In previous threads of mine, the words "girls" and "ladies" have been misconstrued.

It behoves on me to enlighten us on how to tell if a Girl is a Lady or just some Simbi girlie

This is totally applicable in Nigeria too. Probably, you have a girl you can't tell if she is a Lady or just a girl. With these few points, you can. They are:



1. She Goes On A Date With Her Own Cash

What if the guy decides to be naughty? Will you be at his mercy? What if the "date" didn't go down well? He leaves and your empty purse punishes you!


2. She Doesn't Argue With Guys In Public (Social Network )

If she is busy e-fighting everyone on NL and she opens her mouth and says, "Don't talk to a lady that way"- Close that mouth. You be girl- Simbi is a girl. Not a Lady!


3. She Isn't Whorish In Dressing

A lady is a girl with a class and not a girl seeking some cheap attention by exposing cleavages. A lady is a woman who believes more in brainpower than in her boobs power. Don't get it twisted, a lady has more trust in her brain than her butt.


4. She Speaks Only When Spoken To

I'm not promoting girls forming "dumb". What I'm saying is, she knows when to contribute and when she does, it is with maturity not sillily. As the quote says, " The wise talk when they have something to say, fools talk when they have to say something. .


5. She Represents You Well Before Her Friends

She is not the type that will use vulgar words in describing her guy. E.g, "Don't mind that stingy mumu, I asked him for #30k, he gave me only #5k". No wonder your friends go behind you to see how "mumuish" he is.



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I dedicate this post to my darling husband, my unborn child and to my nairaland foes...

Only speaks when spoken to ..

She doesn't beg for recharge card.

She doesn't take selfies wit duck face!

Always trying to be herself and not fake anything.

A girl will dress like a wh.ore for attention.

A lady will dress decently and still attract attention when she speaks.

If this defines your lady, then I am an ideal lady because I posses all this good characters

sexyseun:
If this defines your lady, then I am an ideal lady because I posses all this good characters

It's not for you to say.

MzNelly:
A girl will dress like a wh.ore for attention.

A lady will dress decently and still attract attention when she speaks.

Yea, True!

naija gals can fit do this?

MzNelly:


It's not for you to say.

she can say it if she is very sure.
ask her for a pic next time.
if she say No she is still a girl

1 2 3 and 5
are on point
i dont see any reason why my woman
shouldn't air her views in an open conversation
even when she isnt being directly referred to.

Lala247:
Only speaks when spoken to ..

prettythicksme:

Lol that a slave then nah only house gurl no they speak back

TheSonOfMark:



That's the only comment girls like you can ever come up with.

Ouch!

speak only when spoken to I totally disagree with this point

Lala247:


Lol that a slave then nah only house gurl no they speak back

Speak back? Did you read it at all?

emusmith:


Speak back? Did you read it at all?

So she cant speak freely only when u ask her something

jemimaa01:
speak only when spoken to I totally disagree with this point

Why?

Lala247:


So she cant speak freely only when u ask her something

If you read the content and not just the heading, I wrote this:



I'm not promoting girls forming "dumb". What I'm saying is, she knows when to contribute and when she does, it is with maturity not sillily. As the quote says, " The wise talk when they have something to say, fools talk when they have to say something. .

1,3 & 5 Equals 3/5 still above average


#workInProgress

emusmith:


If read the content and not just the heading, I wrote this:



I'm not promoting girls forming "dumb". What I'm saying is, she knows when to contribute and when she does, it is with maturity not sillily. As the quote says, " The wise talk when they have something to say, fools talk when they have to say something. .

Still a form of control

Chiam55:
1,3 & 5 Equals 3/5 still above average


#workInProgress

nice!

@OP... If number 1 should be taken serious, then in every 20 young female 1 is a lady....

Lala247:


Still a form of control

Of course, a lady is Self-controlled, a girl talks gibberish

E mean say dr r more girls dan ladies in nairaland na

emusmith:


Of course, a lady is Self-controlled, a girl talks gibberish

Ok lol forgot my point self ..

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