Why does 's.ex' sell
many people readily click on topics that border on sex
people are quick to buy printed materials (books, magazines, etc) about sex
friends talk excitedly wen it is about sex
music intrigues people wen d lyrics re sexual
even cartoons, series, sit-coms, movies, documentaries, etc wen sex is mentioned it gets many people's attention.
yes not everyone but many people old n young, married or unmarried, Christian or unChristian, rich or poor
clergy or lay faithfuls, educated or uneducated!
what is it really?
America generally (i guess out of its stance on liberality and free-ness not freedom) popularized sex over and above many countries in their government, adverts, streets, religion and policies. since many countries like to take ques from them, this sex craze seems to be spreading like wild fire.
sex is good in itself but it has been corrupted. people say what is good n original is often corrupted like medicine, law, fashion, money, friendships and all.
sex is trully beautiful and good wen done in a marriage union between a man and woman.
sex outside of this is corrupt and misused
sex is a private matter like the colour of a guy's boxers or the bra size of a lady
it is not the business of the public
sex can b taught in schools for educational purposes
discussed between a Dr n d patient
talked about between parents n children, spouses, counselors and all
but wen sex is brought up in a song or cartoon or Frontpage and social media
it brings a sacred issue to the open for irrelevant comments n third parties
if sex tingles or excites you, it is a problem
if it doesn't, it doesn't mean u'r frigid, a eunuch or bloodless, it means u respect the sanctity of marriage, the act of sex and the people involved.
why should i care about how Mr. A n Miss have sex or how Alhaji C n Hajia D do it
why shld i care what a musician thinks abt it from Tonto Dike to 50 cents to P2 to Beyonce to Olamide to R.Kelly to Marvin Gay to even salt n pepper? why share d thought
there re so many things we could share in life- fun stories, issues, challenges, tragedies, jokes, politics, sports, health rather than telling others about your sexapades, fantasies or 49 shades or porn flicks!
please consider-
Likewise urge the younger men to control themselves. Show yourself in all respects a model of good deeds, and in your teaching show integrity, gravity,
and sound speech that cannot be censured, so that an opponent may be put to shame, having nothing evil to say of us.
Let your speech always be gracious, seasoned with salt, so that you may know how you ought to answer every one.
For out of the abundance of the heart the mouth speaks.
Pleasant words are like a honeycomb, sweetness to the soul and health to the body.
Set a guard over my mouth, O LORD, keep watch over the door of my lips!
Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart be acceptable in thy sight, O LORD, my rock and my redeemer.
"Should a wise man answer with windy knowledge, and fill himself with the east wind? Should he argue in unprofitable talk, or in words with which he can do no good?
God bless us all

the guys walking with a key and and two holders

and the babes with a keyhole...

tell me.. the temptation to fix the key is always there..


if we could drop the keys at home or in a safe place.. it would be better o.

no waha

Why do fishes swim?