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7 Ways To Be A True Feminist. (My Opinion) by rudebouy: 8:54am On Apr 13, 2015 |
1. If you see a guy u like, go toast d niccur. If ur date is slacking and u nid marriage, den u can PROPOSE to him or tell him u wanna get married. 2. If u are in a relationship: - Call as often as d guy, sometimes. Call him everyday if possible and spend at least 5mins on each call. Dont just ask for airtime, send him airtime also. - Be d one to initiate the kissing and the sex, sometimes. - Pay for the drinks and food when u guys are out on a date, sometimes. - When it's his birthday, get him something expensive, not a boxer short or single, I mean something worth thousands of naira. Take him out on a date and spend YOUR money on him, sometimes. And der is absolutely nothing wrong with bearing all d expenses on ur valentine day's outing. 3. When planning for the wedding, split the total expenses 50-50 and also pay with YOUR money. Its equal rights we are talking abt here, abi?. 4. If u guys are married: - Take up some masculine responsibilies in d home. E.g. Learn to fix the bulbs, change d car tyres unaided. If d gen or tv is bad, fix it. Dont wait for hubby to do it. - Split the total bills at home into two equal parts since its equal rights. So if my money is our money therefore YOUR MONEY becomes OUR MONEY also. So u hav to take up 50 percent of the bills too. 5. During SEX: - Initiate or be the one to ask for it sometimes. - Do most of d fvcking sometimes. Encourage him to sit down or lie down, while you sit on his dickk and ride it, bounce on it and cowgirl dat tin to the north, south, west and east for over 30 mins till ur satisfied. Why shd the man do all the work all the time, huh? :/ 6. When d man is not happy, do provide some emotional support and ginger to motivate him. 7. When der is a challenge at home or he's facing some challenges in d ofis, do provide some sound ideas dat can be of help. If u wanna be a true feminist, stop being on the receiving side and start staying on the giving and contributing side of life. Dis is d only way to be a true feminist becos EQUAL RIGHTS means EQUAL RESPONSIBILITIES also. |
Re: 7 Ways To Be A True Feminist. (My Opinion) by Nobody: 9:02am On Apr 13, 2015 |
You were making sense until it suddenly turned into _pornography. I think I'll just see myself out. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 7 Ways To Be A True Feminist. (My Opinion) by ginawest(f): 9:45am On Apr 13, 2015 |
if I wl av to do all dis jes to prove dat m a feminist, den I wud rada remain an anti-feminist 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Ways To Be A True Feminist. (My Opinion) by Mrbigman1(m): 10:20am On Apr 13, 2015 |
0.1 out a billion women would do dis even when told. But as for splitting bills 50-50, am totally against dat. No matter how hard working a woman is or how much she's worth, bill payment should be a sole thing for men unless in extreme cases. Tankio 1 Like |
Re: 7 Ways To Be A True Feminist. (My Opinion) by rudebouy: 10:45am On Apr 13, 2015 |
ginawest: Tankio! |
Re: 7 Ways To Be A True Feminist. (My Opinion) by rudebouy: 10:48am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Mrbigman1: In joint-venture partnerships, both parties share the profits and losses, and the assets and liabilities. Therefore any system dat promotes equal rights without equal responsibilities is a SCAM. 1 Like |
Re: 7 Ways To Be A True Feminist. (My Opinion) by rudebouy: 10:51am On Apr 13, 2015 |
Mods, royalroy, lalasticala, etc, can u pls push dis to fp. Tankio. |
Re: 7 Ways To Be A True Feminist. (My Opinion) by crackhaus: 11:22am On Apr 13, 2015 |
LOL, funny one... Wait and see how Nairaland's finest pseudo-feminists come in here to lie through their teeth about how they've been doing all these and more... |
Re: 7 Ways To Be A True Feminist. (My Opinion) by ifyan(m): 12:29pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
rudebouy: Some are wrong because it seem to be wife support. While other they we run away |
Re: 7 Ways To Be A True Feminist. (My Opinion) by rudebouy: 12:42pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
ifyan: Bros its simple arithmetic. Equal rights means Equal responsibilities. Except day are clamoring for equal rights with conditions like impunity and immunity, abi? |
Re: 7 Ways To Be A True Feminist. (My Opinion) by ifyan(m): 12:46pm On Apr 13, 2015 |
rudebouy: OK I GET IT |
Re: 7 Ways To Be A True Feminist. (My Opinion) by Nobody: 12:33pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
rudebouy:Feminists have many things to think about than worrying over marrage which is inconsequential and not source of happiness. 2. If u are in a relationship:Feminism speaks about gender equality not placing women above men. It's not by force to call him. I can call him if I wish not because you said it. I don't beg any guy for airtime neither does he beg me. He's well to do. - Be d one to initiate the kissing and the sex, sometimes.Life isn't all about sex and meanwhile, women have low libido when compared to men. A married woman might go for years without having sex unlike men. Anyone that's interested in sex among the two, should initiate it first. - Pay for the drinks and food when u guys are out on a date, sometimes.If a man wants to pay for the drink; so be it. If a woman wants to pay for the drink; so be it. Peoples relationship shouldn't be your business. Mind yours! - When it's his birthday, get him something expensive, not a boxer short or single, I mean something worth thousands of naira. Take him out on a date and spend YOUR money on him, sometimes. And der is absolutely nothing wrong with bearing all d expenses on ur valentine day's outing.Just because your girlfriend is poor and doesn't do all these things to you, means some women don't get tangible things for their boyfriends, abi?. Speak for yourself. Take a look at Foluronsho Alakija, Chimamanda Adichie, Omotola Jalade Ekeinde etc; do you mean they don't buy things for their husband? 3. When planning for the wedding, split the total expenses 50-50 and also pay with YOUR money. Its equal rights we are talking abt here, abi?.Some women actually sponsor the wedding. Get out from your cave and explore the world. 4. If u guys are married:I can fix a bulb. If I want to change a tire, I can get a mechanic to help me. If it's generator or TV, I can get repairers and pay them with my money. - Split the total bills at home into two equal parts since its equal rights . So if my money is our money therefore YOUR MONEY becomes OUR MONEY also. So u hav to take up 50 percent of the bills too.Who told you many women don't do this?Stop using women around you to judge others. 5. During SEX:Because your girlfriend is lazy in bed doesn't equate other women. 6. When d man is not happy, do provide some emotional support and ginger to motivate him.Which good wife doesn't do this? 7. When der is a challenge at home or he's facing some challenges in d ofis, do provide some sound ideas dat can be of help.Which good wife doesn't do this? If u wanna be a true feminist, stop being on the receiving side and start staying on the giving and contributing side of life.Have you dated a feminist to think they are on a receiving end?. P.S Not all women are feminist. Don't think any lazy woman receiving from her husband is a feminist. Date a feminist and share your story(good news). 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: 7 Ways To Be A True Feminist. (My Opinion) by SAMBARRY: 12:39pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
That settles it. EOD! Vickybee: |
Re: 7 Ways To Be A True Feminist. (My Opinion) by Stillfire: 6:06pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
How can you post this kind of thread and not feel embarrassed? Rotflmao! 2 Likes |
Re: 7 Ways To Be A True Feminist. (My Opinion) by cococandy(f): 7:10pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
If you do not know women who do that and more, you're with the wrong crowd. I see we are back to the season of feminism on family section Where everyone types whatever they think and labels it feminism and the arguments start flowing from page 1 to page 100 with nothing said in-between. Yawns. 3 Likes |
Re: 7 Ways To Be A True Feminist. (My Opinion) by KanwuliaJara: 8:59pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
Pay the MEN child support, and let them be the SINGLE PARENTS! |
Re: 7 Ways To Be A True Feminist. (My Opinion) by rudebouy: 9:07pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
cococandy: Hay! Am not here to argue. Neither am I stating wot type of crowd I roll with. Am only saying true feminism is equal rights plus equal responsibilities. And since you agree with me, den dat settles it. Ekamba nma |
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