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Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by ConfessionsNgr: 7:56pm On Jun 10, 2015
I just made the most shocking discovery today and I am at loss as to what to do about this. I came home today and found my younger brother having sex with my housemaid. I have always hated the idea of having a maid in the house, most especially considering the fact that a lot of them are not trustworthy, but my wife being a career woman had insisted on having one to take care of the kids and the home, since she cannot combine all these with her work. At a point this was almost turning into a major issue in our home, until I had to give in to let peace reign. We have two kids, the eldest being a boy 3 years old and the younger one is just nine months old. My younger brother who has just graduated and is awaiting his call up has been living with me since he graduated. This morning I went to work as usual but on getting to the office I realize that I forgot my flash drive at home and it contained some sensitive information that I will be needing in the office so I had to drive back home to pick it up. On getting home, I packed my car outside and let myself into the house. On entering the house, I saw my nine month old baby sleeping soundly on the couch in the living room, but my younger brother and maid were nowhere around. Instincts just told me to check the rooms and there they were having the fun of their life. My problem now is whether to tell my wife, or not. I know that if I insist on the maid leaving the house it will lead to another round of problem because my wife will surely kick against it. But I am no more comfortable with leaving my kids with this girl. As for my younger brother, I have already told him he will be leaving, although he has been sending me text messages and begging for forgiveness. How do you think I should handle this?


Source: http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/102/househelp-wahala
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by Cutehector(m): 8:01pm On Jun 10, 2015
He is your brother.. Pls forgive... Be a man!

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Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by Nobody: 8:01pm On Jun 10, 2015
Hmmm
Nothing u can really do
Sexing ur bro doesnt mean she cant look after ur kids its not a crime just disrespectful to b honest ..
But
U can either tell ur bro to make sure it never happens again or kick the maid out n get a male maid .
And ur brother is blood just because he had sex with ur maid is not that big of a deal not to forgive him alot of boys make that mistake. Firgive smiley

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Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by IamLEGEND1: 8:08pm On Jun 10, 2015
u go push dem out just bcoz of this? na firewood dem be? if na ur wife u catch with ur brother nko?

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Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by Cutehector(m): 8:11pm On Jun 10, 2015
IamLEGEND1:
u go push dem out just bcoz of this?
na firewood dem be?
if na ur wife u catch with ur brother nko?
no mind d foolish husband

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Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by Nobody: 8:13pm On Jun 10, 2015
let them fk...

e no concern you!!!!!!
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by Nobody: 8:16pm On Jun 10, 2015
Forgv and forget cos konji na bastard cry
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by IamLEGEND1: 8:18pm On Jun 10, 2015
Cutehector:
no mind d foolish husband
i just dey confused for some people matter. how e take pain d husband bcoz him brother dey sleep with house-help? Abi him too been dey do underground stuffs with the girl ni?

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Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by Cutehector(m): 8:21pm On Jun 10, 2015
IamLEGEND1:

i just dey confused for some people matter.
how e take pain d husband bcoz him brother dey sleep with house-help?
Abi him too been dey do underground stuffs with the girl ni?
sometin wey him supose collect him own share of d cake clean mouth grin
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by IamLEGEND1: 8:29pm On Jun 10, 2015
Cutehector:
sometin wey him supose collect him own share of d cake clean mouth grin


i guess nobody go ever know ze true tori.
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by Rhozabeth(m): 8:35pm On Jun 10, 2015
I will advice that u don't hide it from ur wife. But b4 u tell her make sure u ve decided what u want to do with ur bro and the house girl. For ur bro, if u have a place where he can go and stay until he gets his call up bravo but if not you might have to rent a 1room apartment for him. As for the maid just let her go and look for another maid. I know it is not easy to get a amid these days but you really ve to also consider leaving ur kids with that kind of maid. I wish u luck.
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by Missmossy(f): 8:36pm On Jun 10, 2015
Be glad it wasn't with your lil kid or baby. Not too surprised. Maids are really hazardious these days.

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Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by Nobody: 8:42pm On Jun 10, 2015
IamLEGEND1:

i just dey confused for some people matter.
how e take pain d husband bcoz him brother dey sleep with house-help?
Abi him too been dey do underground stuffs with the girl ni?

Cutehector:
no mind d foolish husband

IamLEGEND1:
u go push dem out just bcoz of this?
na firewood dem be?
if na ur wife u catch with ur brother nko?

Una dey consider the children at all? Supposing the brother no dey and she bring another guy come house. Supposing dem dey watch porn and the children dey see am? Make una reason like men abeg! Una go become fathers tomorrow!
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by czarr(m): 8:51pm On Jun 10, 2015
housemaids*smiling sheepishly* brings back memories...
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by IamLEGEND1: 8:53pm On Jun 10, 2015
vfactor:






Una dey consider the children at all? Supposing the brother no dey and she bring another guy come house. Supposing dem dey watch porn and the children dey see am? Make una reason like men abeg! Una go become fathers tomorrow!

first off, let me say that bringing the pornögrahy thing into ur argument is a little outlandish and unrealistic.

i dont think coz two people are having sèx, all their other mental faculties just shut down completely.just becoz they are havong sèx doesnt mean they are just gonna allow a 3yr old & a 9 months old kid to just stroll in and watch porn with them.

the kids are obviously being well taken care of by said house-help and it will be foolish to put wateva needless bitterness he has against the two love-birds before the welfare of his kids.
In conclusion, barring religious reasons, he has no reason to push the two out of his house as they are adults and they are doing their stuffs maturedly and keeping it under wraps.
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by Lexusgs430: 9:00pm On Jun 10, 2015
It's still good. Imagine if it was your wife seeing the horror of you sleeping with the maid!!!!
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by pwerrymansion(f): 9:28pm On Jun 10, 2015
Uncle, let your wife know and lay off that maid including yourr brother. Infact your brother shouldn't even wait for you to show him the door if indeed is reasonable. That maid may turn to be trouble for the family. She's too gullible to be a baby-sitter! What an oncouth behaviour! Straffing under your roof even when the kids r in the house.
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by pwerrymansion(f): 9:35pm On Jun 10, 2015
wink
czarr:
housemaids*smiling sheepishly*
brings back memories...
looks like someone has a history to share concerning their househelp. We all know that most of you guys were disvirgined by your domestic helps/ Aunties. Care to share? wink
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by czarr(m): 9:38pm On Jun 10, 2015
pwerrymansion:
looks like someone has a history to share concerning their househelps. We'll know that most of you guys were disvirgined by your domestic helps/ Aunties. Care to share?
.....it's a long story...lol
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by pwerrymansion(f): 9:43pm On Jun 10, 2015
czarr:
.....it's a long story...lol
*straightensup* trust me, I've got time....
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by czarr(m): 9:45pm On Jun 10, 2015
pwerrymansion:
*straightensup* trust me, I've got time....
.....explicit content*viewers discretion advised*
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by pwerrymansion(f): 9:48pm On Jun 10, 2015
czarr:
.....explicit content*viewers discretion advised*
my specialty, can absolutely handle that! Am 18+ as well......lol
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by joseph1832(m): 9:54pm On Jun 10, 2015
How old is your housemaid?. If she's underage then know that your brother has committed a crime and he's liable to be punished by law. And if your house maid is of age, then please find it is she wasn't cajoled or tricked into having sex with your brother!.

People always seem to forget that housemaids are easy lay for sex starved guys!.
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by czarr(m): 9:57pm On Jun 10, 2015
pwerrymansion:
my specialty, can absolutely handle that! Am 18+ as well......lol
....it all started when.....*runs out of thread**no balls to go on*
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by czarr(m): 9:58pm On Jun 10, 2015
pwerrymansion:
my specialty, can absolutely handle that! Am 18+ as well......lol
....it all started when.....*runs out of thread**no balls to go on*

I could be banned!lol

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Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by pwerrymansion(f): 10:01pm On Jun 10, 2015
czarr:
....it all started when.....*runs out of thread**no balls to go on*

I could be banned!lol
grin ok let's not derail d thread. grin
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by Nobody: 11:36pm On Jun 10, 2015
IamLEGEND1:


first off, let me say that bringing the pornögrahy thing into ur argument is a little outlandish and unrealistic.

i dont think coz two people are having sèx, all their other mental faculties just shut down completely.just becoz they are havong sèx doesnt mean they are just gonna allow a 3yr old & a 9 months old kid to just stroll in and watch porn with them.

the kids are obviously being well taken care of by said house-help and it will be foolish to put wateva needless bitterness he has against the two love-birds before the welfare of his kids.
In conclusion, barring religious reasons, he has no reason to push the two out of his house as they are adults and they are doing their stuffs maturedly and keeping it under wraps.

It ain't unrealistic! If the man hadn't seen them, would he have ever know they were having sex? What makes you feel that if they were careless not to lock the gate and doors and someone could sneak up on them, that they wouldnt be careless to let a 3 yr old child walk in on them? And nothing in the story says the kids were well taken care off. A 9month old baby asleep on the couch should tell u something!
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by Abbey2sam(m): 11:47pm On Jun 10, 2015
ConfessionsNgr:
I just made the most shocking discovery today and I am at loss as to what to do about this. I came home today and found my younger brother having sex with my housemaid. I have always hated the idea of having a maid in the house, most especially considering the fact that a lot of them are not trustworthy, but my wife being a career woman had insisted on having one to take care of the kids and the home, since she cannot combine all these with her work. At a point this was almost turning into a major issue in our home, until I had to give in to let peace reign. We have two kids, the eldest being a boy 3 years old and the younger one is just nine months old. My younger brother who has just graduated and is awaiting his call up has been living with me since he graduated. This morning I went to work as usual but on getting to the office I realize that I forgot my flash drive at home and it contained some sensitive information that I will be needing in the office so I had to drive back home to pick it up. On getting home, I packed my car outside and let myself into the house. On entering the house, I saw my nine month old baby sleeping soundly on the couch in the living room, but my younger brother and maid were nowhere around. Instincts just told me to check the rooms and there they were having the fun of their life. My problem now is whether to tell my wife, or not. I know that if I insist on the maid leaving the house it will lead to another round of problem because my wife will surely kick against it. But I am no more comfortable with leaving my kids with this girl. As for my younger brother, I have already told him he will be leaving, although he has been sending me text messages and begging for forgiveness. How do you think I should handle this?


Source: http://confessionsnigeria.com/post/102/househelp-wahala


forgive your brother,you'd probably have done the same if it was you ............just think about it

forgive the two of them, one thing though; one of them must leave
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by zinachidi(m): 12:08am On Jun 11, 2015
talk2ekene:
let them fk...

e no concern you!!!!!!
wise
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by zinachidi(m): 12:10am On Jun 11, 2015
Abbey2sam:



forgive your brother,you'd probably have done the same if it was you ............just think about it

forgive the two of them, one thing though; one of them must leave
and if the wife insists on the maid staying, should he chase his bro??
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by IamLEGEND1: 5:08am On Jun 11, 2015
vfactor:


It ain't unrealistic! If the man hadn't seen them, would he have ever know they were having sex? What makes you feel that if they were careless not to lock the gate and doors and someone could sneak up on them, that they wouldnt be careless to let a 3 yr old child walk in on them? And nothing in the story says the kids were well taken care off. A 9month old baby asleep on the couch should tell u something!

u have to realize that said husband was searching around the house for them specifically, coz from the story, it seems he had been suspecting them long before that day. a witch-hunt if u will.
+
i dont think in this age and time,anybody apart from a family member or the owner of the owner of the house is just goin to confidently walk into ur home and start going to through the rooms searching for you. the husband was able to walk in unnoticed because it was his house.
And i dont see a mention of the 3yrs old kid in there, which means he is probably in school.
and a nine month old baby can barely walk.

P.S: a 9months old baby sleeping soundly does tell me something: it has been fed well and it is resting peacefully.



DON'T GET ME WRONG, i can understand ur paranoia as a married man urself (goin by ur signature). but say now, he chases said house-help away.
before long, the wife starts requesting for another house-help and we know the husband will still giv in to her demands. husband gets new house-help who unknown to him, is a child-molester and a secret aśhäwo.
THIS NEW HOUSE HELP BEATS THE SHÌT OUT OF HIS KIDS AND TRIES TO SEDUCE HIM.
would u say na Godwin?
Re: Nigerian Housemaid Wahala!!! by Nobody: 5:24am On Jun 11, 2015
vfactor:


It ain't unrealistic! If the man hadn't seen them, would he have ever know they were having sex? What makes you feel that if they were careless not to lock the gate and doors and someone could sneak up on them, that they wouldnt be careless to let a 3 yr old child walk in on them? And nothing in the story says the kids were well taken care off. A 9month old baby asleep on the couch should tell u something!

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