ronald4lif:


Lol @ they took it to China. China has suffered.

I for one, share a handful of sentiment with the feminist ideology. But, I'm always vulnerable to fail in such debate especially when references are made from Bible and mostly supported by religion.

Most feminists that I know are either Atheist or Agnostics. I find it hard to comprehend when a strong Christian/Muslim believer are supporting feminism. I think it's contradictory and hypocritical to their belief. I stand to be corrected though.

50calibre:


You didn't answer my question. Will your dad give you out in marriage without collecting anything in return? It's inconsequential how rich he is, this is Nigerian tradition/norm, so will your dad break from this tradition?

Well, you can go on deluding yourself, like I said previously, you'd eventually outgrow this fantasy phase.

fellis:


@bold, how about the countless rapes and genocides and mass killings and terrorist bombings and child molestations and armed robberies men have been commiting since the beginning of time? hmmmmm??
why shouldn't we share the blame for all this disgusting acts on the men of today since y'all want to take credit for the acheivements made by men of yore.
if men are superior because they contributed more to building the world in the past, then that superiority would be cancelled and nullified by the psychopathic acts and crimes they have been carrying out right from time.

gospi:

Please wat do u understand by the word feminism or rada wat do u tink dey want? Or are tired of? I bet u don't know

Vickybee:

Definition of feminism doesn't contradict bible.

Unsubmissiveness does ; and he who has no sin should cast the first stone.

BTW, Feminism is entirely different from unsubmissiveness.

Vickybee:

If he collects anything, that's none my business. He fufilled his tradition but didn't sell me.

It doesn't mean that i'll cower for any man. If the man isn't interested anymore, he can go and collect his money back.

P.S - It's not all men that are anti-feminists. Atleast, I know handful of guys on this forum who are pro-feminists.

50calibre:


Ok!! Perhaps you need to prevail upon your dad to drop that tradition and embrace that of those who brought you feminism. It's your life, it's your well being, you can't separate your wishes from your dad's especially where you're the subject (here's your naivety speaking again)

I'm teaching you to be a real feminist, which isn't possible in a society where social/tradition obligations and expectations of men are far disproportionate to that of women.

[/b]There should be equality in every facet, start by abandoning there traditions which subjugate women by making life easier for them.[b]

Well there are no feminist on this forum (at least I haven't seen) just single or unmarried young girls who live out their fantasies online.

habeebcole:

wich of dem fit drive trailer........dem wan die

Vickybee:

SMH

By the way, if a man is paying my school fees; so? Did I force him to have sex with my mother?

MzNelly:
Any woman who thinks she and a man should share equal rights has something seriously wrong with her.

The word is fairness.
Treat me like you want to be treated.

Don't talk equality bullsh1t here, cos that sh1t is nonexistent.

gospi:

Shebi wen u shud b studying the bible u wl b studying newspaper . Just ask me politely to show u and I will. anyways follow me to d book of Galatians 3 vs 28.Now read

ronald4lif:


1) Thanks for the timely correction.

But can one be a submissive wife and at same time demand for equality?.

2) From my limited knowledge of the Bible I understand that many verses advocate for women to obey, respect their husband. Same Bible chapters/verses also made us know that a man is the head of the home. Sorry, I can't make reference to any chapter of the Bible that support my claims as I can't remember of any presently.

3) I also understand feminism is not just about gender equality on the domestic or home front affairs. So, your claim of it being different from unsubmissiveness is right. However, for the Bible, it preaches about women submission to their husband. Please correct me if I'm wrong.

Joavid:


Chai!
You are my sister from another mother.

Those girls shouting feminist don't know what they saying. But they join the bandwagon just because it sounds cool.

gradeA:


With this post, you dont deserve any intelligent
argument with any sane person.

You are just a childish, immature and silly
attention seeker.

I just hope when you grow up, you would equally
grow some brain in that skull of yours.

sacredheart:

erm please bro try to make sense..I'm finding it hard to grasp the essence of your post.. where exactly?

I'm trying to find exactly where in my post I mentioned anything related to those questions

ronald4lif:


Thanks for the timely correction.

But can one be a submissive wife and at same time demand for equality?. From my limited knowledge of the Bible I understand that many verses advocate for women to obey, respect their husband. Same Bible chapters/verses also made us know that a man is the head of the home. Sorry, I can't make reference to any chapter of the Bible that support my claims as I can't remember of any presently.

I also understand feminism is not just about gender equality on the domestic or home front affairs. So, your claim of it being different from unsubmissiveness is right. However, for the Bible, it preaches about women submission to their husband. Please correct me if I'm wrong.

zicoraads:
Uhmm...just a quick question

So, Vickybee...when you and your love go out on dates, do you also open doors for him? And, do you say no when he wants to? Or, the bills, is it split in two equal parts?

Just asking...

Vickybee:

We walk in together.

He pays the bill? So? It doesn't make me less equal to him.

I didn't beg him to do so.

zicoraads:
And if he refuses to pay the bills, say, since the both of you are supposed to have equal rights, and insists you also pay, would you tag him a stingy person?

zicoraads:
And if he refuses to pay the bills, say, since the both of you are supposed to have equal rights, and insists you also pay, would you tag him a stingy person?

MzNelly:


Staying at home and cooking and cleaning for my husband doesn't make me less of a strong woman.

The woman cannot be equal to a man in so many areas and the Bible concurs.
The Bible states that the females would long for her husband. It also states that the female should keep quiet in the church.

Going by this, it is divinely stated that a man and a woman can never really be placed on the same pedestal.

There is no equality between a man and a woman, and never will be. Either sexually, physically, socially, even spiritually.
The faster we come to terms with this, the better for all of us.

Vickybee:

Yet, Priscilla, Aquilla, Deborah, Huldah and Miriam weren't silent.

That makes them a rebel?

gospi:

So because he pays bills,that makes him superior and d lady inferior? U don't just get it.

bukatyne:


Emm, it would be fine you leave the Bible out of it.

Vickybee:

MzNelly:
I don't need feminism because receiving special treatment based on your gender is exactly what feminists claim to dislike' which makes it nothing g more than hypocritical ignorance.
I don't want feminism because the will to be equal to men in every aspect does not kill spicders, carry things that are heavy or protect me.
I also really enjoy cooking and cleaning.
Feminism simply does not make sense. There are things men can do that women cannot, as there are things woman can do that men cannot. That will never change. So cohabitate, use your skills to help each other and do what makes you happy.

You do not need superiority to live a happy, fulfilling life.

bukatyne:


Is feminism = superiority