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Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by sirwilly1(m): 8:04pm On May 08, 2015 |
ademega:Pls dont tell me the guy just ended it with 2 slaps. I hope say he punch the girl eye comot? |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by olami234lekan(m): 9:39pm On May 08, 2015 |
akinboyepelumi9: Chai... You remind me of mama peace... dearis God o 1 Like |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by Dhavids(m): 10:37pm On May 08, 2015 |
For me ooo....the first day she raised her hand to slap me will begin d drama. I ll hold her hand, look into her eyes and tell her baby, raise this hand up against me ever again and we are over!....jst because d boss dosent want to fire you dosent mean he takes sh*t.... |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by FOREXMARTS: 10:43pm On May 08, 2015 |
ademega:Only two slaps? Not cool brah, you need a lasting impression. I am totally against hitting a woman but in order to pass the message in this situation a real drilling would have been perfect. |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by akinboyepelumi9: 7:06am On May 09, 2015 |
olami234lekan:LWKMD |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by Segse(m): 9:43am On May 09, 2015 |
Sorry if my contribution seems weird. That's part of the reasons why it's necessary u knw how ur fiancée behaves @ home (with parents, siblings & neighbors). I see it as awkward when I see some (yoruba) guys feeling too egocentric to visit their potential in law's house as often as u can to know what u want to know b4 tying the knot with their daughter. No matter how a girl pretends when with u, she can't hide all when @ home. For the topic, I'm sure d mother/sister knows her daughter/sister so reporting to them 1st would have been better before raising ur hand too. I condemn that lady but the man shoudnt have given her to much chance to go that far irrespective of his stance on not raising his hand on a woman. |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by sisisioge: 10:13am On May 09, 2015 |
Omg! what kind of home are they nurturing? No one should be abused in a relationship! No woman, no man. I'm sure the atmosphere is a lot calmer now... |
Re: Can One Slap His Wife In This Case? by ademega(m): 8:37pm On May 11, 2015 |
Then to his in-law She Stopped communicating with his mother in law and that his wife sister . Reason : Before the whole thing got to that stage , he said he would always call the mother in-law to report his wife on several occasions but it seems instead of the wife to soft pedal she was becoming worst . in fact , he said two weeks before the incident , he called the mother in law and told her that would be last time he would call to report her daughter ,that hence forth , the daughter will be the one doing the complain. Just like the past , she promised to talk to her and promising that she would change . It was that incident that actually showed that the mother has always believe the stories of her daughter .and this got my brother angry and believed the mother has been the one giving her courage to continue with her bad character . Personally , am still begging him to start talking to them ( mother In-law and wife sister ) Then it brings the question , how deep should in-laws get involved in a couples' fight ? Please don't comment if you are yet to read the below story in this thread. https://www.nairaland.com/2301412/one-slap-wife-case I intentionally stopped that story of my step brother at that level so that I could see reactions. You won't believe it , that was the last time my brother's wife ever raised her hand on my brother . just like some people said in the other thread , the two slaps brought her brain to factory reset . I Dont support beating a woman and I won't support it any day ,but I must confess ,that two slaps worked . The family intervened and my brother was sad about it because he had to talk about so many issues he has been enduring and hidding from . people. Pastors and people at home talked to the wife as follows . 1. That as a woman ,the husband is the head ,and for raising your hand to beat your head is a curse . 2. That she should thank God that her husband is the kind of man he is , he would have sent her to early grave . 3. That for even beating her husband , she was using her own hand to destroy her home . 4. That she is not a good role model to her younger ones and ladies around . And to my brother too 1. That its understandable ,he has been trying to protect his wife from the family but at the same time ,in situation like that, you talk to peole who is experienced and knowledgeable to talk sense to her. 2. It was discovered, He has this sharp mouth that could bring up a dead body and fight . so he was equally cautioned on how he talk to his wife during provocation. 3. It exposed the family , people that heard about the issue are now interested to know what is happening in their marriage . I will also need to add, it took a very longtime for joy and happiness to be restored to that house and not yet fully self . 1 Like |
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