things havent really been good for me lately i dont feel happy anymore,some days i find it difficult getting out of the bed i feel there's something missing in my life i have been missing classes i used to think its not possible to be depressed but now i understand i need some one to talk to

Recently i have been a candidate of that feeling untill i had to open up to my fiancee whom God used to change the tide. If not by now i would have been a chapter in the history books... It will be easier to help you if you are willing to open up what is bothering you in sequence..

I feel the same way , just try and sleep it off.

Hello, take it easy, dis month is somhw....it will soon end in happiness.

growing up i was on the shy and quiet side but i still had some good friends life was great later on things werent so good for my family financially but they still tried there best to give me everything.cause am the only child i always feel the pressure to do well and succeed so i put all of my energy in school now am in the university my result is good am doing well academically but with that am still not ok i dont have friends am always alone unless when am in class i didnt realise it until lately when people started saying am weird i feel no one even likes me

What's missing in your life?You don't have a boyfriend?


On a more serious note,you need to identify what area bothers you.If you leave in Nigeria,there are many things to bother one.Most people want things better than it is for them now.
Just keep your head up and believe there's a better tomorrow.

Av been depressed too but I was able to conquer it by talking abt it. make friends, visit new places, appreciate the wonderful tins u av. And dnt let anyone make u feel less than u r. Above all pray abt it. U will definitely get better.

thorpido:
What's missing in your life?You don't have a boyfriend?


On a more serious note,you need to identify what area bothers you.If you leave in Nigeria,there are many things to bother one.Most people want things better than it is for them now.
Just keep your head up and believe there's a better tomorrow.

thanks actually i have been single for like 6 months but i dont think that is the problem

giftocean:
thanks actually i have been single for like 6 months but i dont think that is the problem

Oh,then I guess it must be part of it.You say you interact well with your classmates.What happens after class?You don't maintain friendship with them after school?You don't visit them?Do you stay on campus and do you stay alone?
Just open yourself more to friendships.You can make friends in other departments.How about campus fellowships?

i stay alone off campus o was in the fellowship when i first came but changed to a different church

Attitude is the number one cause of depression and you get over it the moment you realize all human are imperfect.
Attending fellowship, piano classes, choir classes or even reading can help cure a depressed mind.