maldox:


Lol @ bolded.
It is not an attitude ish,cos I relate very well with colleagues and clients. Chats ,jokes etc,sometimes go for lunch in the company of two to three pple.

But the problem is actually taken it beyond office or work environment. Also,I'm not the talking type of person.

why d anti malaria kind of moniker naa?

maldox:
My social life is dead.I hardly go out,spends my time after work alone. I don't even have any friend.
Kindly suggest ways to change the status quo.

Thank you.

bro, I wud av loved to contribute my cent but I think I av similar problem.am trying to work on it.

just some days ago I tot of it n i felt bad my non social life.(mine is a long story).

wud really luv to meet fun loving, decent n inspiring ppl (both sex),dat will b patient with me.

If you are not a social butterfly, why try to fake it?

limamintruth:


Work how?

All he needs to do is to actively join his church youth fellowship and also regularly participate in the church's Bible study meetings; dats all.


Making new friends is his best bet to reinvigorating his comatose social life cos he doesnt have anyone to hangout with in the first place. And as far as the truth is concerned, the church is the best avenue to meet & make good friends.

Not really church is full human beings at the end of the day, besides I tend to find church activities boring. Plus am not a meeting person, unless its related to programming or sports. But it might work for op

ladygudhead:


bro, I wud av loved to contribute my cent but I think I av similar problem.am trying to work on it.

just some days ago I tot of it n i felt bad my non social life.(mine is a long story).

wud really luv to meet fun loving, decent n inspiring ppl (both sex),dat will b patient with me.

Good to know we are in the same problem,so what efforts are you making to change the situation?.
Also,I 'd like to know your present location, thanks.

pcguru1:


Not really church is full human beings at the end of the day, besides I tend to find church activities boring. Plus am not a meeting person, unless its related to programming or sports. But it might work for op

Hmm, well maybe you try and become friends with some of your clients who are responsible and good.

The candid truth is one needs friends to break the jinx of a lonely/anti-social life.

maldox:


Good to know we are in the same problem,so what efforts are you making to change the situation?.
Also,I 'd like to know your present location, thanks.

my efforts are church activities(not being churchy sha),being more involved in ppl,going out when am free.even if I don't av anywhere to go I shud just stroll.

my present location is Delta, warri precisely.

I av friends buh they are not always near to me.in my present locality I DONT HAVE ANY FRIEND AT ALL!.
I think its boring of me not to av a pal around me.I do feel it at times even though am d type dat minds her business.

I think life is too short to b antisocial.though there are more bad friends than Gud ones but if one cud av a quality one, life will b more meaningful.Good friendship is a Honey of life!

Also I try not to force it(friendship). Let it just happen.just b warm n open.And apply wisdom.

Thanks dear
av a nice day!

@Maldox, You just spoke my mind.. I think yours is better because you were able to voice yours... In my case, I easily make friends, but hardly keep them. At times, I even find it hard to talk, even with the WORDS on my LIPS... I do most of the things, that have been suggested here, but I still find myself WITHDRAWN, DEPRESSED, EMPTY, ISOLATED and LONELY at the end of everything... Back to the matter, I think it is just a matter of TIME, You will soon share the TESTIMONIES of VICTORY..
#RESPECT...