Godmother:
I need help on qualities that make a woman a good wife or a man a good husband. I am writing an article for a project and I'm not married. I don't want to start writing theoretical points but want my project to stand out.

Also qualities that will prevent divorce

CC
LordReed
Adesiji77
KarchisBarbie

Godmother:
I need help on qualities that make a woman a good wife or a man a good husband. I am writing an article for a project and I'm not married. I don't want to start writing theoretical points but want my project to stand out.

Also qualities that will prevent divorce

CountDracula:

D wife can't single handedly prevent divorce, if a husband doesn't want a wife anymore dats it...
People wil tell u all sorts of qualities be obedient, b dis b dat bla bla bla... Me I wil say d wife shud jus knw d husband and learn to love him, d being a good wife ideas shud come easier

tpiadotcom:
And is the good wife not a movie?

winetapper:
And understanding too very necessary, cos with it she would know when and how to gain favours and how to easily get his heart when in need

CountDracula:

Yes! I like ur moniker

hehehe thanks you must like palmwine too

winetapper:
hehehe thanks you must like palmwine too

CountDracula:
1. Be perfect

tpiadotcom:
What's the essence of having free google if people refuse to use it.

CountDracula:

Any wine at all I like!

You are truely a man

Godmother:


Seriously ? That's not possible naa

winetapper:
You are truely a man

CountDracula:

It takes a true man to knw another!

bellong:
In a related news

bellong:
In a related news

cococandy:

Godmother:

This just got me ROFL.

LordReed:
Some questions don't have simple answers and those on relationship fall into this category because we as humans are not a simple bunch to analyse or even categorise. What makes marriages work boils down to the interactions between the individuals involved so while a trait maybe lacking in some it won't result in the same outcome. What is the point of this preamble? Work with who you have not on any fantasy or false expectations. This means you have to carefully select the person because guess what? People change very slowly if at all. If you don't choose someone who you can work with, you are already bound to have more clashes than you maybe able to resolve.

Secondly, love is an amalgamation of various characteristics, the emotional aspect is only a small part of it and can easily be overruled by other aspects so do not rely on your emotions. "We are in love" is the blinker some put on to ignore some other important matters like trust, patience, kindness, etc believing "love" will conquer all. What they call love is that heady emotion, that emotion does not conquer trials and tribulations, in fact it may even put more fire into trials and tribulations. It is those who can put emotions in check and have a moment to review things that will overcome.

Finally, marriage will be enjoyed according to the amount of effort you put into making it work and that goes for both partners, no one should wait for the other to make all the effort. Play your part and encourage & compliment your partner as they do theirs.

MRBrownJ:
as someone said, you can have all the best qualities that MR A requires but if you are married to MR B then its pointless. compatibility and understanding before anything is the key.

Specialist900:
Uncle, when is the marriage class starting? I want to enrol already.
Nice writeup