EZEUDENE:
nop if u really love him try 2 sort out tins with him

ginawest:
abeg leave d guy jawe!!he told u he was having sex wit anoda lady,u did d normal tin n he started blaming u..was he not supposed to apologize first?bae,dre r many fishes in d river.

Brugo:
Contract period has expired. Move on.

Sexytemi:
Have been dating this guy for the past five year, we'av never fight or break up within those five years, I believed in his love even after moving to abuja and he was in lag, I could bet on is love with my life, because of him I told other guys off, recently we were to go to his sis wedding which I had prepared for, then a week to the wedding he stopped picking his calls that were from me, till the wedding day, i called his sis and asked her if he was @ the wedding and she said yes, I cried cos of the pains, when I told my friends, they were like I should forget him cos he's cheating on me, I refused to accept that logic and still believe he was not cheating on me, then Thursday this week, he told me on whatsapp how he has been having sex with a lady, and when I got angry, he started blaming and even stopped to reply my massages and am like who's suppose to be angry here, him or I?, that is why am here to ask if I should just let him go?.

SpeedyConnect:
He had the temerity to tell you without pussyfooting? And was equally blaming you.
I think thinks are falling apart, distance has taken it's tolls on you guys. Time to start considering other guys.
Btw, what has been the plan these five years?

ginawest:
abeg leave d guy jawe!!he told u he was having sex wit anoda lady,u did d normal tin n he started blaming u..was he not supposed to apologize first?bae,dre r many fishes in d river.

Sexytemi:


that we were going to get married someday, and have kids together, and also build a good home together.

ginawest:
abeg leave d guy jawe!!he told u he was having sex wit anoda lady,u did d normal tin n he started blaming u..was he not supposed to apologize first?bae,dre r many fishes in d river.

SpeedyConnect:

Ok, even at that, were there concrete plans to that effect, not just mere utterance?

MrTeymee:
Don't you ever refer to niccurs as fishes again, EVER!!

younghartz:
Little drop of water makes a mighty ocean
Female If u forgive em he will kip on misbehaving!
That's why I love white girls
Whenever you cheat on them and they catch u ? Mehn! Forget it.....nothing will bring them back together....

Never go back to an old relationship is like a book you have read,you know how it will end...

A cheat remains a cheat!!!!



No matter how bad it hurts or how bad you feel, it’s time to stop thinking about that person who played with your feelings, who took your love for granted, who never appreciated your care, who wasn’t contented with what you could give him. You can’t stay at that hurtful place anymore. You can’t keep shedding tears over someone who doesn't deserve the love you gave. You can’t keep feeling sorry for yourself and thinking if only you did more. You can’t make them want the relationship because if they wanted they wouldn’t have let go of you.

You deserve better now. You deserve someone who appreciates you and who won’t play with your delicate heart.. Just like a cut on your hand will take time to heal, your broken heart needs time to heal as well. That’s not the end of your life. You will get over that pain you’re having right now and one day you’ll be happy again.

INTROVERT:
At times I blame ladies.... why date a guy for 5years.




Sorry sister.

Sexytemi:


thanks a lot, I think I'll take your advise and let him go.

Sexytemi:


thanks a lot, I think I'll take your advise and let him go.

Tashaamania:

What was he blaming you for exactly?

Sexytemi:


contract as in?

Sexytemi:


contract as in?

Sexytemi:


that it was because I wasn't around ooo, I then asked him how many times he slept with her, n he couldn't even remember.

Tashaamania:

Hmmm, that wasn't too good of him. So if eventually you two get married and for some reasons, you are not home, he's start sleeping around?
The choice here to make is entirely yours.. You know if he has been showing some signs of unseriousness in the relationship before now and dont disregard the friend's advice. Weigh all of them, if need be dont call him for a while, take your time off and see how sorry he gets when he tries calling. People deserve second chances sometimes.

I really do not know how to tell people to leave their relationships or stay. You are the one dating him, you should know better.

Sexytemi:


thanks a lot, I think its best I let him go, forgiven him too much already.

Tashaamania:

Too much? Okay, I take it this wasnt the first nor second he's doing something of this nature. It's okay you've made up your mind. Just make sure you're happy. That's all that matters

Sexytemi:
Have been dating this guy for the past five year, we'av never fight or break up within those five years, I believed in his love even after moving to abuja and he was in lag, I could bet on is love with my life, because of him I told other guys off, recently we were to go to his sis wedding which I had prepared for, then a week to the wedding he stopped picking his calls that were from me, till the wedding day, i called his sis and asked her if he was @ the wedding and she said yes, I cried cos of the pains, when I told my friends, they were like I should forget him cos he's cheating on me, I refused to accept that logic and still believe he was not cheating on me, then Thursday this week, he told me on whatsapp how he has been having sex with a lady, and when I got angry, he started blaming and even stopped to reply my massages and am like who's suppose to be angry here, him or I?, that is why am here to ask if I should just let him go?.

strenghtofawoman:
If a man is not exclusive in dating you, why should you be exclusive in dating him?? He told u how he has sex with another lady to your face and you re here asking if u should leave him?? Are u paralysed,blind,crippled to accept such disrespect, gilfriend DUMP THE FOOL ..

Now dt u av moved to abuja, forget bout him, delete his contact to avoid d temptation of calling him, stop chasing guys away, u need to make friends, u av already wasted 5years of ur life wit the LUNATIC, pls move on.. And dnt look back,he's taking u for granted.

Pls my dear get over this, start a new life, ignore him, belive me he will come begging wen he's done f**king all d whores in town, nd by God's grace u ll be happily married by then..
I truly wish u d best, I blive ds is ur time to find the right Man and settle down, God help u,, amen