gracile:
No pun intended buh i read ops post twice, and there ain't no question. Like seriously is it not too obvious that op is a proud and unrepentant player?!

I don't think so though..It depends on the personality of the individual.. I love my freedom and space and so any time there is commitment involved, I tend to shy away even though I may have been the one to have initiated it at first..So yea, I understand the op..My thought though

ivyT:
Ladies could/can also do it too_WhaYaSay?

make guys fall crazily and stupidily in love with u and catwalk away feeling fly_dis one no dey happen for Naija sha *i just dey give my fellow ladies hope*

who tell you say e no dey happen for naija. na wetin me self dey do b DAT o but I bin dey tink say I need deliverance. lols

Beckytee:
who tell you say e no dey happen for naija. na wetin me self dey do b DAT o but I bin dey tink say I need deliverance. lols

Lols

Beckytee:
who tell you say e no dey happen for naija. na wetin me self dey do b DAT o but I bin dey tink say I need deliverance. lols

Loolest Lols

KingMEXX:
I don't think so though..It depends on the personality of the individual.. I love my freedom and space and so any time there is commitment involved, I tend to shy away even though I may have been the one to have initiated it at first..So yea, I understand the op..My thought though

then it's simple! make them understand ur kind of person as a matter off fact most persons love some space & air, so if she is too clingy there are ways to tell it to her rather than just sliding away.

VickJames:
I wanted to say something but I held back.

lol

@op,may b u shd strt dey rap..jst sayin ..Mr hrtbrkr!#smh#

Beckytee:
who tell you say e no dey happen for naija. na wetin me self dey do b DAT o but I bin dey tink say I need deliverance. lols

You crave for the attention given to you. You derive pleasure in denying them your love & enjoy hurting their feelings. It's a sadistic tendency.
A masochist will enjoy relating with you, especially if the two of you should discuss it. You can then do it in a more matured way.

gracile:

then it's simple! make them understand ur kind of person as a matter off fact most persons love some space & air, so if she is too clingy there are ways to tell it to her rather than just sliding away.

You're speaking from a more matured perspective. Sorry to state, mostly those who behave like that are hardly considerate about how the other person feels. They deliberately want to hurt covertly because they derive pleasure in doing that.

gracile:

then it's simple! make them understand ur kind of person as a matter off fact most persons love some space & air, so if she is too clingy there are ways to tell it to her rather than just sliding away.

Hopefully she's the type that would understand and not go around throwing tantrums Lol..Don't wanna sound cocky, but I've seen it all
Besides, there's this pleasure in it, and that is what spurs guys on to go ahead with such attitude

ratatis:



You crave for the attention given to you. You derive pleasure in denying them your love & enjoy hurting their feelings. It's a sadistic tendency.
A masochist will enjoy relating with you, especially if the two of you should discuss it. You can then do it in a more matured way.

it wasn't my fault,I just see it happening and I can't help it. mind you I dnt derive pleasure in doing it.therefore a masochist will never enjoy relating with me in anyway.

Beckytee:
it wasn't my fault,I just see it happening and I can't help it. mind you I dnt derive pleasure in doing it.therefore a masochist will never enjoy relating with me in anyway.

Pardon me please, if I sound offensive to you. Sincerely I never intended to.

KingMEXX:
................................................Don't wanna sound cocky, but I've seen it all
Besides, there's this pleasure in it, and that is what spurs guys on to go ahead with such attitude

When one is aware of the dynamics at work in his life, one can take full responsibility to train oneself & develop emotional maturity. Instead of resigning to the fate of being driven by subconscious tendencies.

ratatis:



Pardon me please, if I sound offensive to you. Sincerely I never intended to.

its alrit , no offence picked.

Beckytee:
its alrit , no offence picked.

***smiles***

Naughtysite:
Zulu...

lols

jascon1:
c manuel if I flog u eh u no go try that thing way u day do again. Y t hell do u play with ppl's emotions? Is pure cowardice aside from being evil. What achievement do u get out of it? Stop if u r not ready for commitments.

sure..,I have stopped.... o



u sound like my best friend when he scolds me

ivyT:
Ladies could/can also do it too_WhaYaSay?

make guys fall crazily and stupidily in love with u and catwalk away feeling fly_dis one no dey happen for Naija sha *i just dey give my fellow ladies hope*

True....!

sconp:
a friend of mine calls it fun and adventure, but then it hurts I'd rather not lead you on but op this looks like a primary school recitation

Lols..its an exaggeration... they do fall ..no fault of mine DT I can't help it...honestly i don't make them...it just happens

prettyjo:
I wanted to say something but later changed my mind

who cares