crackhaus:

I think she might like you bro, but hates that she does...

Moana:
First of all you need a woman who will understand her role as a wife. She has to love, respect and support her husband.

You shouldnt be making compromises like getting a new job that is convenient for her when she is even dependant on you. A woman who is not supportive can become a problem in the long run. There is no guarantee you will get a new job that is convinient for her neither is there guarantee that she will be working after graduation and bringing something to the table too.

If she is comparing you to her sister's boyfriend she can as well go date him together with her sister. A woman should be able to appreciate every little thing anyone does for her, not demand for more as if she is entitled to it.

As for meeting her parents, remember this has to be something you are ready for. Dont be rushed or pressured into it. If you truly feel you are ready for it then go for it.

All i can advise you is pump the breaks, wait until she understands that money doesnt grow on trees and jobs dont fall from the sky. Focus more on building yourself and securing your future.


Before you think of marrying someone just makes sure she sees your vision and she supports you in achieving it. Someone who remains loyal to you even if it means being apart for sometime because of work. A person who aprreicates everything you do for her no matter how small it is. Someone who only seeks to see the best in you not someone who makes you feel inadequate by comparing you to other people.

Only make compromises that will benefit you both not compromises that are only convinient for the other person.

KingTom:
He wants to die abi? Lagunna1 shey iwo ti ya weyrey ni? Shey? You want to trespass on my land?
***Strikes machete on the ground***

Lagunna you want to PENETRATE my no fly zone abi?

******Tears shirt*****

bukatyne:


OP: Please note This in the next relationship.

This one is gone.

And stop looking for consultations from babalawos and Alfas

Justfollowit:


I would choose death over him and if I were to choose him, he should consider himself a living dead.

Why don't you introduce him to your female siblings? Ode!

Moana:
night shining armour tingz

crackhaus:

Lol, send her one PM and end this fouling of other people's threads.

SAMBARRY:
I concur instead see prophetess or babalawo

egopersonified:
I have come to realise that people get married to the best option available when they are ready to get married rather than marrying the best person suited for their life. These marri'age' bracket and financial status being breaking homes since forever.

Babymama1:

I have been looking for you How are you doing my dear

egopersonified:


Wonderfully well, thanks so much.

crackhaus:

I think she might like you bro, but hates that she does...

crackhaus:

Lol, send her one PM and end this fouling of other people's threads.

tpiander:

crackhaus:

. . . . . .

tpiander:


[s]smh.

Lord, help this person in Jesus name amen.

You've been following suicide threads since 2012 and maybe even before.

It does explain some of your online persona though.[/s]

crackhaus:

. . . . ..

tpiander:


smh.

Lord, help this person in Jesus name amen.

You've been following suicide threads since 2012 and maybe even before.

It does explain some of your online persona though.

tpiander:


may God help you in Jesus name.

You need healing.

crackhaus:

Maybe I do, doesn't change the fact that you need to be here:

crackhaus:

end this fouling of other people's threads.