The kind demon way go torment the woman when she go hell eh, She go know say AC no be fan.

It is unethical to disclose someone's HIV status to another without the consent of the victim. It doesnt matter if the person in question is a husband, a wife, a mother, a father or sibling. That Doctor needs to be issued a query.

As for the woman, it is high level of selfishness to not disclose your HIV to your lover and to get married to him and infect him is man-slaughter.

As for the husband, he is just one of the many victims. Take heart, you are positive already.

caveat emptor.
dont believe everything u read on nairaland

Read my signature...

Yea right! Wikidnez

Dats wicked and selfish!! Human beings neva cease 2 amaze me.

While HIV has no cure it can yet be managed with proper medication. Under the craze of i-must-marrry-him she must have by now infected him and yet was not kind enough to let him take steps to save his life. More like a black widow to me.

...And you knowhow many women the man don hammer for outside without condom in the course of this five years thinking say he is HIV negative. And asuming say some of this women get bobo plus husbands...and it took this bobos and husbands another five years to know their status. Meanwhile ...themselves don hammer outside too without condom....and those women wey dem hammer for outside all these five years get bobo and husbands........ AND THE CYCLE CONTINUES

The Doctor didn't do anything wrong. D woman f up sha. Wat was her intentions? To put d blame on d husband in d later future dat he infected her? I don't blame d man 4 walking out on her either! She killed him alive!!!

[quote author=fsb post=32907824]This happens more often than not.

When dealing with hiv patients, I think one of the more important questions is whether or not they have disclosed their status to anyone else as part of counseling.

If the client says, I have not told my spouse then the health care worker is not in a position to disclose the information except with the approval of the client.


Actually what you said is absolutely wrong. Unlike other diseases, you as the healthcare worker is required to carry out HIV-surveillance, which empowers you to ensure that your patient discloses her status to all their sex partners. Both you and your patient can become liable if another person gets infected because of non disclosure. This is a basic healthcare and epidemiology concept that is taught to all health care workers who take care of HIV patients. Non disclosure is EVIL

ROCKHARDDK:
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Marriage based on deciet, the marriage never existed, it's null and void. Even if the man happen to have contacted the disease, that woman is not his wife, even the Pope would grant him divorce.

Well to me the moral justification for this is that it's morally wrong and secondly the woman ought to be sued to courts for impersonating the husband consent

pwerrymansion:
That lady is wicked! What a monsterous behaviour! For five years?? Haba!

not her fault... she loves him so much that she fear she will loss him

Dem no do test before marriage?

HIV Status test is a pre-requisite to church marriage in most churches especially Catholic church, How did they get married without going tru such tests?

omicron:
I have had similar experience. The wife hid her HIV positive status from the husband till her death, and we as doctors learnt that at the point of her death. She still insisted no one should tell him. She died few hours after.

As a doctor, you should always ask an HIV positive person the people she has confided in regarding her status, and whom she would want you to disclose to. Whenever possible, this should be in writing.

No doctor has a right or duty to divulge any patient's information to another person, no matter how "close", even when the patient is dead. Unless in a case where non-disclosure of such information poses danger to the community...eg Ebola, lassa fever, etc.

The modern physician's Oath is there in my display pic

And Aids isn't a danger to her husband,family etc ? thats nonsense..

That is reaaaaaaaaly bad.

[quote author=adozie post=32914369][/quote]

Thank you. We are also missing the point that the man asked why his wife was receiving a particular treatment, it is probable he was paying for. Is it also unethical to disclose from a man what he is paying for? That should be the doctor's defense in case of a disciplinary hearing... the husband demanded to know what treatment he was paying for! But in case like this, isn't HIV is serious enough to breach patient/ doctor confidentiality given its high life-threatening status. I advocate that a law be passed which makes it mandatory for disclosure to spouses in case of HIV, Ebola and other life threatening diseases to override doctor/ patient confidentiality. Most spouses tend to hide under that policy to breed disaster!

darepoju:
not her fault... she loves him so much that she fear she will loss him

do you know what true love is and stand for? That's not love, that's selfishness in the highest order.

1stola:

Are you okay?
Ask yourself first ; If your wife is HIV positive, is she supposed to tell you?
Use your brain.

in the world you live, she is not?? I tire for you o

Isn't it strange the way opinions are divided between superficial peeps who can only say "the woman is wuuuuked" and those other peeps who are approaching this from a more informed medical perspective

Jeez! Thats terrible. How could she hide such? I wonder how they coped with sex and sharing things. The woman didn't try one bit.

But wait?
Before the wedding didn't they do all the tests and all?
Some women though!

MadCow1:



The Doctor would lose his license if the woman sues him..

A patients case file and condition is subject to Doctor patient confidentiality clause.

It's not the doctors place to inform her husband.

Shut up!! Stop talking nonsense. Doctor-patient confidentiality is not absolute, there are exceptions, one of which is; if the patient in question is a potential risk to others. E.g Ebola cases.

Besides it is assumed that married couples are privy to each other's medical situations, and in cases like this where a spouse isn't, the doctor is obliged to inform, Failure to do so could constitute a medical malpractice and may even lead to criminal prosecution.

That's bad...

God!!! I hope the man was not infected

I blame many guys who doesn't care about hospital. ..........



It happened to a guy in my street. ......This guy got married with two kids and unfortunately his wife died. ...and after two years he planned to marry another wife. ....


The girl is HIV positive but she hide it from him and they were eating the forbidden fruit for so long without condom. .....



Later when they are about to get married the guy went to hospital for test with her and they found out that she was HIV postive. ...and the guy was NEGATIVE , glory be to God.

After one week we heard that she is dead and wessuspect that she was the one that kill herself

I blame many guys who doesn't care about hospital. ..........



It happened to a guy in my street. ......This guy got married with two kids and unfortunately his wife died. ...and after two years he planned to marry another wife. ....


The girl is HIV positive but she hide it from him and they were eating the forbidden fruit for so long without condom. .....



Later when they are about to get married the guy went to hospital for test with her and they found out that she was HIV postive. ...and the guy was NEGATIVE , glory be to God.

After one week we heard that she is dead and we suspect that she was the one that kill herself

and till now the still free since 2010

Hw come d man is not dead til now? Cuz HIV does not last up to dat period. D husband would have bn dead by now. I don't believe dis story. Pls re-frame ur story.

I blame many guys who doesn't care about hospital. ..........



It happened to a guy in my street. ......This guy got married with two kids and unfortunately his wife died. ...and after two years he planned to marry another wife. ....


The girl is HIV positive but she hide it from him and they were eating the forbidden fruit for so long without condom. .....



Later when they are about to get married the guy went to hospital for test with her and they found out that she was HIV postive. ...and the guy was NEGATIVE , glory be to God.

After one week we heard that she is dead and we suspect that she was the one that kill herself

and till now the guy still free since 2010

1stola:

Are you okay?
Ask yourself first ; If your wife is HIV positive, is she supposed to tell you?
Use your brain.

according to Nigeria penal code, if a wife or husband did not tell each other their statues before marrige: it attract 15year, in jail.
Also if a man is impotent or a lady removed her womb before marriage, without tell each other about their health problem; it also attract 15years in jail too.