MARRIED MEN:..can you allow your wife's younger broda with his GF to spend some days in your house MARRIED WOMEN: can you allow your broda with his GF to spend some days in your husband's house GUYS: can you take your GF along with you when you want to visit your elder broda or sister who is married.. LADIES:can you follow your BF to spend some days with his broda or sister who is married.. For me I can't allow any of it...

Wait let me consult

saaedlee:
Wait let me consult

consult who?....give your answer to those questions ni..

Yustash001:
consult who?....give your answer to those questions ni..

I cannot speak when IFA hasn't spoken! So jega!

Nope

saaedlee:

I cannot speak when IFA hasn't spoken! So jega!

ok...i'll be waiting for what IFA reveals...

Tandullceblog:
Nope

nope.,you can't follow your BF.....but can you allow your younger broda with his GF to spend some days with you in your husband's house?

Yustash001:
nope.,you can't follow your BF.....but can you allow your younger broda with his GF to spend some days with you in your husband's house?

If I like her...yes

Tandullceblog:



If I like her...yes

what if your husband doesn't want it like that...

Tandullceblog:



If I like her...yes

what if your husband doesn't want it like that...?

Yustash001:
what if your husband doesn't want it like that...?

Okay... then it's not happening

Tandullceblog:


Okay... then it's not happening

hmmm...9ice one...

Tandullceblog:


Okay... then it's not happening

hmmm...9ice one...

Yes I will follow him.

Any of my siblings can do same in my house.

I don't understand why that should be a problem.

If it is a gf he is serious about, yes

Will only provide them separate rooms/sleeping arrangements.

It depends. If he's mature and he's serious we with the lady, he could bring his girl time my house. However, he should know it's a one-off opportunity. You can't be bringing every "Caro" to my house. The only scenario not possible is for a either my sister-in-law or my sister to bring her boyfriend to my house except when they're planning for wedding and they live far from my family.
Whatever, my view pertains to mature persons and not for a university undergraduate who should be more engrossed in his academics.

freecocoa:
Yes I will follow him.

Any of my siblings can do same in my house.

I don't understand why that should be a problem.

don't forget we are talking about GF and BF here....not fiance or fiancee..

masqot:
It depends. If he's mature and he's serious we with the lady, he could bring his girl time my house. However, he should know it's a one-off opportunity. You can't be bringing every "Caro" to my house. The only scenario not possible is for a either my sister-in-law or my sister to bring her boyfriend to my house except when they're planning for wedding and they live far from my family.
Whatever, this discussion pertains to mature persons and not for a university undergraduate who should be more engrossed in his academics.

nice one...A reasonable guy will not even follow is GF to her sister's matrimonial home and sleep over...

Yustash001:
don't forget we are talking about GF and BF here....not fiance or fiancee..

What difference does it make here? No be GF/BF dey turn to fiance/fiancée?

freecocoa:
What difference does it make here? No be GF/BF dey turn to fiance/fiancée?

yes but not all BF/GF relationship turn to fiance/fiance

Yustash001:
yes but not all BF/GF relationship turn to fiance/fiance

So? And? Therefore?

Yes i have but on the strict condition that they sleep in different rooms

As long as they're not sleeping on ma head

freecocoa:
So? And? Therefore?

So for me.,..I can't allow it and I can't do it...

Yustash001:
So for me.,..I can't allow it and I can't do it...

That's not the issue, what you can and can't do, is your prerogative.

I gave my take on the matter and you were trying to point out that it was just a bf, suggesting that, there is seemingly something wrong with that, yet you can't tell me why.

freecocoa:
That's not the issue, what you can and can't do is your prerogative.

I gave my take on the matter and you were trying to point out that it was just a bf, suggesting that, there is seemingly something wrong with that, yet you can't tell me why.

hmmm...what I mean is that I can only take her along if the relationship has gone wide and we are about to tie the knot...the thing is we view things different way...and I view as improper you might view it has a proper thing...

Yustash001:
hmmm...what I mean is that I can only take her along if the relationship has gone wide and we are about to tie the knot...the thing is we view things different way...and I view as improper you might view it has a proper thing...

If you already knew we must not see things the same way, why tell me not to forget it was just bf/gf bla bla? That is what I'm still asking.

freecocoa:
If you already knew we must not see things the same way, why tell me not to forget it was just bf/gf bla bla? That is what I'm still asking.

ok...pele mabinu....doo....I shouldn't have said that...

Yustash001:
ok...pele mabinu....doo....I shouldn't have said that...

It's fine.

Yes. But with overly curious kids in the house, they will sleep in different rooms Or warn them to keep their kpakos in check, then we are good.

I'm only worried about the kids.

Ewuro4:
Yes. But with overly curious kids in the house, they will sleep in different rooms Or warn them to keep their kpakos in check, then we are good.

I'm only worried about the kids.

Lol...I agree with you partially on this...

Yustash001:
Lol...I agree with you partially on this...

. What is your take on this?