liquidmetall:

You see bro thats what am saying
Feminism in nigeria is a joke

How can a strong christian/muslim be supporting feminism
Some times I ask them do u believe in God..they say yes..and am like shitt

A feminist in my bbm told me that she's born again and that she's now a liquidmetall, as in she is now hot in the lord...and when we debated that apostle paul said wives should submit to her husband..

She told me apostle paul is a fool for saying that,that we shouldnt believe everything that he says......I was like see madness

You don't believe the bible but u r born again

Nna mehn isi agbakagom

Guht danke

freecocoa:
People seem to just blow things out of proportion.

Feminism didn't say a guy can't open doors for his date or vice versa.

What's the big deal in holding a door? I hold a door and let him walk in like he does for me, he can pay, just like I can whenever it's convenient for us.

I guess raising irrelevant issues like holding doors, paying bills, who stays on top during $ex is what's making people talk crap about feminism.

Wanting to be treated like equals doesn't mean, not doing little things for each other.

ifeness:


My wife and I are equals. She is no subject to me. You are still wrong and confused with Mythology.

FrancisTony:

Chatting with only her doesn't mean others are joke. It's better you say only christian feminists.

I know many female Nigerian atheists and agnostics.

liquidmetall:







Bros check wella

They are what I termed " secret christians"

They know when they say they believe in God and they practice feminism, you won't take them serious

So they repackage themselves unto atheists level

This is nigeria where anything is possible

Thanks for the correction though

liquidmetall:





















Yes thats y am saying feminism in nigeria is a joke
Via the bolded

zicoraads:
Young lady...but those issues I raised aren't irrelevant. Maybe they are to you cos you do them. To you, it's normal. But to some ladies, it is the man's sole responsibility to do all of that and many more.

Of course am not dumb, I know that wanting to be treated as equals doesn't mean those lil things should be thrown outta the window. What am particular about is; if we would put on the feminism toga, then by all means, some of the things ladies see as a man's sole responsibility should be thrown out of the window.

hamilton62:

I made the sense but you seem not to assimilate it or concur to doing so either because you lack the creative understanding to see it or you just don't want to settle it that I have proven you otherwise...
In SSCE exams at least, you did justify some answers with the theories on the subject and gave examples... I touched you quotes to the extent a newbie can comprehend with ease.

freecocoa:
The point I'm trying to make is, is that, a feminist doesn't see anything as a man's sole responsibility, especially not such irrelevant and trivial things.

Vickybee:



Well, at my own convenient time sha.

liquidmetall:

Bros check wella

They are what I termed " secret christians"

They know when they say they believe in God and they practice feminism, you won't take them serious

So they repackage themselves unto atheists level

This is nigeria where anything is possible

Thanks for the correction though

zicoraads:
Apparently, your own 'brand' is quiet different from others.

And, are you in a relationship right now?

I would love to date someone who not only thinks, but also acts it

freecocoa:
Yes, I am in a relationship and have never really had the problem of who does what based on gender.

I mean, at first, the guys try to pull the "I am a man" stunt but they always get shut up based on what they see, it just flows with me and my relationship.

zicoraads:
Am not sure I fall into that category. Why on earth would I want to pull that stunt on my lady if she feels the need to? Lai lai!

Anyway, good for you! Good for you!

kevinberry:

Am sorry I have to quote this part...
So you mean,let say now for example your husband comes back from office tired and hungry and he asked you to prepare food for him,let say pounded yam...you won't do it because it not at your convenient time...
Because am damn sure a responsible mother would have told her daughter that she is to obey and respect her husband wish/command...
Unless of course the mother herself was not well brought up...
Pardon my english
*waiting for your reply*

Vickybee:

1) I can't marry a man that will want me to pound yam. God forbid. He should go and find a village girl..

2) If I've prepared food before and he's requesting I should prepare another one, I'm not going to do it.

kevinberry:


Good for you

My humble advice for you is

Look for clay,mould the type of man you want and ask God to breath in air for you.....

Good luck with your fight for gender equality

FrancisTony:

Bible isn't against feminism but misogyny, misandry, sexism and chauvinism.

Malachi2 : 10

Have we not all one father? Hath not one God created us? Why do we deal treacherously every man against his brother, by profaning the covenant of our father.

Vickybee:

Thank you.

I already have one and he's not ego-driven.

Vickybee:

Thank you.

I already have one and he's not ego-driven.

Darkrebel666:


~ Me ..right?

Vickybee:

Vickybee:
Crackhaus, Virgin Mary was a feminist.

Check how she was forming "boss lady" or did you read anywhere she cowered for Joseph?

Darkrebel666:


~ You are in my school..what level?

Airforce1:


please mind what you say about our lady virgin mary

Don't involve her in your discussion

Thanks

Vickybee

Vickybee:

okay

Misogynist2014:
What I'm trying to say that if a myth book tallies this much with reality, then you should give it a try. In Bible, you have dinosaurs, ice age, volcanoes, division of languages, division of continents, mass extinction of animals(mammoths, dinosaurs) , large piles of sedimentary rocks, history of nations, that moon uses reflected light, gives accurate reasons why we have the present population frame, wonders of Egypt, modern science, even feminism!
Don't pretend as if you are rights advocate cos I might be forced to source out some posts.