khiaa:



If your advice is to dump her, then why do you advise him to send her money?
Is your point that she will regret her treatment of him because she realized the ATM machine she could have had?
Who would want to know that someone you cared about regrets not being with you because of the money she thinks you have.

@op...move on with your life and don't waste another moment of your time/life on someone who is no-one.

By the way, he can't dump someone he never had.

Truckpusher:
TRASH

khiaa:




*Mental note to self* Keep this hoe on ignore

ireneony:
looking at ur post, I will say what she did was very bad.
bro in everything u do apply wisdom.
let me tell u what to do...
send her the money infact send her more than she asked for, but remember not to tell her u want to send the money. after u might have send the money, don't call her....when she calls don't pick her call.
then she will begin to judge herself and come begging..
guy, the problem with u, is u are too nice to her and some girls hate nice guys
n.b: before doing this confirm from ur sister if she really in of need the cash for the said situation. if yes, u can u ahead. with ur plan

Brownville007:


This is the best reply I have gotten today. I forwarded the message to my sister immediately it came in cos we close. She needed money but she said I should go ahead and send it and just term it as what I send to the less privileged. You deserved an award.

FredHandsome:
The answer is right in front of U! A girl that has been ignoring ur calls and rejected ur fship proposals suddenly asked for a monetary favour... Oh C'mon! Who has bn meeting her needs all these while she's been ignoring you? Why you now? A 'magarizing' idea just flew into her mind, and she wants you to be the 'lab rat'...

khiaa:
Do not send her any money, she doesn't care about you, she doesn't even want you as a friend. You are a pest to her and she only sees you as a means to an end, *MONEY*
Don't concern yourself that she is your sister's "friend" who would treat their friend's brother so badly.
I think it is the chase that really excited you, not the girl. You wasted a whole year of your life on a girl who is undeserving of you but yet you still continue to put yourself through the pangs of agony instead of seeking your true love who is out there waiting for you to find her. Why does it take a brick wall to fall on you to open your eyes.

brownlord:


Hey bruv, will be very stup1d to send that girl any money, yes I mean it

khiaa:



I think that is what he wanted to do all along and he just wanted to know if there were people who support his stu.pidity, and as you can see there are alot who has his same mentality.

Krasid:
The OP would cement his status as one of the top 5 greatest maga of all time if he should send a dime to that girl.After chasing her for over a year, she never considered you and always felt you were a pest around her.You even lost your phone when you visited her during her matric.One thing i would like to know was how she treated you when you visited her, but it wouldn't make any difference as she made it clear that you were not needed in her life then.After some time, the first thing should could ask for was MONEY.I am a bit surprised that you are considering sending her money.You owe her nothing.

khiaa:



I think that is what he wanted to do all along and he just wanted to know if there were people who support his stu.pidity, and as you can see there are alot who has his same mentality.

brownlord:


Bullshit.

He should send his hard earn money to experiment this?

adeitoro:
May be that is the last acid test she has for you to guarantee your love for her.

If you love her for who she is and you know you can afford the cash, I think you cement your proposals to her with this act of charity.

My2cent

Daninya11:
hmm,u hv bin friendzone a long time ago.u dnt force love bcus its a natural law which must be allow to take its course naturally.i insist dt talking to a girl is an art,u must make her see things u want her to see and make her not 2 see tins u dnt wnt her 2 c.williams shakespeare once opine dt,wu is he wu is a man dt cannot use his tongue to woo a woman?i say he is no man.even a lion gvs up if he fails to catch its prey,bro you hav known wen to end d chase.psychologicaly, a girls can like u 5 seconds afta meeting u,20 seconds 2 no if she can date u. u hav bin chasing her for a year nw,she be world cup?,if mikel train 4 1yr doing extra work,hm go win ballondor.guy,if i were u i wil help her out thereby putin mud in her feelings.its high tym u fish elsewere,or do u wnt her to drop d bombshell bfr u no whats up.wetin i sabi sef,i should be in d sportsection were i blng,salama

Brownville007:
There is this babe I chased for a year (funny right.. And might bring name calling but it's allowed) but despite all she still said no. Everything was alright, we talk fine till she gained admission. On my part I am OK. Works with the Fed Govt and still under 25. She changed almost instantly, my calls became a disturbance to her and I could feel it in her voice. Just to keep to my words, I travelled down from Ibadan to Futo to grace her matric but within me I knew sth bad was gonna happen( the instinct was there). And true to it, I lost my fone on my way back. The one that really broke me up was wen I called her a few weeks later after returning back to my base. She dint pick up. I called later with my other line though without much airtime and she picked but on hearing my voice I told her I will call with my main line wich I did but guess what. She refused to pick up. I parked up, her friend called me 3 days later pleading on her behalf for me to call her. I reconsidered and called, she apologized,. Last mouth, I made up my mind to end all the emotional torment and called her up and ask her straight to tell me if am wasting my time. After every dilly d allying of her not knowing and me insisting on a yes or no ans, she said yes. Since then till now we dint talk except on two occasions I saw her missed calls (yesterday included) and decides to call back. Shockingly I got a text from her this morning at work and guess what.. This is what she sent.

"my dear., I know am not suppose 2 ask u dis, but I can't help it. I want 2 travel home next week Tuesday, but don't have enof cash, pls need your help."
Pls before you comment you need to understand somethings.
-I can afford what any thing I might feel like sending her conveniently
- the girl in question is my younger sister friend
-I feel hurt when I look back at the whole stuffs

What do you guys think, is she trying to use me as a backup up now cos I know she has a new bf in sch.

Am I wicked if I dint help out?. Would appreciate the contributions of the ladies here too. Thanks

ireneony:
is like u don't know women. ....
I'm talking abt psychological toture here.

I'm a woman so I know more than u....
sorry if I don't reason like u and I can never advice someone wen am angry cos an angry comment is not worth it, which is all over this thread

Brownville007:
There is this babe I chased for a year (funny right.. And might bring name calling but it's allowed) but despite all she still said no. Everything was alright, we talk fine till she gained admission. On my part I am OK. Works with the Fed Govt and still under 25. She changed almost instantly, my calls became a disturbance to her and I could feel it in her voice. Just to keep to my words, I travelled down from Ibadan to Futo to grace her matric but within me I knew sth bad was gonna happen( the instinct was there). And true to it, I lost my fone on my way back. The one that really broke me up was wen I called her a few weeks later after returning back to my base. She dint pick up. I called later with my other line though without much airtime and she picked but on hearing my voice I told her I will call with my main line wich I did but guess what. She refused to pick up. I parked up, her friend called me 3 days later pleading on her behalf for me to call her. I reconsidered and called, she apologized,. Last mouth, I made up my mind to end all the emotional torment and called her up and ask her straight to tell me if am wasting my time. After every dilly d allying of her not knowing and me insisting on a yes or no ans, she said yes. Since then till now we dint talk except on two occasions I saw her missed calls (yesterday included) and decides to call back. Shockingly I got a text from her this morning at work and guess what.. This is what she sent.

"my dear., I know am not suppose 2 ask u dis, but I can't help it. I want 2 travel home next week Tuesday, but don't have enof cash, pls need your help."
Pls before you comment you need to understand somethings.
-I can afford what any thing I might feel like sending her conveniently
- the girl in question is my younger sister friend
-I feel hurt when I look back at the whole stuffs

What do you guys think, is she trying to use me as a backup up now cos I know she has a new bf in sch.

Am I wicked if I dint help out?. Would appreciate the contributions of the ladies here too. Thanks

italkpass:
She has locked you up in a Friend Zone with a BIG padlock and now she's trying to TEST if she can also turn you into an ATM machine.