I’m in my early 20s and in love with a 28-year-old man. He has a good job and he is quite nice to me.

I always feel that any girl who is not a virgin should not marry him. We have been together for a year and he has promised marrying me but he doesn’t know my past deeds. I have this innocent and youthful look and he would never know that so far, I’ve dated 12 guys and I’ve had seven abortions. He has planned our marriage for October and I feel guilty not telling him what I had done.I feel that if I tell him, he could change his mind and break up with me. I don’t think I can get another man like him. What do I do? Tell him and lose him? Or keep quiet and get married?

Y.A,

Abuja

funny oooooo

Clap for yourself....


You Try!

in the other thread.. a woman dated 49 men.. you know what happened to her. I just imagin how your p****y will look like.. Atlantic Ocean

silence is the best answer my dear, nobody holly pass. so start being a good girl from now..till you get married ...and for ever .

Don't tell him o, jus change ur ways

there's nothing like having a good conscience, if you keep quiet and marry him, what if your past deeds come up in the future to haunt you? would he be happy to hear them from someone else?

no sin is too great that it can not be forgiven, and no sin is too great that it cannot be confessed.
I know what you stand to lose if you tell him but not telling him is the greatest harm of all.
tell him your past, there is no one without one. but however, tell him you've changed and you're a new creature. tell him how much you love him, convince him.

marriage is forever, dont think you can hide that secret till you die. cos that's the biggest joke of all, nothing is hidden under the sun.

*Jump and pass*

tell him and lose your man or keep quiet and be a good wife

HIDDEN SECRETS IS ONE OF THE FOUNDATION OF A BROKEN HOME!!!! ITS BEST YOU TELL HIM. AT LEAST ITS YOUR PAST. IF HE LOVES YOU AND HE IS YOUR MAN, IF YOU LOSE HIM, HE IS NOT UR DIVINE PARTNER.