igaro:

Hi there,

You have a loving and very hardworking wife. Your job is whack, , and you haven't been paid salaries for some months, you r broke
and you need to move house, eventually your wife paid the rent for the new crib amongst other things,

How should you feel in that new house when you guys eventually move in?

Free   or restricted  , owing to your financial and emotional situation?

Outstrip:

I am glad you are talking about it sha. Don't let useless pride cause trouble for you guys. Why should you not feel free. If the tables were turned would you expect her to feel like a loser. Don't start getting thoughts in your head now. It is y'alls home and not just hers.

Ben20001:

that man might have married the wife from a backdoor

sparta:

Wetin concern your inlaws, let them run their commentary as much as they want to as long as your wife does not rub it in your face. people will always talk, man you are blessed and people are only jealous because you are not totally down due to the loss of your job. Don't let them break your marriage, be strong and happy.

But why doo you want to be alone?

igaro:

Hi there,

You have a loving and very hardworking wife. Your job is whack, , and you haven't been paid salaries for some months, you r broke
and you need to move house, eventually your wife paid the rent for the new crib amongst other things,  [size=1[b][/b]8pt]why do you need to move house? what is the urgency and why couldnt you pay for it?[/size]
How should you feel in that new house when you guys eventually move in?  [size=18pt]i am sorry you shouldnt feel very comfortable. you must never place the burden of providing things like shelter on your wife. it is a NO NO situation[/size]

Free  or restricted  , owing to your financial and emotional situation?

tpia:

must the in laws be present in your home? Or who's giving them blow by blow accounts of what goes on in your marriage?

sparta:


You can also look for a cathederal or church around you when you neeed solitude. Most cathedrals and churches are usually very quiet in the afternoons, believe me you will so much enjoy the environment. Just keep praying and dont let them come btw you and your wife, some inlaws are pain in the neck. The best

Taliban:

i would suggest that you stop dissipating negative energy by wasting your emotions on being egocentric. if you stop being bothered am positive something good will come up faster than you think. but pls when your breakthrough comes, don't ever forget your wife and always hold her in high esteem.