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Menace Of Single Motherhood… Wait, If You Have To! by floxxy51: 9:00am On May 03, 2015
‘’Two is better than one, for they have a better
reward for their labour” and ‘’One shall chase a
thousand and two shall put ten thousand to
flight.” These are scriptural verses that show
how powerful and effective the bond between
two people can be. Living a life of solitude is not
God’s plan or purpose for us. And that is why He
instituted marriage and said it wasn’t good for
man to be alone What then, do we say to the ever-growing
number of singles and the increasing pressure
being mounted on them by their family members,
especially the parents? Does it mean if one
attains a certain age without having a life partner
or settling down something is wrong with the
person?
Should such a ‘’single’’ person give in to pressure
and the feeling of desperation and just go ahead
to settle down with whoever comes along, even
when it’s not what she desires? These and many
more questions have been racing across my mind
for a while now, considering the fact that a lot of
the divorce and broken homes that is rampant
today can be traced to settling down with the
wrong person from the beginning. This brings to
mind the biblical verse, “if the foundation be
destroyed what can the righteous do?”
From a personal standpoint, I am not an
advocate of late marriage neither do I believe in
rushing into marriage because we feel we are of
age and time is no longer on our sides.
Therefore, we allow ourselves to be pressured
into a relationship we would never have dreamt
of dabbling into in the first place, while forgetting
that whatever happens in that union, we alone,
would bear the brunt. We end up enduring and
managing the affair, which was actually designed
by our maker to be enjoyed, or at worst we
decide to quit and consequently increase the
number of divorce or broken home in the
society. http://247inquirer.com/2015/05/menace-of-a-single-motherhood-wait-if-you-have-to/
Re: Menace Of Single Motherhood… Wait, If You Have To! by Cutehector(m): 9:17am On May 03, 2015
Moral of the passage... Don't turn guys down!! U duno which of dem is ur future husband! grin

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Re: Menace Of Single Motherhood… Wait, If You Have To! by Fairgodwin(m): 9:22am On May 03, 2015
maybe somebody should please explain to me.
Re: Menace Of Single Motherhood… Wait, If You Have To! by SAMBARRY: 10:37am On May 03, 2015
Everything in life is choice so why another person's choice dey pepper your body grin

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Re: Menace Of Single Motherhood… Wait, If You Have To! by kristonium(m): 10:40am On May 03, 2015
floxxy51:
‘’Two is better than one, for they have a better
reward for their labour” and ‘’One shall chase a
thousand and two shall put ten thousand to
flight.” These are scriptural verses that show
how powerful and effective the bond between
two people can be. Living a life of solitude is not
God’s plan or purpose for us. And that is why He
instituted marriage and said it wasn’t good for
man to be alone What then, do we say to the ever-growing
number of singles and the increasing pressure
being mounted on them by their family members,
especially the parents? Does it mean if one
attains a certain age without having a life partner
or settling down something is wrong with the
person?
Should such a ‘’single’’ person give in to pressure
and the feeling of desperation and just go ahead
to settle down with whoever comes along, even
when it’s not what she desires? These and many
more questions have been racing across my mind
for a while now, considering the fact that a lot of
the divorce and broken homes that is rampant
today can be traced to settling down with the
wrong person from the beginning. This brings to
mind the biblical verse, “if the foundation be
destroyed what can the righteous do?”
From a personal standpoint, I am not an
advocate of late marriage neither do I believe in
rushing into marriage because we feel we are of
age and time is no longer on our sides.
Therefore, we allow ourselves to be pressured
into a relationship we would never have dreamt
of dabbling into in the first place, while forgetting
that whatever happens in that union, we alone,
would bear the brunt. We end up enduring and
managing the affair, which was actually designed
by our maker to be enjoyed, or at worst we
decide to quit and consequently increase the
number of divorce or broken home in the
society. http://247inquirer.com/2015/05/menace-of-a-single-motherhood-wait-if-you-have-to/
wow!
what a powerful article!
MOD,pls front page!
A lot more people need to read this!
Singles should stop dying in silence!
Re: Menace Of Single Motherhood… Wait, If You Have To! by lilmax(m): 10:53am On May 03, 2015
undecided
Re: Menace Of Single Motherhood… Wait, If You Have To! by kristonium(m): 3:15pm On May 03, 2015
SAMBARRY:
Everything in life is choice so why another person's choice dey pepper your body grin
must u comment?
smh

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Re: Menace Of Single Motherhood… Wait, If You Have To! by SAMBARRY: 3:22pm On May 03, 2015
kristonium:

must u comment?
smh
yes wink

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Re: Menace Of Single Motherhood… Wait, If You Have To! by floxxy51: 5:45pm On May 03, 2015
Fairgodwin:
maybe somebody should please explain to me.
why don't u just visit the link and get the whole gist.
Re: Menace Of Single Motherhood… Wait, If You Have To! by kristonium(m): 6:15pm On May 03, 2015
SAMBARRY:
yes wink
then be sensible in your comment OK?
Re: Menace Of Single Motherhood… Wait, If You Have To! by SAMBARRY: 6:54pm On May 03, 2015
kristonium:

then be sensible in your comment
OK?
See this agricultural fowl. Na you go determine wetin I wan type grin


Abeg dress jare ko wabigba lo grin

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Re: Menace Of Single Motherhood… Wait, If You Have To! by kristonium(m): 7:19pm On May 03, 2015
SAMBARRY:
See this agricultural fowl. Na you go determine wetin I wan type grin


Abeg dress jare ko wabigba lo grin
I decided to check your pic and wasn't shocked by what I saw..
no more comment..
cheers
Re: Menace Of Single Motherhood… Wait, If You Have To! by SAMBARRY: 7:40pm On May 03, 2015
kristonium:

I decided to check your pic and wasn't shocked by what I saw..
no more comment..
cheers
byeeee forever. Go and quench grin








I know fight dey hungry you, you go dress go front find wetin you dey look for grin




Byeeeeee tongue

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