzyboy: 10:19am On Apr 05, 2015
Strong woman
Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by Tallesty1(m): 10:34am On Apr 05, 2015
Airforce1:
Cc feminist Vickybee

Trouble maker nneka123

Lalasticlala
grin
Confused Girls

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Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by swaggzo(m): 10:37am On Apr 05, 2015
EQUAL RIGHT. .. I THINK THAT'S A REALLY GREAT IDEA.

BUT THERE ARE LIMITS IN EVERY CASE
Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by njuwo(m): 11:20am On Apr 05, 2015
Airforce1:
LADIES OF TODAY: Anything a man do, I must do too.
There was peace in homes, the society and world at large when ladies have respect for their men. But today, even some modern-day churches encourage wives to claim equal rights with husbands. How sad!


Fortunately, a lady just agreed with what "A certain blogger" complained about. Read her take below:

I am not comfortable when the EQUAL RIGHTS sermon is brought into a relationship/marriage. The old fashioned girl in me sees such as a sermon for the WORK PLACE AND OTHER SOCIAL INTERACTIONS. 
Marriage is not ‘benefits’ to be divided into two equal parts but a COMMITMENT (by two individuals) to become ONE-in every sense of the word. Ladies, be careful how you use words that end up entrenching selfishness in your relationship/marriage.
 

I will rather preach FAIRNESS when it comes to RELATIONSHIPS/MARRIAGE. Personally, I would desire nothing more from one who sees me as he sees himself, treats me like he would treat himself, sees mine as his’ and his’ as mine. When ‘fairness’ is the bedrock of a marriage/relationship…’rights’ don’t matter. Who drags ‘rights’ with him/herself-anyway? 

Dear ladies, STOP demanding EQUAL RIGHTS from your man...
preach FAIRNESS (which means ‘treat me as you would treat yourself’). Honestly, I can’t imagine a more magic word!

Nobody (in his right mind) cheats on himself, harms himself, maltreats himself, shortchanges himself or gets violent with himself . Cultivating the marital virtue of fairness will give your marriage not only equality but closeness, and it will require you to continually work both on your own and together – as a couple.



http://www.olufamous.com/2015/04/read-ladys-take-on-woman-claiming-equal.html?utmsource=feedburner&m=1
Airforce1 all these topics wey you dey post for the past one week now, na them be the tracklists of your album?

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Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by Airforce1(m): 12:07pm On Apr 05, 2015
njuwo:
Airforce1 all these topics wey you dey post for the past one week now, na them be the tracklists of your album?

smiley

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Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by modskiller(m): 12:40pm On Apr 05, 2015
shocked shocked shocked shocked oh boy my eye wan bulge out, see women creativity.
Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by Nobody: 1:27pm On Apr 05, 2015
Any woman who thinks she and a man should share equal rights has something seriously wrong with her.

The word is fairness.
Treat me like you want to be treated.

Don't talk equality bullsh1t here, cos that sh1t is nonexistent.

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Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by wheesin(m): 1:48pm On Apr 05, 2015
I pity any woman requesting equal rights with me, she will have to be wearing boxers and must have a strong hard on every morning when she wakes up.. She will have to ..Kill me first cos she cant do any of this shiit undecided

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Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by Airforce1(m): 2:03pm On Apr 05, 2015
wheesin:
I pity any woman requesting equal rights with me, she will have to be wearing boxers and must have a strong boner every morning when she wakes up.. She will have to ..Kill me first cos she cant do any of this shiit undecided

grin
Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by Misogynist2014(m): 2:14pm On Apr 05, 2015
Airforce1:
Cc feminist Vickybee

Trouble maker nneka123

Lalasticlala
grin
Don't let a woman define you as a man. Adam was called Man before he met Eve. I also once bothered about feminism, but you can only see me comment on it mostly if it is on front page or about to hit lalasticlala. As a man, you have to be strong and independent. If you say A and your woman does B, it doesn't mean you are less man but she's disobedient. Feminism is a curse Gen 3:16, it is as old as man and carefully pened down in the Holy Bible, Esther 1 vs 1-22 .

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Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by Nobody: 2:34pm On Apr 05, 2015
Airforce1:
Cc feminist Vickybee

Trouble maker nneka123

Lalasticlala
grin
When the featherbrained lady you posted her jargons get the meaning of feminism, you can mention me for an intelligent conversation.

I'm not fighting for any equal rights because i'm equal with anybody both male and female all-together. No one can trample and ride on my ego because i'm a female. Dude, the world is fast evolving!

Feminism is fighting on how to change men view about us, eh.
-Empowering women to work hard.
-Making women to stop depending on guys financially. Work to make your own money and spare their insults.
-Changing our female archaic view e.g how can a man whistle at you and you answer him?. angry Are you a dog?
-Stopping women from objectifying themselves etc

Y'all need to get an education. I'm tired of ignorance of Nigerian men. angry

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Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by Airforce1(m): 2:44pm On Apr 05, 2015
Vickybee:

When the featherbrained lady you posted her jargons get the meaning of feminism, you can mention me for an intelligent conversation.

I'm not fighting for any equal rights because i'm equal with anybody both male and female all-together. No one can trample and ride on my ego because i'm a female. Dude, the world is fast evolving!

Feminism is fighting on how to change men view about us, eh.
-Empowering women to work hard.
-Making women to stop depending on guys financially. Work you own and spare their insults.
-Changing our female archaiac view e.g how can a man whistle at you and you answer him?. angry Are you a dog?
-Stopping women from objectifying themselves etc

Y'all need to get an education. I'm tired of ignorance of Nigerian men. angry

Mttcchheeww
Hisses on you in every dialect of Nigeria

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Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by Nobody: 2:51pm On Apr 05, 2015
Airforce1:


Mttcchheeww
Hisses on you in every dialect of Nigeria
Whatever! tongue

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Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by Nobody: 2:51pm On Apr 05, 2015
Vickybee:

When the featherbrained lady you posted her jargons get the meaning of feminism, you can mention me for an intelligent conversation.

I'm not fighting for any equal rights because i'm equal with anybody both male and female all-together. No one can trample and ride on my ego because i'm a female. Dude, the world is fast evolving!

Feminism is fighting on how to change men view about us, eh.
-Empowering women to work hard.
-Making women to stop depending on guys financially. Work you own and spare their insults.
-Changing our female archaiac view e.g how can a man whistle at you and you answer him?. angry Are you a dog?
-Stopping women from objectifying themselves etc

Y'all need to get an education. I'm tired of ignorance of Nigerian men. angry

What she said

*sips wine*

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Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by wheesin(m): 2:59pm On Apr 05, 2015
Vickybee:

When the featherbrained lady you posted her jargons get the meaning of feminism, you can mention me for an intelligent conversation.

I'm not fighting for any equal rights because i'm equal with anybody both male and female all-together. No one can trample and ride on my ego because i'm a female. Dude, the world is fast evolving!

Feminism is fighting on how to change men view about us, eh.
-Empowering women to work hard.
-Making women to stop depending on guys financially. Work you own and spare their insults.
-Changing our female archaiac view e.g how can a man whistle at you and you answer him?. angry Are you a dog?
-Stopping women from objectifying themselves etc

Y'all need to get an education. I'm tired of ignorance of Nigerian men. angry


ignorance of Nigerian men ?...ask your mum how to be a good wife..dnt go like this to your(may God save his soul) husbands house. undecided

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Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by Nobody: 3:08pm On Apr 05, 2015
Vickybee:

When the featherbrained lady you posted her jargons get the meaning of feminism, you can mention me for an intelligent conversation.

I'm not fighting for any equal rights because i'm equal with anybody both male and female all-together. No one can trample and ride on my ego because i'm a female. Dude, the world is fast evolving!

Feminism is fighting on how to change men view about us, eh.
-Empowering women to work hard.
-Making women to stop depending on guys financially. Work you own and spare their insults.
-Changing our female archaiac view e.g how can a man whistle at you and you answer him?. angry Are you a dog?
-Stopping women from objectifying themselves etc

Y'all need to get an education. I'm tired of ignorance of Nigerian men. angry
if fine boy whitsle u is allowed!! Hypocrisy

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Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by lilmax(m): 3:13pm On Apr 05, 2015
Airforce1:
Cc feminist Vickybee

Trouble maker nneka123

Lalasticlala
grin
so you think say vicky na really feminist? grin

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Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by Psalmwise(m): 3:14pm On Apr 05, 2015
dnt knw wat to say...
#emotional cry
Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by bigt2(m): 3:16pm On Apr 05, 2015
sad
Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by Doortun(m): 3:17pm On Apr 05, 2015
@Mznelly is one of the few realists

wheesin:

ignorance of Nigerian men...ask your mum how to be a good wife..dnt go like this to your(may God save his soul) husbands house. undecided

Please tell her, people who started the feminist movement blamed themselves after they saw the negative impact of their ideology. Some kiddos are now shouting feminism and equality.

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Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by bunmioguns(m): 3:17pm On Apr 05, 2015
undecided undecided

Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by spellingcheck(m): 3:18pm On Apr 05, 2015
cheesy
Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by bonechamberlain(m): 3:18pm On Apr 05, 2015
true
Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by adorablepepple(f): 3:18pm On Apr 05, 2015
undecided
Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by Ilekeh: 3:18pm On Apr 05, 2015
Airforce1:
LADIES OF TODAY: Anything a man do, I must do too.
There was peace in homes, the society and world at large when ladies have respect for their men. But today, even some modern-day churches encourage wives to claim equal rights with husbands. How sad!


Fortunately, a lady just agreed with what "A certain blogger" complained about. Read her take below:

I am not comfortable when the EQUAL RIGHTS sermon is brought into a relationship/marriage. The old fashioned girl in me sees such as a sermon for the WORK PLACE AND OTHER SOCIAL INTERACTIONS. 
Marriage is not ‘benefits’ to be divided into two equal parts but a COMMITMENT (by two individuals) to become ONE-in every sense of the word. Ladies, be careful how you use words that end up entrenching selfishness in your relationship/marriage.
 

I will rather preach FAIRNESS when it comes to RELATIONSHIPS/MARRIAGE. Personally, I would desire nothing more from one who sees me as he sees himself, treats me like he would treat himself, sees mine as his’ and his’ as mine. When ‘fairness’ is the bedrock of a marriage/relationship…’rights’ don’t matter. Who drags ‘rights’ with him/herself-anyway? 

Dear ladies, STOP demanding EQUAL RIGHTS from your man...
preach FAIRNESS (which means ‘treat me as you would treat yourself’). Honestly, I can’t imagine a more magic word!

Nobody (in his right mind) cheats on himself, harms himself, maltreats himself, shortchanges himself or gets violent with himself . Cultivating the marital virtue of fairness will give your marriage not only equality but closeness, and it will require you to continually work both on your own and together – as a couple.



http://www.olufamous.com/2015/04/read-ladys-take-on-woman-claiming-equal.html?utmsource=feedburner&m=1

She's an old fashion girl.

She has her right, let her speak for herself. Plus she sounds confused..... Equality vs Fairness.....girl stop!

I want equal pay......and to achieve that, we must fight for gender equality.

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Re: Read A Lady's Take On Woman Claiming Equal Rights With Men + Photo by OkikiOluwa1(m): 3:19pm On Apr 05, 2015
Soon, they ll say we are misogynists...

A sensible lady (the Op) saw the diff btw feminisim & agitating for fair treatment, an attention seeker like Vickybee dey claim otherwise...
Last Bullet
Women can just try, they can't be equal with men.
Only few of them ll be rising cos they are their selves greatest enemy.
Feminists always over do things...
A submissive lady enjoys the fruits of marriage.

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