We live in times when folks are doing things without really knowing why they are doing them. As a matter of statistics, about 85% of young folks do things simply because they see others doing them.

No one wants to take responsibility for his or her actions so they site an example of how the other guy or girl is doing same.

The crux of the matter is, if you want to do something, say it and mean it. All the talks of, "Who are we now?" after intimacy is absolutely unnecessary, sarcastic, weird and absurd.

Why must it be then you want to swim in a fresh wave of self deception and lies. Tsk!


Eight Ways You Should Stop Deceiving Yourself:


1. Sleeping in a guy's house and expecting nothing

Haha! The percentage of nothing happening when you sleep over in a guy's house is as slim as slim. When you have your own house. Seriously, it's tempting. It's better not tried and then you try it and starts telling him, " I didn't expect that from you "...Shoroniyen! Iro lon'kpa.


2. Trying to mentor a crush

Hehe... Her body alone causes an "uprising" and yet she is the one you decide to mentor. Sometimes, she comes with maths questions and plans to visit you to help her complete her English homework. . Your mind has already completed the job.



3. Dressing unclad in public and getting embarrassed at guys' stare.


They'll come in public and say, "I hate guys staring at my b**bs". Are you sure? Because I think you like it. Our undergraduates today are quite good at this. These days, I wonder how the guys are surviving . Whether the thing is sagged, dried of alive, every girl wants to reveal cleavage and after guys stare, they'll "act" bewildered as though their aim hasn't been met. Duhh!



4. Stealing another girl's bf and expecting to his one and only


What goes around comes around. The law of karma is still keeping on. If ojukokoro pushed you to either "steal" or "seduce" another girl's guy, be rest assured, someone else will steal him from you, even if YOU ARE MARRIED OR SINGLE.



5. Left all the good guys in your church for a bad guy in the club and be complaining he is disturbing you for sex.


This is the worst deception ever. Stop complaining already. You got what you wanted. Good girls liking bad guys, then whom should good guys like?
There are girls who trailed this "fast lane" and began complaining afterwards as to what they should do. I ask myself, "Is she such a dummy?", no offence. " Is she asking for asking sake. How can she not know what to do?"


6. Teasing a married woman and acting shocked when she starts reciprocating

It's easy right? There are only a few married who will stop you at that point when your flattery is beginning to eat deep. Some will play along.
That doesn't make them devils. It's just the way it is. You have to stay clear of married women - especially the younger ones. Remember Karma!


7. We wouldn't have sex. Just pettings, caressing etc.


While this might walk for those who haven't been sexually active, it may not work for you who knows the way to the city gate. One thing will lead to another and another will lead to another...hehehehe.


8. Visiting the opposite sex in a cold and rainy day

It is rainy and that's when you carry yourself with your loosed sweater and jeans trouser. . It's cold and you know what that implies especially when there have been some signals, unspoken words...between both of you.



My point is: Whatever you do, don't put the blame on the next person. Take responsibility for your actions. There is this law called the law of Cause and Effect: Every nuance of whisper, sight, glances,
handshake, reaction and care don't go unnoticed. It's culminating somewhere to be unleashed someday only you can decide.

How sensible are you when that day comes and you start playacting ignorance and insensitivity?

Have a nice weekend.

K ah don hear

That no.8

This guy wey dey play this nairabet for me get plenty pimples sha! GoshHhhhhhh

Emusmith tho.. Creating sensible threads since the days of Pharaoh

lol @ d last number

Noted!

ClassyAdewumi:
This guy wey dey play this nairabet for me get plenty pimples sha! GoshHhhhhhh

so?

Starting another relationship with your Ex

You cheated on him, broke up with him and after few months you came back apologizing. Of course he will accept you especially when he'd never had sex with you in the first relationship but don't think he will love you the way he first did ... Only, that he's gat some unfinished business to tend to.

Omo, na just to dey chop you they go

Pretending to be dangote's daughter/son while your parents are just managing to survive

majority of ppl claim what they are not and this set of ppl will miss opportunities from ppl who can help them.

you drink garri sleep and you are forming u ate fried rice and chicken . who r u deceiving if not your self

ALKARULEZZ:
so?

shey liverpool fit win straight win now?

ClassyAdewumi:
shey liverpool fit win straight win now?

Its official.. U are a troll

7. We wouldn't have sex. Just pettings, caressing etc.


While this might walk for those who haven't been sexually active, it may not work for you who knows the way to the city gate. One thing will lead to another and another will lead to another...hehehehe.
Hmmmmmmm, does this still exist?... This is known as boarding house secondary school innocent love

banabest:

7. We wouldn't have sex. Just pettings, caressing etc.


While this might walk for those who haven't been sexually active, it may not work for you who knows the way to the city gate. One thing will lead to another and another will lead to another...hehehehe.
Hmmmmmmm, does this still exist?... This is known as boarding house secondary school innocent love

Hahaha... Which one is university love then?

ALKARULEZZ:
Emusmith tho.. Creating sensible threads since the days of Pharaoh

Thanks bro

emusmith:

5. Left all the good guys in your church for a bad guy in the club and be complaining he is disturbing you for sex.
This is the worst deception ever. Stop complaining already. You got what you wanted. Good girls liking bad guys, then whom should good guys like?
There are girls who trailed this "fast lane" and began complaining afterwards as to what they should do. I ask myself, "Is she such a dummy?", no offence. " Is she asking for asking sake. How can she not know what to do?"

So "good" guys in church don't disturb for sex abi? И̲̮̣̥̅̊α church guys worse pass sef. Because they've been enduring konji for long and the day they see woman to enter, they'll almost die on top of it.

kristen12:

So "good" guys in church don't disturb for sex abi? И̲̮̣̥̅̊α church guys worse pass sef. Because they've been enduring konji for long and the day they see woman to enter, they'll almost die on top of it.

Hehehehe... You are right on this one!
It's like you are speaking from experience

ALKARULEZZ:
Its official.. U are a troll

official ke? I be like Kardinal official ni

ClassyAdewumi:
This guy wey dey play this nairabet for me get plenty pimples sha! GoshHhhhhhh

Lool•

emusmith:


Hehehehe... You are right on this one!
It's like you are speaking from experience

Not really experience, it is what I know

Dotwillis1:
Starting another relationship with your Ex

You cheated on him, broke up with him and after few months you came back apologizing. Of course he will accept you especially when he'd never had sex with you in the first relationship but don't think he will love you the way he first did ... Only, that he's gat some unfinished business to tend to.

Omo, na just to dey chop you they go

Wow, that's true.

Maybe she also has an unfinished business too

kristen12:

Not really experience, it is what I know

Okay

You're right though

emusmith:


Hahaha... Which one is university love then?

University love is the one you and a girl co habits, she will do the cooking, washing and the BEDDING part (clear throat)... And she will tell her friends.... He's just a friend.....

banabest:


University love is the one you and a girl co habits, she will do the cooking, washing and the BEDDING part (clear throat)... And she will tell her friends.... He's just a friend.....

Lols...Are you kidding me?

cutieberie1:
lol @ d last number

do i need to scroll up again?

that number 8 shaa.

That point one she, just broke up with my girl last night cos of that, i will be thinking she's in her house, but she will use her leg and go and send the night in the house of a fellow church member who she's slept with before ie before we met and she foolishly told me nothing happened, yeah right, foolish girls

slydog:
That point one she, just broke up with my girl last night cos of that, i will be thinking she's in her house, but she will use her leg and go and send the night in the house of a fellow church member who she's slept with before ie before we met and she foolishly told me nothing happened, yeah right, foolish girls

Haha...how do you know she is lying?

All on point..

BluePearls:
All on point..