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Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by uncleck: 7:06pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
juicyjoint:I don't blame them. Is it not the man that will be responsible for everything, including family in laws? JUMP into marriage at your own risk 1 Like |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by mitchyy(f): 7:07pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
uncleck:The inability to care for kids should not be a reason not to marry. I know so many couples who get married and then wait for some few years when they've saved enough before having kids. You are not obligated to have kids immediately you marry. The wise ones count their cost first, the unwise ones rush to have kids and let them suffer, the unserious ones refuse to marry because they are scared of the expenses of having kids. 1 Like |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by slap1(m): 7:10pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
pinkyruledworld:My brother at a point I decided to start checking out secondary school girs. I know they are not the best, but they are still redeemable. However, I know some really good girls in the university; there's always an exception. |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Oahray: 7:12pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
juicyjoint:don't blame them, most were brought up to believe that marriage is the sole reason for their existence. No one wants to miss her true purpose in life 2 Likes |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by slap1(m): 7:14pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
mitchyy:Some people allow societal and family pressures to push them into what they are not prepared for. In Nigeria, when your wife is not pregnant six months after wedding, people start raising eyebrows. Personally, I've decided to 'flex' wifey for at least one year before we start having kids. 1 Like |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 7:19pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Ok |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by realG101(m): 7:21pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
I think the ladies should take the blame 70%..most times they make outrageous financial demands which the men don't want to live with for the rest of their lives 2 Likes |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by olaztek(m): 7:26pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
decent people will remain unmarried for financial reason 1 Like |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by anwo247: 7:29pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Whenever you are with your girl friend, her phone rings like every munite from different men and she tells you they are just friends... will you consider her ready? Most girls can't keep just one boyfriend for one year without heeding another man. Is she prepared? All pictures in her Facebook page is revealing her bosom because she wants 1000likes, is she prepared? Her father is finding it difficult to pay rent but she uses Note 4 Samsung, is she ready? Women has made men not to be ready. A typical man, when he sees a wife, will hardly let her go unmarried. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 7:34pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
mitchyy: 11. The bible even say, it is better to be single than marry 1 Like |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 7:36pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
This article is so effing right! Especially that single but living married part of it. @OP Thanks for sharing. |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by hensben(m): 7:36pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
folabayo1:You are married hence your negligence...it's all cool though. |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by hensben(m): 7:38pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
bright007:You don marry na, why enormous go be good one |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 7:39pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
I THINK the LADIES are COMFORTABLE with the SITUATION... that is Y they always support the movement... Let's just keep THE SLEEPING AROUND lively...ok Anyway, it's part of the PROPHECY.. just check the book. 1 Like |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 7:43pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
I promised myself that;I and my wife must make enough money before we bring any child to this world. I have seen children do ill things for money especially girls,and it makes me cry. |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 7:43pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
mitchyy:Maybe coz you acted like a man. So he questioned your gender. 1 Like |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by EMEKA1MILLION(m): 7:50pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Still waiting for that special someone |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by funshow247(m): 7:50pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
folabayo1:can u imagine...so u no see any meaningful point in all this than to say ko kan aye. Soro niyen! |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by 989900: 7:56pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Well, some people just don’t want to grow up, do they? Don't grow up, it's a trap! 2 Likes |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 7:57pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
[size=17pt]Men are scared most ladies are morally bankrupt these days; no one wants to end up with an overse.xed, untrustworthy and superficial lady..... Easier staying single.... As a matter of fact most men would rather have children outside wedlock and have a pretty girlfriend till we are just tired of being single (which could come when we are 40). Plus women are veeeery hard to please for very long as they get carried away easily too.... Women these days don't make marriage appealing at alllllll, absolutely nothing to look forward to. [/size] 2 Likes |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by gospi: 8:05pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
pinkyruledworld:And dey do the olosho with men.. So seeing what men do with oloshos... |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by jamillion: 8:10pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Well! If can't keep a wife then keep a baby mama Join d trend #teambabymama 1 Like |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by killjoy(m): 8:13pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
1 Like |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by kedukc(m): 8:14pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Why will I stake my happiness on some entitled bag of lard? 2 Likes |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 8:17pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Oahray: Lol, purpose indeed. |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 8:20pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
mitchyy: Nice post though. @your profile pic... I'M iN LOVEEEEEEEEEE WAIT FOR IT...... With your dog! You have a lovely dentition tho. By the way, did you find out why that man behind you was pointing like he wants to sell the beach to the other guy on red? Just kidding 1 Like |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by folabayo1(f): 8:22pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
funshow247:oyami lenu o |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Redman44(m): 8:28pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
I feel it is the lack of motivation on the part of most ladies nowadays to create extra sources of revenue, that makes men postpone marriage. Many women are 100% reliant on their husbands even if they are earning their own money. What they don't understand is that some men detest unambitious ladies. I don't know why the belief that men should cater for their wives 100% still holds. In today's world, couples must pull their resources together to create a financially sound marriage. Wives should be able to get some things done on the home front without requesting money from their husbands. Then the issue of women coming from poor families or the case of greedy Mother-In-Laws is another problem Men face in Marriage. I just believe Nigerian wives should be very honest with themselves. What are you bringing to the table in your marriage? Must you expect your husband to do everything for you all the time ? Why are you not using your brain in profitable and honest ventures to make more money for the family you are raising with your husband? Cheers. 2 Likes |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by mitchyy(f): 8:31pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
DeeTus:Oh really? Never knew you can make out someone's gender simply by reading an article he/she shared on a social network. Anyway, its Nairaland, so its the norm for people to do anything to discredit/backlash an op just for the sake of gaining likes |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by mitchyy(f): 8:33pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
prince3009: Thanks but no thanks, my dog, Elmo is taken. He doesn't have any space in his heart to love another. |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Nobody: 8:33pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
Redman44: This right here is the major reason that discourages me though some other reasons the poster sited there comes into pay. Alot of women of today like you posited thinks this marraige thing is all about the man alone when it come to pulling in resources. Plus that part where you have to carter for the in-laws too. Gosh! 1 Like |
Re: Why Your Boyfriend May Not Be In A Hurry To Become Your Husband by Hitunnu(f): 8:34pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
So right |
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