When you see people who are miserable and unhappy in their relationship, they are most likely the ones who caused their own woes and are now licking their self inflicted wounds.
What most ignorant people don't understand is the simple fact that you are not the only girl or boy and man or woman seeking for the love of a that girl or boy and man or woman. So, it would be foolish to assume you are the only person who needs him or her when there are millions of people seeking for someone from the street to the internet and no one alive and grown up who has never had any relationship whether platonic or erotic.

Your attitude to life matters in human relations.
Many humans often behave like dogs instead of behaving like humans created and made in the image of Almighty God!
Most of the horrible and terrible things happening to lovers and spouses are caused by bad behaviour and ignorance and many fools don't find out the causes of the problems and troubles of someone before they rush into a relationship with him or her.
Find out why he or she broke up with the ex-boyfriend, ex-girlfriend or spouse before rushing into bed with him or her.
Only fools start a new building on a faulty foundation.

A man abandoned his son with the mother in another state and started living like he was single in another state and then met a single mother of two kids. And without finding out the truth about their previous relationships, they rushed into a love affair with their excess baggage and today, their lies have caught up with them as Nemesis came calling.
Runaway husband hooks up with runaway wife of another man.
Two idiots. And both of them are now facing the realities they were trying to run away from.
Another bad girlfriend lies to lure a guy into a relationship and he is ignorant of the terrible crimes of the bad girl.
It is like the funny story of a randy guy who saw a pretty and sexy girl and chased to date her, but when she undressed, he a saw a big sore in her vagina.
Before you chase after a skirt, think twice, because there may be a snake under that skirt.
Yes, many girls are going about with terrible things in their loins that they carried over from their previous relationships.
Yes, find out about his or her past, before they rear their horrible heads in the future.
Settle all unsettled cases. And make sure that there is a good riddance to bad rubbish, otherwise that bad rubbish will later rubbish you and tarnish your life.
Always ask the questions of "who was and who is in your life now" before asking anyone for a relationship.
That is why we say LOOK BEFORE YOU LEAP, lest you would be plunging into your downfall.

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I din read it buh op tried

I can't read this online handout

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