[b]When you listen to people who have
been scammed by someone they thought
there was a chance for a future with, you'll be shocked. If you are online investing your time and
your heart with someone who is taking
advantage of you, you may end up losing
more than a potential love.


1. The online dater wants to call you
personal pet names too soon. They
begin calling you honey, baby, love;
the list goes on and on.


2. They encourage you to leave the
dating or social network site you are
currently on and communicate instant
messaging or some other site.


3. They send you too many photos too
soon, using their child, their dog or
other personal touches. They also
want more photos of you (BE
CAREFUL).


4. They want your address immediately
and back it up by saying they want to
send you flowers or court you in an
“old fashioned manner.”


5. They give you numerous excuses of
why they cannot meet you in person.


6. Things always come up that need to
be dealt with immediately. This is
where they will begin needing money
or some other assistance from you.
They are slick about the timing with
this and usually wait until you are
“hooked.”


7. If you are wise enough to catch them,
they continue to lie by telling you
that although they weren’t in love
with you, through the process of
getting to know you they have
completely fallen in love with you. Do
not believe this.






Relationships that
don’t progress to an eventual meet up are
not normal.
Humans want to see the
person they believe they love, they want
to touch them, and they want to connect
physically with them.
In fact, resisting a
meet up after months of talking daily
would be a sign that there is something
amiss with the person you met online. For
example, problems with commitment,
abandonment or fear of being vulnerable
would stand out as likely with this group.[/b]

www.maryjorapini.com



sha some online relationships do work but be mindful of these points guys
let's learn from this pls

cc:
lalasticlala

Trash!! I say trash!! This is the reason many lose someone who truly loves them all because of trash lacking facts like this.

Accept the trash the poster above me posted at your own risk

I dnt agree wit number 2... Bt d rest isokay

mine is true love though we haven't met but the trust and feelings is there.

will meet her soon......


teamonlinedating.

I agree with number 5.

online romance isnt real love bt when two sincere people get committed online romance can become real and true love.

wristwatch:
I agree with number 5.

what if u guys are miles away?

Interesting. No 5 is very true.

@op it seems ure a victim.

Nothing wrong in 1-4

sweetorgasm:
@op it seems ure a victim.

creating a thread on a particular subject now makes one a victim??

agarawu23:
what if u guys are miles away?

Then they must find a way 2 meet each other

eph12:
Nothing wrong in 1-4

your opinion doesn't count Mr

5. They give you numerous excuses ofwhy they cannot meet you in person


point number 5 is on two occasion

1. I agree if you guys live in same country/state and he/she kept giving excuses to see u. definitely the love is a "scam"(if he/she keeps on insisting and giving silly excuses y u guys can't meet)

2. what if both of you are miles away?

mirexxx:
creating a thread on a particular subject now makes one a victim??
dey your lane abeg!

na question i ask o!!!

mirexxx:
your opinion doesn't count Mr

Lol.. Calm down o. No be fight. I know my opinion doesn't count but I'll like to know those whose opinion counts ma.

mirexxx:
[b]When you listen to people who have
been scammed by someone they thought
there was a chance for a future with, you'll be shocked. If you are online investing your time and
your heart with someone who is taking
advantage of you, you may end up losing
more than a potential love.


1. The online dater wants to call you
personal pet names too soon. They
begin calling you honey, baby, love;
the list goes on and on.


2. They encourage you to leave the
dating or social network site you are
currently on and communicate instant
messaging or some other site.


3. They send you too many photos too
soon, using their child, their dog or
other personal touches. They also
want more photos of you (BE
CAREFUL).


4. They want your address immediately
and back it up by saying they want to
send you flowers or court you in an
“old fashioned manner.”


5. They give you numerous excuses of
why they cannot meet you in person.


6. Things always come up that need to
be dealt with immediately. This is
where they will begin needing money
or some other assistance from you.
They are slick about the timing with
this and usually wait until you are
“hooked.”


7. If you are wise enough to catch them,
they continue to lie by telling you
that although they weren’t in love
with you, through the process of
getting to know you they have
completely fallen in love with you. Do
not believe this.






Relationships that
don’t progress to an eventual meet up are
not normal.
Humans want to see the
person they believe they love, they want
to touch them, and they want to connect
physically with them.
In fact, resisting a
meet up after months of talking daily
would be a sign that there is something
amiss with the person you met online. For
example, problems with commitment,
abandonment or fear of being vulnerable
would stand out as likely with this group.[/b]

www.maryjorapini.com



sha some online relationships do work but be mindful of these points guys
let's learn from this pls

cc:
lalasticlala

I TOTALLY disagree ma

jacksparrow1207:

I TOTALLY disagree ma

its not for YOU to agree sir

eph12:

Lol.. Calm down o. No be fight. I know my opinion doesn't count but I'll like to know those whose opinion counts ma.

your first post is misleading. some wouldn't care to check the list out after seeing that post of yours. Thanks

agarawu23:
5. They give you numerous excuses ofwhy they cannot meet you in person


point number 5 is on two occasion

[s]1. I agree if you guys live in same country/state and he/she kept giving excuses to see u. definitely the love is a "scam"(if he/she keeps on insisting and giving silly excuses y u guys can't meet)

2. what if both of you are miles away?[/s]

Invalid!
Why would u wanna date somebody who's thousands of miles away from u? Why start a relationship with someone in a far country when u know neither of u can afford flight ticket?

mirexxx:
its not for YOU to agree sir

Yea. And I won't agree

starlingslimnet:
Trash!! I say trash!! This is the reason many lose someone who truly loves them all because of trash lacking facts like this.

you are garbage yourself! this is just an advice/precautions to take! if you choose to loose the one you love over this thread then its your problem. have fun dating online

jacksparrow1207:


Invalid!
Why would u wanna date somebody who's thousands of miles away from u? Why start a relationship with someone in a far country when u know neither of u can afford flight ticket?

you dont choose who you fall in love with. so its very possible to date someone thousands of miles away.
a friend of mine here in Nigeria dated an Asian girl. they broke up!

mirexxx:
you are garbage yourself! this is just an advice/precautions to take! if you choose to loose the one you love over this thread then its your problem. have fun dating online

Omo mehn.... This Lady dey vex

mirexxx:
your first post is misleading. some wouldn't care to check the list out after seeing that post of yours. Thanks

Oh that's how you saw it. Tho I think anybody that sees my comment will want to scroll to the OP to see what's there and why am disagreeing.
But wait o, u seriously don't expect everybody to agree na. I believe you should have asked why I or any other don't agree instead of attacking the person. It's OK tho.

Mirexxx at no2 though, if he/she asks you to leave the social site, I think it's because he/she wants you all to himself/herself for the fear of you meeting someone else.. is that bad?
Or is it me that dont understand the topic or the post?

eph12:

Oh that's how you saw it. Tho I think anybody that sees my comment will want to scroll to the OP to see what's there and why am disagreeing.
But wait o, u seriously don't expect everybody to agree na. I believe you should have asked why I or any other don't agree instead of attacking the person. It's OK tho.

alright then I'll ask em

mirexxx:
you dont choose who you fall in love with. so its very possible to date someone thousands of miles away.
a friend of mine here in Nigeria dated an Asian girl. they broke up!

And you were unable to stop the break up

Tashaamania:
Mirexxx at no2 though, if he/she asks you to leave the social site, I think it's because he/she wants you all to himself/herself for the fear of you meeting someone else.. is that bad?
Or is it me that dont understand the topic or the post?

its not bad. its alright if you disagree