bukatyne:


Lol!
I need to get tape rule immediately

Vickybee:

Must men want women to worship them? Jeez!
Even if she's not successful that doesn't mean she should worship him. For what?
Respect is reciprocal. Husband and wife should respect each other, irregardless.

Rapmoney:
Yeah, am a Nigerian man but I don't have such backward mentality!

elantraceey:



oh really, it's not just in words you know.

Twaci:
There was this story I heard one time, a guy saw a girl in a shopping mall and approached her. They talked...gisted was more like it and even exchanged numbers.

The guy didn't call back and refused to pick her calls later on. Why?

"She paid my bills -" he had replied.

And I asked myself, so what? But then he finished his sentence. "- it was worth N52, 500"

More to that, another thing that had got to him was the fact that the girl drove off in a sweet ride while he had hailed a taxi.

Thanks for the info Rapmoney, hope guys read and understand this.

Rapmoney:


Is it really an exclusive right for men only to be successful and own cars? Why do we have young women schooling or learning a trade? Is it not to be successful in their chosen careers? Do we expect these women to subject themselves to lack and poverty?

yhusiee:

A woman should be successful, no doubts. It is an orderly procedural thing starting with her family. Especially her husband. If she can adequately take care of her family and handle her job, then it's not a problem; but that is not the case in most cases, we women tend to focus more on one more than the other. Most of us are just not that strong. Kuddooss to the strong ones anyway!

yhusiee:

A woman should be successful, no doubts. It is an orderly procedural thing starting with her family. Especially her husband. If she can adequately take care of her family and handle her job, then it's not a problem; but that is not the case in most cases, we women tend to focus more on one more than the other. Most of us are just not that strong. Kuddooss to the strong ones anyway!

Rapmoney:
Yeah, am a Nigerian man but I don't have such backward mentality!

An0nimus:


That's good to know.

yhusiee:

A woman should be successful, no doubts. It is an orderly procedural thing starting with her family. Especially her husband. If she can adequately take care of her family and handle her job, then it's not a problem; but that is not the case in most cases, we women tend to focus more on one more than the other. Most of us are just not that strong. Kuddooss to the strong ones anyway!

elantraceey:


will you get married to a woman who is far richer than you without feeling inferior at times?

Rapmoney:
Low mentality in thinking must have led to them being scared!

oloyede252:

mr rap.people have thier set standard so if a man those not want that,it doesnt mean he is scared or have low mentality.it simply means he want what he is comfortable with..so if you are comfortable with that good for u..
So ladies who prefer to date rich guys is that low mentality or are they scared too.

pacino26:


I think the topic is over rated. And to your question I'll gladly do, you've to know your self worth as a human being then understand your worth as a man not tied to your acc balance.

Plus what's the definition of a successful woman@ Op

Rapmoney:
You should know this is not a universal phenomenon but particular to Nigerian men. What does this show? It shows that Nigerian men are still holding on to that assumption that shows men have the exclusive right to be the successful ones only! That's where am coming from

KanwuliaJara:
How can they be scared when the same women are their SUGAR MOMMAS?

Rapmoney:
Ask Kema Chikwe what a successful woman means...ask Foluronsho Alakija...ask Ngozi Okonjo-Iweala...ask Modupe Ozoluwa...ask Genevieve Nnaji...or u still want me to continue?

pickabeau1:
OP .. whats your point

I think you are trying too hard

You have not even defined what a successful woman is?

Is it the mouthed ones who because they have good jobs suddenly think they know it all in a relationship?

Is it those who focus on their careers to the detriment of their kids and families

Is it those who don't acknowledge the headship of their husbands and second guess him everystep of the way and even slap him in the face when he has a small financial challenge

whats your point


: Rapmoney

pacino26:


Bro, you're in the same school of thought as mine.

Rapmoney:
Sincerely speaking, my Nigerian brothers are falling my hands big time!!!

Often times, I hear people (including the male folks!) Saying 'young women that are successful in their respective careers and probably drive cars are no-go area!' That's a huge sign of inferiority complex and an exhibition of shallow mentality!

Is it really an exclusive right for men only to be successful and own cars? Why do we have young women schooling or learning a trade? Is it not to be successful in their chosen careers? Do we expect these women to subject themselves to lack and poverty?

Today, most Nigerian ladies who are successful and unmarried are normally seen as a no-go area for men. They label such women as disrespectful and not submissive under wrong assumptions! This clearly shows a poor mentality of the male folks!!!

Nigerian guys need to live above this poor mentality and accept the fact that becoming successful is not an exclusive right of the male folks...success is all encompassing and can be attained by anyone, irrespective of gender!

Please, feel free to share your views.

Peace!

pickabeau1:
OP .. whats your point

I think you are trying too hard

You have not even defined what a successful woman is?

Is it the mouthed ones who because they have good jobs suddenly think they know it all in a relationship?

Is it those who focus on their careers to the detriment of their kids and families

Is it those who don't acknowledge the headship of their husbands and second guess him everystep of the way and even slap him in the face when he has a small financial challenge

whats your point


: Rapmoney

Vickybee:

Must men want women to worship them? Jeez!

Even if she's not successful that doesn't mean she should worship him. For what?

Respect is reciprocal. Husband and wife should respect each other, irregardless.

Ontarget:


I think it has to do with the way our ladies behave rather than inferiority complex. Poor ladies in naija insult men anyhow. So what do you expect when these ladies become rich?

Rapmoney:
So why do men in other climes not having same thinking if it is not a false trashy societal belief held by Nigerian men?