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Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by Gabry(f): 10:50am On Feb 02, 2009
Im not generalizing oooo. . . But Im saying most!

Why do they fall in love so quickly like me cooking ma instant noodle?

Its like you talk to them like 5 minutes and they claim that they love you and want to marry you. Wetin be this? Are you guys serious or its just a way to say hello or wetin? And than just as soon as I claim that Im in a relationship, they will say this:-
* I feel like a fool
* I feel like the most silly guy on earth right now
* You have just broke my heart
* I no fit eat and sleep

I mean like DUHHHH. . . . . Does it have to be that when I converse with a Nigerian guy, it has to be falling in love? Why Cant we just talk and be friends?

last month in january, I had 13 NIGERIAN MEN claiming so infront of me. Than I met up with my old time friend (she is a malaysian) and she asked me the same question. . . Why do Nigerian men fall in love so quickly?

Than my cousins ask me that as well and so is my friends. . .

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Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by khaikhai: 10:52am On Feb 02, 2009

Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Want Sex Soooo Quickly!

Fixed
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by Gabry(f): 10:53am On Feb 02, 2009
Youre saying that they wanted sex thats why they claim so?
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by MrCrackles(m): 10:54am On Feb 02, 2009
Na craze!
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by Gabry(f): 10:56am On Feb 02, 2009
Crackie, who dey craze now?
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by ThoniaSlim(f): 10:59am On Feb 02, 2009
Now, any Nigerian guy who tells you he's in love with you just after 5mins he met you, Is in genuine and you don't need no one to tell you that!
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by khaikhai: 11:00am On Feb 02, 2009
gabrywyl:

Youre saying that they wanted sex thats why they claim so?

DING!!!
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by Gabry(f): 11:01am On Feb 02, 2009
HUH? Common now. . . Are they that desperate? Do I look like Tyra Banks or wetin? angry
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by Gabry(f): 11:02am On Feb 02, 2009
But other men dont seem to do it naaa. . , So far only Nigerians, Jamaicans, Zimbabweans, Bangladeshi's and Londoners. . . But mostly Nigerians oooo embarassed
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by MrCrackles(m): 11:04am On Feb 02, 2009
gabrywyl:

Crackie, who dey craze now?  

Guys that fall in love faster than the speed of light! grin
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by Czarskit(m): 11:04am On Feb 02, 2009
They're serious!!!

I LOVE U!

Like me! tongue
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by Gabry(f): 11:06am On Feb 02, 2009
MrCrackles:

Guys that fall in love faster than the speed of light! grin

So are you like them as well? grin

Czarskit:

They're serious!!!

I LOVE U!

Like me! tongue

HAHA! See instant noodle! You dey craze grin
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by Gabry(f): 11:08am On Feb 02, 2009
@ Czarskit

LMAO!!! I think you are officially kolo. . . Wetin be this? grin grin grin

Life sucks! Hide your Tips
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by khaikhai: 11:10am On Feb 02, 2009
gabrywyl:

HUH? Common now. . . Are they that desperate? Do I look like Tyra Banks or wetin? angry

If desperate is what you call it. Yes.
It's not about the beauty, it about the bed.

gabrywyl:

But other men dont seem to do it naaa. . , So far only Nigerians, Jamaicans, Zimbabweans, Bangladeshi's and Londoners. . . But mostly Nigerians oooo embarassed

I remember a guy at work telling me the character of nigerians at his former job. Second on his list. They like to chase women.
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by Gabry(f): 11:12am On Feb 02, 2009
shocked  shocked  shocked Are you serious? So they only like to chase women to have sex? 

And most of them never thought of having a normal relationship?
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by smooooooth: 11:15am On Feb 02, 2009
fasted words that gets u in a ladys pant, ''i love u, i want to marry u''

b4 u know it they're on their next conquest
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by khaikhai: 11:17am On Feb 02, 2009
gabrywyl:

shocked shocked shocked Are you serious? So they only like to chase women to have sex?

And most of them never thought of having a normal relationship?


Chasing women doesn't mean they do not have a wife or a girlfriend somewhere they plan to marry.
You already know that, since they didn't invent "skirt chasing".
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by Ehise99(m): 11:18am On Feb 02, 2009
OP is a revolting attention LovePeddler, no way in hell somebody can fall in love with her
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by Gabry(f): 11:18am On Feb 02, 2009
smooooooth:

fasted words that gets u in a ladys pant, ''i love u, i want to marry u''

b4 u know it they're on their next conquest

Nah,. . . I did not fall for that. Infact I think thats disgusting and dispicable  embarassed

khai_khai:


Chasing women doesn't mean they do not have a wife or a girlfriend somewhere they plan to marry.
You already know that, since they didn't invent "skirt chasing".

So are you saying hat men these days are cheap?  lipsrsealed
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by Gabry(f): 11:20am On Feb 02, 2009
Ehise99:

OP is a revolting attention LovePeddler, no way in hell somebody can fall in love with her

Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by smooooooth: 11:28am On Feb 02, 2009
gabrywyl:

Nah,. . . I did not fall for that. Infact I think thats disgusting and dispicable  embarassed

So are you saying hat men these days are cheap?  lipsrsealed

you are lucky,maybe u didnt meet the once with the sugar coated tongue, your pants wld have dropped bam!!!
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by Tonyet1(m): 11:31am On Feb 02, 2009
sorry oh, but curiosity wont let me be tongue

gabylwyl i thought u are an Indonesian or Philipino wink

how come u stay in ur country and know about naija guys undecided

or are you carrying out a survey on naija Gs for your embassy? wink
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by Ehise99(m): 11:32am On Feb 02, 2009
tonye-t:

sorry oh, but curiosity wont let me be tongue

gabylwyl i thought u are an Indonesian or Philipino wink

how come u stay in ur country and know about naija guys undecided

or are you carrying out a survey on naija Gs for your embassy? wink

she's a madam in a brothel
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by khaikhai: 11:35am On Feb 02, 2009
tonye-t:

sorry oh, but curiosity wont let me be tongue

gabylwyl i thought u are an Indonesian or Philipino wink

how come u stay in ur country and know about naija guys undecided

or are you carrying out a survey on naija Gs for your embassy? wink


Looks more like a rasta-mama from Jamaica.
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by Lovelace: 11:37am On Feb 02, 2009
Here we go with the stereotypes again -can't they ever stop.
So what if they fall so quickly? They fall and they pick themselves up again,init?
Stop with the generalizations, if you say most -how many have you met?
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by tpacalipse(m): 11:38am On Feb 02, 2009
u berra b careful. naija guys dont fall in love like dat. u re being decieved. even they hadly fall in love except they ve being with u and they know u re a wifey material. but wen they re meetin u for the first time and they suspect u re one of the marrrafuking thieving thives chiks we ve in d country, they quickly claim lov, in order to quickly rub u b4 u rub them. grin
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by Ben13: 11:45am On Feb 02, 2009
Ah! Ah!
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by spikedcylinder: 11:46am On Feb 02, 2009
Liars, all of them.
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by SisiJinx: 11:55am On Feb 02, 2009
@ Topic

3 Reasons

1) They don't know what it means. It seems like Naija men label any warm and fuzzy feeling for a girl who isn't their relative. . . Love. This is also why they can hate quickly. . .

Boy meets girls, five minutes later boy tells girl "I'm in love with you" girl goes. . . . "Hmm, Nah, I don't think you are" boy gets offended and starts hating girl.

See. . . No middle ground.

2) They think every girl is just dying to hear "I love you, I'm in love with You, You complete me, I wanna marry you" and all the other empty words.

3) Sadly, many girls fall for this, many girls expect this and get offended when they don't hear it after 2 dates.


By the by. . . Do women expect it because men do it or do men do it because women expect it?
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by Gabry(f): 12:21pm On Feb 02, 2009
smooooooth:

you are lucky,maybe u didnt meet the once with the sugar coated tongue, your pants wld have dropped bam!!!

Ha! Mind you. I hate people with sweet tongue. I am against them!

tonye-t:

sorry oh, but curiosity wont let me be tongue

gabylwyl i thought u are an Indonesian or Philipino wink

how come u stay in ur country and know about naija guys undecided

or are you carrying out a survey on naija Gs for your embassy? wink


Im from Malaysia. And common. Dont tell me Naija peepsdont travel out of their country? They are sooooooooo manyyyyyyyy Nigerian people in Malaysia!

khai_khai:

Looks more like a rasta-mama from Jamaica.

My pic is fake aight?

Lovelace:

Here we go with the stereotypes again -can't they ever stop.
So what if they fall so quickly? They fall and they pick themselves up again,init?
Stop with the generalizations, if you say most -how many have you met?


Ohhhhhh Im sorry if you're offended. But please read all my post carefully. ok? smiley

tpacalipse:

u berra b careful. naija guys dont fall in love like dat. u re being decieved. even they hadly fall in love except they ve being with u and they know u re a wifey material. but wen they re meetin u for the first time and they suspect u re one of the marrrafuking thieving thives chiks we ve in d country, they quickly claim lov, in order to quickly rub u b4 u rub them. grin


Eh?

Ben20001:

Ah! Ah!

Stop it now grin If you really want to get my attention, you have to do that infront of me live! grin tongue

Sisi Jinx:

@ Topic

3 Reasons

1) They don't know what it means. It seems like Naija men label any warm and fuzzy feeling for a girl who isn't their relative. . . Love. This is also why they can hate quickly. . .

<i>Boy meets girls, five minutes later boy tells girl "I'm in love with you" girl goes. . . . "Hmm, Nah, I don't think you are" boy gets offended and starts hating girl.</i>

See. . . No middle ground.

2) They think every girl is just dying to hear "I love you, I'm in love with You, You complete me, I wanna marry you" and all the other empty words.

3) Sadly, many girls fall for this, many girls expect this and get offended when they don't hear it after 2 dates.


By the by. . . Do women expect it because men do it or do men do it because women expect it?

Wow! Something new to learn. Sisi, are you a Nigerian?
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by Czarskit(m): 12:29pm On Feb 02, 2009
@ gabrywyl
Loooooooooooool. . .
The truth lies in desperation (on the man's part). It's simply an issue of telling a gal what she wants to hear, with 'I love you' being the phrase in most cases. The misuse of that phrase has made the word 'love' to lose its value.
Imagine a 'dude' telling me 'I love you' just cos he tot I was a gal. He was shocked when I wrote him telling him otherwise. . .and I nearly laffed to a coma.
'I love U' can be intepreted as 'I wanna. . .U' (The two versionr Akon & Snoop's track explains beta).
So it's no big deal, cos love doesn't exist anyway. . .
Re: Why do Most Nigerian Men Fall In Love Soooo Quickly! by SisiJinx: 12:36pm On Feb 02, 2009
gabrywyl:


Wow! Something new to learn. Sisi, are you a Nigerian?

Proudly so. . . .

Hehehehehe grin

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