mrsmith11:


I can never defend a man that hits a woman.I wasn't making any comment regarding the post because someone already posted an organisation "project alert" and that was the aim of the thread to get info about an organisation

It was the anuofia she said I was replying to. However some women can avoid abuse if they know how to talk to ther spouse or stop cursing
Oga please there is no excuse for a man to be physically abusive. If he could call someone a hypocrite, why shouldn't I call him anuofia?

Thanks

freecocoa:
Did you not see the "hypocrite" he wrote? He also made a snide remark by asking if she'll marry the OP, Why didn't you call him out on it but chose to attack her and the women folk in general.

If Pineapp and joy were to get into a brawl now and she got beat badly, it's very obvious who you'll blame because you think she brought it on herself by calling him anuofia.

Men and women should control themselves, verbal abuse is never justification for physical abuse please.

Pineapp:

5minsmadness:

You must be very young to hold on to that belief. Why should a woman provoke her man and not expect to get hit? What makes them so special?

Pineapp:

Unfortunately some women are programmed to learn not to insult a man the hard way.

avwerosuoo:
i dont want family members involved. as for his people its a no go area cos they will not say anything. i just need an organization that helps in such issues. i want to threaten him, if it doesnt help then i make my next move. i have handed it over to God, but just getting tired, cos u dont know what to say that will aggravate him.

Herzumpther:
Odilafta are you saying is right for a man to hit a woman? Pineapp!!!

Joy1706:

Thank u free cocoa

mrsmith11:


Well,before God and Man I didn't see the hypocrite until you said it.
However two wrong can't make things right but will only make things worst

I thought women are suppose to be calmer and meek. She doesn't need to reply him the same way to pass a point

mrsmith11:


Well,before God and Man I didn't see the hypocrite until you said it.
However two wrong can't make things right but will only make things worst

I thought women are suppose to be calmer and meek. She doesn't need to reply him the same way to pass a point

avwerosuoo:
my husbands always hits me anytime we argue. i cant even talk to him when he is wrong cos he is always defensive and what he says is always right. i ve noticed that this is a pattern. pls i need the contact of any organizations that handle violence against women. i ve been quiet for too long. pls someone should help me.

avwerosuoo:
my husbands always hits me anytime we argue. i cant even talk to him when he is wrong cos he is always defensive and what he says is always right. i ve noticed that this is a pattern. pls i need the contact of any organizations that handle violence against women. i ve been quiet for too long. pls someone should help me.

5minsmadness:
Some men are exceptionally violent and hit thier women at the least provocation. This is wrong and should not be encouraged. But saying nothing should make a man hit a woman us just being naive.

The op hasn't told her what she did that made him hit her. It is possible she married a chronic wife beater and hence really needs help. Someone has posted a link to that effect.

It is also possible she is a stubborn woman with a caustic tongue and frankly the man has had enough and feels a good spanking is in order to make her behave herself.

Either way we are all human beings with varying characteristics. If you know what triggers your husband to hit you then kindly refrain from it. If he is a mad man and hits you without reason get people to take him to Psychiatric hospital. Either way settle yourself.

FrancisTony:
I thought women love an ALPHA male according to some guys in this section?.

Isn't this one of their so-called traits? As in, women need tough hand/love....Why are you complaining?.

Still waiting for the day, a Nairaland female will come to complain that she wants to leave her marriage because her husband is too quiet and respects her.


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Anyway, OP, I'll advice you to tell his family first to see their reaction(s) - if they support him, just tell your parent and leave the marriage, biko.

SAMBARRY:
Ahen another one don come o
Mr fists that cannot be kept to himself. He has to beat to show he's a man
E for kuku beat this one na

snakebeat:

Sharrraap!!!!!!!!

How can u tag someone a woman beater, literally on d premise of comments alone.
Are u sure u're a man? U sound like a woman. he is saying d truth, d post is obviously bias. Too many females hiding behind male monikers in this section sef...

lilspiceyy:

Wat planet are u from? . Do u have a sister at all? SMH. God pls save women from the likes of you.

snakebeat:

So ur own definition of an alpha male is a woman beater?

Col....onel27:
Bad boy refers to that guy that has at least one of this xteristics: brilliance, rich, good looks. He is an ALPHA male. He does not see ladies as a special being (doesnt take shit from girls) though he has a way of making thrm special when they are around, flirty, he is loyal to just one person (which is himself), quite insensitive, fun to be around,etc

5minsmadness:

Abeg answer my question or sit down. Why should a woman not be hit if she provoked the man?

5minsmadness:

You must be very young to hold on to that belief. Why should a woman provoke her man and not expect to get hit? What makes them so special?

avwerosuoo:
my husbands always hits me anytime we argue. i cant even talk to him when he is wrong cos he is always defensive and what he says is always right. i ve noticed that this is a pattern. pls i need the contact of any organizations that handle violence against women. i ve been quiet for too long. pls someone should help me.

Gaborone:

Do you -women-beaters- hit MObile POLice Officers when they provoke you? When they ask you to roll in the gutter with your suit, do you punch them?
Why not man up and flex your muscles man to man when faced with a depressed red-eyed trigger happy Uniformed man?. No, all your energy is reserved for beating up a woman half your size. That's so manly, it gives me the shivers.

snakebeat:

U're a very sensible fellow.
Unbiased & down to earth.
May God continue to enrich u with wisdom...

lilspiceyy:
On no account should any man hit a woman please madam just leave dat marriage before you end up in a coffin.

avwerosuoo:
my husbands always hits me anytime we argue. i cant even talk to him when he is wrong cos he is always defensive and what he says is always right. i ve noticed that this is a pattern. pls i need the contact of any organizations that handle violence against women. i ve been quiet for too long. pls someone should help me.

freecocoa:
In other words, it's okay to beat up a woman for supposedly insulting a man na. Don't you know what Pineapp wrote is also an insult? He called her a hypocrite so he started it.

You seem to love faulting women, weldone o.

Stillfire:


Found this site below. Never ever keep quiet about domestic violence!

http://projectalertnig.org/contact.html
http://projectalertnig.org/about.html

Contact
Project Alert on Violence Against Women (PROJECT ALERT)

Address: 21, Akinsanya Street
Off Isheri Road, Taiwo Bus stop (Behind FRSC)
Ojodu - Berger
P.O.Box 15456, Ikeja
Lagos, Nigeria

Telephone/E-mail: 234-1-8209387; 08052004698; 08180091072
projectalert@projectalertnig.org
info@projectalertnig.org

ABUJA OFFICE
26 Bamenda Street, Off Abidjan Street,
Wuse Zone 3
Telephone: 234 -8708618