After 11years?

Is she married now?

You suppose follow her husband marry her ni mehn!

Sincerely, sure it wasn't your fault?

Toks2008:


Go and dye...

Sorry just kidding..just move on with ur life and thank God it happened now.

we have worse cases of a grooom walking out on the bride..4yrs na moi moi...my ex broke up with me after 11yrs so your case no be case. He is not worth u provided that no b u misbehave.

Every disappointment is a blessing....its better 4yrs dan 40yrs

Twaci:
Its sad, really. Well I won't start that all guys are wicked and the same rubbish....Rather lemme say this, girl, he aint worth you.

Everything happens for a reason, even breakups. Let him go, don't cling (that's stupid), don't even bother wondering if he misses you (yeah, I can read minds and I know that's what you are thinking)....just stand up, dust the memories off your shoulders (won't be easy, I know), and smile. Smile because a better man is coming for you.

Oh yeah, in the meantime, work on yourself....we don't really know why he left, so, just learn and move on.

#my2cents

hm! Putting her in a comfort zone, I like that

Ur lover of four yrs broke up wit u. . ,wat else wld u do?than to gather ur piece 2geda and move tha hell ON. . Capish?oya next!

Twaci
post=33121588:
Its sad, really. Well I won't start that all guys are
wicked and the same rubbish....Rather lemme say this, girl, he aint
worth you.

Everything happens for a reason, even breakups. Let him go, don't cling
(that's stupid), don't even bother wondering if he misses you (yeah, I
can read minds and I know that's what you are thinking)....just stand
up, dust the memories off your shoulders (won't be easy, I know), and
smile. Smile because a better man is coming for you.

Oh yeah, in the meantime, work on yourself....we don't really know why
he left, so, just learn and move on.

#my2cents

DO you Have a boyfriend? or the one's you'v been daten hv been so bad to u.

A lot has been said here, though more details would have been needed.

Lala247:


Morning lala

Why chasing after lala while am here.






sorry to burst your bubble,lala hs a Girlfriend. and the girl na commando,she fit burst ur head o.

danbrowndmf:
DO you Have a boyfriend? or the one's you'v been daten hv been so bad to u.

Hey u

Lala247:
Ok ..
I think you should give it a few days let it settle
Sometimes people say and do things they dont mean.. This is because uve been together for 4years ( no be joke)
You can still get back together depending in circumstance of breakup .


Dont worry it hurts at first .. It will get easier . ( ur not alone - chics suffer this everyday)
Trust me his feeling exactly the same no matter how much he tries to hide it..
Take a break , go on holiday, put ur energy i to work or studies he will come bk

Hope u didnt cheat sha..

only 3 out of 10 Nigerian girls can stay 4years in a relationship wifout seen anoda dick.

@ Op, who's that ghost girl that send u the email. Let her come here and tell us what really happened so we can advice her. Who knows? Maybe girl was caught with another guy or maybe she want to kill the guy and the guy had no other option than to quit and run for his life and people are here ranting in the name of advice without knowing what caused their seperation.

Twaci:
Hey u

i guess i was right.












All Guys are Not The same.
Give another person chance.

First, u need to let it out. Have a good cry. (U guys r sayin she shud just dust it off nd move on. This is 4 years we are talkin about here o) After crying then u should look for sumthn positive to think about. Just do something to take ur mind off this. When u see that ur gettin ur life back on track, then u can move on and think of gertin sumone else. Lots of fishes in the sea.

Dont accept the guy back unless he gives u a very good reason for leaving u in the first place. And then dont rush back into it even if his reason makes sense. Then u would just seem desperate. Havea good think.

Twaci:
Its sad, really. Well I won't start that all guys are wicked and the same rubbish....Rather lemme say this, girl, he aint worth you.

Everything happens for a reason, even breakups. Let him go, don't cling (that's stupid), don't even bother wondering if he misses you (yeah, I can read minds and I know that's what you are thinking)....just stand up, dust the memories off your shoulders (won't be easy, I know), and smile. Smile because a better man is coming for you.

Oh yeah, in the meantime, work on yourself....we don't really know why he left, so, just learn and move on.

#my2cents

really..he doesn't worth her??for over 4years??is that the best you can come up with....my dear,its not gonna be easy at all,four years isn't a four hour thing...u gonna feel depressed,frustrated and probably considering ending your own life which will amount to nothing.just try not to dwell in the past,find a new hobby,hang out more often,dnt sit and brood over the niqqa,he's probably enjoying himself,why woudnt you enjoy ursf too..all relationshp mustnt end in walkn down d aisle..party hard..such is life...ladies shld know wen to quit a relationship.4years without commitmnt n u stil comfortable....#sad

Give him reasons to come back, let him know u r d only one dat can love him more, but if he insists on leaving, den u just need to move on maybe. Maybe he needs to getout so mr right can get in. But over all try to be in high spirit , u will br fine.

danbrowndmf:
i guess i was right.












All Guys are Not The same.
Give another person chance.

Hmnn

Everydaeguy:
really..he doesn't worth her??for over 4years??is that the best you can come up with....my dear,its not gonna be easy at all,four years isn't a four hour thing...u gonna feel depressed,frustrated and probably considering ending your own life which will amount to nothing.just try not to dwell in the past,find a new hobby,hang out more often,dnt sit and brood over the niqqa,he's probably enjoying himself,why woudnt you enjoy ursf too..all relationshp mustnt end in walkn down d aisle..party hard..such is life...ladies shld know wen to quit a relationship.4years without commitmnt n u stil comfortable....#sad

Don't be sad buddy.

You ought to ve told us what actually happened so that we can advice wisely. As it stands now only a fool will advice.

Trying to get this whole thing together but it's not working. Decided to repost it with my response

Twaci:

hv a wonderful day ahead...am watching ball.

RomanZeus:
Bro did u collect her phone number?

Oshey mr toaster!

sad to say but this is what happens when you make a man your beginning n end. hard truth but it's still the truth. what were u doing hanging in there with a man for four yrs? or you believe that crap 'suffer with a man n reap the fruits later'. well...its no use crying over spilt milk so pick yourself up n dust your behind and focus on making yourself a better person and making urself happy. It may seem hard but focus on whatever you're doing; schooling, working etc. and in no time, Ull discover u no longer feel pain.

Girls been advising other girls on what they cannot do.

danbrowndmf:
[s]Why chasing after lala while am here.






sorry to burst your bubble,lala hs a Girlfriend. and the girl na commando,she fit burst ur head o.

[/s]

Life goes on jareh

danbrowndmf:
hv a wonderful day ahead...am watching ball.

Ok dear. Have fun!

Twaci:
Its sad, really. Well I won't start that all guys are wicked and the same rubbish....Rather lemme say this, girl, he aint worth you.

Everything happens for a reason, even breakups. Let him go, don't cling (that's stupid), don't even bother wondering if he misses you (yeah, I can read minds and I know that's what you are thinking)....just stand up, dust the memories off your shoulders (won't be easy, I know), and smile. Smile because a better man is coming for you.

Oh yeah, in the meantime, work on yourself....we don't really know why he left, so, just learn and move on.

#my2cents

You don't even know what happened, you don't know what she or he did, and you just assumed the guy is at fault. What's wrong with you ladies??

Lala247:


Morning lala

how many lala do we have?

femi4:
how many lala do we have?

Like 30 at least

op maybe you don't just worth it, check yourself if you are he won't leave you.

I think part of those guys the girls out there should be careful of are space bookers. See as the guy confidently book space for this girl life. That's 4 good years gone, a whole term of a Nigeria President. On a lighter note, I see them coming back together.