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The couple are the most gorgeous couple have ever seen. Shikina.

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They are so cute, lovely couple

Why are people always envious of someone especially when you seems to be on the winning side. Why is it always difficult for some people to accept their fate. If only people can understand that life isn't fair to all, not everyone can be a winner .

I have learnt in the journey of life that even as we struggle to win in our different aspect of life, we should learn contentment and rejoice with the winning team , hopefully someday we would be on the winning side.

How to Become a winner ,and stay a winner


Is success simply a matter of working hard and being in the right place at the right time? Or is who you know more important than what you know? Why is it that some people seem to ride the easy wave to success and others fail miserably for no good reason? Don’t you wonder? I do.

According to Kanter, forward-thinking leaders create a foundation for confidence that permits people to achieve high levels of performance, and do it as part of a successful team. She says every time you win, your confidence is increased. Winning begets winning, because it produces confidence at four levels:
Self-confidence: The result of an emotional climate of aiming high and expecting to reach the target.
Confidence in one another: This is fostered by positive, supportive, team-oriented behavior that makes people more engaged with their tasks and with one another.
Confidence in the system: This makes it possible to transmit problem-solving and team-enhancing behavior to new people and keep the winning streak going.
External confidence: Driven by a network to provide resources that attract media attention, financial backers and opinion leader support.
Winning streaks are characterized by truth-telling, continuity and continued investment. Success is neither magic nor dumb luck; it stems from a great deal of consistent hard work to perfect each detail—it is even a little mundane. Win, go back to work, win again. That’s just a tiny morsel of Kanter’s practical, down-to-earth observations and brilliance.
Winning streaks: Why they end
If winners accumulate so many advantages, why do cycles of success ever end? Winning is hard work, says Kanter. It is never easy or automatic. Winners make mistakes and encounter troubles all the time without falling off the edge. Winners experience problems and must solve them. Winning streaks are punctuated by struggles, but a loss, should it occur, is a crossroads, not a cliff. She claims that every aspect of life is filled with dangers (she references, for example, September 11).
So why do winning streaks end? Several factors are involved, but for brevity's sake, I’ll touch on only a few. If confidence fuels winning, arrogance can destroy it. Arrogance—along with denial, lack of accountability, cover up, enemy blaming, and a host of other issues Kanter addresses extensively—makes people lose sight of reality as they fly high in their fantasies, and when they are no longer grounded, they are tempted to panic at the first signs of trouble.
When winners keep their heads under pressure, they are better equipped to recover from fumbles. But when they become complacent, take winning for granted, begin to believe with little evidence that they can succeed in untested realms, and neglect to mine the foundations supporting them, then winners begin to lose.
Kanter goes on to say that even a great company can slip off the pattern of success. That is always the danger when the foundations of confidence crumble. Confidence is not just putting your best foot forward; it comes from having something solid to stand on. When people let the disciplines go, when they let the support system crumble, when they stop investing in one another, when they stop taking responsibility themselves, that’s when they start promising things they cannot deliver. And that is when winning streaks end.

Winning Quotes


"Never letting the competition define you. Instead, you have to define yourself based on a point of view you care deeply about."
-Tom Chappel

"Have patience with all things, but chiefly have patience with yourself. Do not lose courage in considering your own imperfections but instantly set about remedying them ? every day begin the task anew."
- Saint Francis de Sales

"I count him braver who overcomes his desires than him who conquers his enemies; for the hardest victory is over self." Aristotle

“You were born to win, but to be a winner, you must plan to win, prepare to win, and expect to win.” -Zig Ziglar

10 Ways To Become a Winner And Succeed In Life

You may be a talented artist, writer or singer but are you recognizing your genius and going after it?
You have just as many weaknesses as you do strengths – what have you done to fix your weaknesses and leverage your strengths?
Are you an effective person or do you get easily distracted with the next shiny object?
Have you identified all of your habits? The good and the bad?
Are you aligning yourself with the right team? Winners spend time with other winners – after all, birds of a feather, flock together!
Whatever your idea of winning is, have you crafted your skills enough? There is planning, preparation and talent but without improving your skills, you will always miss that shot, even if you take it 100 times. Improving your skills requires self awareness and the ability to self correct and get the support you need.
Are you committing to life? If you have not committed, writing your desires on a piece of paper and reading it daily is a commitment. Sharing it with someone you trust is another step towards giving it more power.
Are you living (winning) just for yourself or for others? Read for others so you can teach others. Give to yourself so you have enough to give more to others. Contribution is a necessary ingredient to life and success.
Are you easily satisfied with life or are you continuing to up your standards – in every part of your life? Mediocrity is settling for what you have. Winning is always expecting more. This is not not being greedy but instead, striving to become the best.
How fast do you get up when you fall? Life is going to always knock you down but winners learn to get up, shake it off and recover quickly. Failure is inevitable but recovery is a mindset.

What it entails to be a winner

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