Moana:
its only a stupid man who will leave his wife over a kiss, since you are trying to make it seem like something very trivial

I know you seriously aren't comparing a husband refusing to kiss his wife to a wife committing stage one adultery? Come on now, you're smarter than that!

wen e hungry u,kiss im picture or find kiss daniels

elantraceey:



I guess so.


For one whole year no kiss , Haba nau and she's just 30 years .


Future hubby please don't ever think of trying this o

for you i will go for kissin rehearsal.

elantraceey:



I guess so.


For one whole year no kiss , Haba nau and she's just 30 years .


Future hubby please don't ever think of trying this o

for you i will go for kissin rehearsal.

Moana:


I have always seen guys on NL saying that a woman should be blamed if her husband falls into the arms of another woman because she is not focusing on him enough and i will use this opportunity to give the same advice, the husband should be blamed for letting his wife fall into the hands of another man. Since he doesnt want to be romantic with his wife, let her find happiness elsewhere.

Period.

5minsmadness:

It will be interesting to know how these two got married and the circumstances in which it happened.

There are kissers and there are non kissers.

A kiss is a very sensitive part of a relationship. It shows involvement, commitment, it's a signature of personality between two people. That's why prostitutes usually do not want to be kissed while doing the deed as it makes the buisness personal (this I learnt from heresay oh and the movie "pretty woman" ).

If her husband is no longer kissing her as much as he used to then it's either the lady has bad breath or bad teeth, or he no longer loves her. Or it could be that the passion in the marriage has died down.

It is a serious matter. When last did they have sex?

nice comment

dt lady shld go n fine smfin reasonable to get busy wit her life n living in fantasy world b4 cumin bk here to tell us the story dt touches the hrt.

Moana:


I have always seen guys on NL saying that a woman should be blamed if her husband falls into the arms of another woman because she is not focusing on him enough and i will use this opportunity to give the same advice, the husband should be blamed for letting his wife fall into the hands of another man. Since he doesnt want to be romantic with his wife, let her find happiness elsewhere.

See blunder...so because somebody said something foolishly, you too must follow the footstep? Can't you reason on your own and chose what's good rather than bn vindictive?

You are already cheating on your man for kissing another man so passionately. Love making is not only sex, kissing and touching are also part of it. I guess your ex fondled and squeezed your kegs while kissing you and he pressed your a$$ too. He could even touch the kpekus, the only thing missing is penetration. Hey woman I hope you do not have mouth odour that is scaring your man away. Does he still bleep?

CHM11:

She shouldn't have kept tabs with the ex at all....I mean 'no contact'...you don't need contact with exes...

It's not a one size fits all, some people can be just friends with their exes.

If it wasn't the ex, it would have been someone else.

hmm all because of kissing you cheated on ur hubby? so, if it was sex u would have ran our of ur home? wat happened to adapting to the 'no kissing'? if he gives you good sex u dnt have a problem. Some women can bring problems on their self.

@Op,
Try again to talk to your husband, let him understand how important kissing is to your relationship.
Sit him down when he is in a good mood, be playful about it and present your case in a loving non threatening manner.
Hopefully he will see reason and change

But if he insists on being a disgusting sadist homosexual, selfish asshole and tries to deprive you of an important part of intimacy then by all means cheat on him.
Cheat wella, to your hearts content.
Go back to your ex and do all manner of tongue gymnastics with him, french kissing, german kissing, italian kissing etc. But guard your infidelity with your life.
Make sure hubby never finds out.
All the best!

Ps, if you decide to go for option 2 then don't feel guilty about it at all. Men are selfish cu^nts that won't hesitate to cheat on you if you deprive them of any kind of intimacy.

This woman eye dey outside. She just dey look for excuse.

Madam nothing do you....carry go...... but no come here for advice when dem catch you.

Younger generation indeed

germainediva:
She is 30 been married for 6yrs with 3kids. She noticed hubby stopped kissing her after she had her last child......

Whenever she tries to kiss him,he just pecks her on the lips and that's all...and if she complains......he says its for the younger generation that she should forget about it........

When she tries to talk about it, he says she's nagging and being childish and looking for trouble where there's none.

Now its been over a year and she been fantasizing about it, recently she ran into her ex and one thing led to another and she had a very passionate kiss but nothing else happened.

She has been feeling guilty....her ex has been calling her but she has refused to pick his call because she never intended to cheat on her husband.......

Hubby has warned her not to bring up the issue of kissing .....now she is fantasizing about kissing....

Is there another way to communicate it to hubby?

in my own case,d reverse is d case.i stopped kissing him for close to 3yrs aftr i lost my intimacy wt him as a result of infidelity.i don't know abt you,to me,kissing is consummating in a strong relationship and it involves mutual passion.find out ur sexual attraction and exhibit it in order to magnate him back since u still need it or u can mov on without it.don't flirt dear.it's is risky.

Well, if u can no longer contain d urge 2 kiss. I advise u 2 kiss him whneva he is asleep, don't be suprise he might wake up oneday 2 reciprocate ur guesture.

freecocoa:
It's not a one size fits all, some people can be just friends with their exes.

If it wasn't the ex, it would have been someone else.

True, but its easier with an ex in the picture.

d truth is u neva stopped lovin ur ex...u only married ur hubby coz he was richer

netsurf:


See blunder...so because somebody said something foolishly, you too must follow the footstep? Can't you reason on your own and chose what's good rather than bn vindictive?

what not good about kissing someone just the way you want it?

so kiss wants to cause problems for a marriage.

abbey621:


I know you seriously aren't comparing a husband refusing to kiss his wife to a wife committing stage one adultery? Come on now, you're smarter than that!

u already made it sound like a kiss is trivial but at the same time its big enough to make a man divorce a woman. you are the one who needs to be smarter than that

abbey621:


You are right it is communicating but the type of communication we are seeking here is called effective communication. Any mad person can make noise but it takes a reasonable minded person to deliver the message effectively to the intended audience! I'm an Aries if there's one thing I hate in a woman it is one without a sense of direction or time. If you want something from me better cool the hell down and discuss with me when I'm relaxed otherwise you'll just be speaking to thin air!

last time i checked complaints can be communicated effectively. Nowhere did the OP said she acted like a mad man while doing it. You are the one who made up your own conclusion from something that was never said

Why did the man do that now,it's not nice;it's like being in prison for someone who enjoys kissing.

It is very wrong to deny your partner romantic gestures such as the mentioned. When you do,do not blame her/him for receiving it outside.

Assuming she have had breath,he bore it till she bore him 3 kids.He have no excuse whatsoever.

We all need to note our partners deserves to be happy,married or about to.If you decline or careless,they would be tempted to get it outside and enjoy every moment of it.This is where it even becomes more dangerous.

Op obviously enjoys oral stimulation and the hubby unfortunately careless.Now she got it outside and enjoyed the moment...its natural for her as human to go for a repeat and go further.

Not everyone who cheats initially wanted to......there's "a need"... a catalyst, ...a stimulant that's missing because it appeals and stimulates her as any human would.

As for me...if the man keeps turning his back ,perhaps he's getting some outside discreetly, then he should be rest assured someone else would be handling her right sooner or later .Being a wife doesn't mean she should imprison her natural sensual feelings to a man who cared less.

She deserve to he happy just as he.

Moana:
last time i checked complaints can be communicated effectively. Nowhere did the OP said she acted like a mad man while doing it. You are the one who made up your own conclusion from something that was never said

Maybe you should read the OP's post a second time, you'll notice the man does not want to hear of it again, which can only mean that her complaint was more of a nag. Typical Nigerian women nags, it's nothing new. Unless the guy is a psycho, there's no way she can talk to him from the heart and not respond positively. I'm talking tears, down on bended knees and all. When women wants something really bad, they can go above and beyond......She can continue complaining or she can start persuading!

Werey re o.
Simply "olosho"

She is not just 30, she is silly!

Moana:
u already made it sound like a kiss is trivial but at the same time its big enough to make a man divorce a woman. you are the one who needs to be smarter than that

Sorry but you still not making sense to me! Are you actually justifying her action of kissing the ex? Or what exactly are you saying?

germainediva:
She is 30 been married for 6yrs with 3kids. She noticed hubby stopped kissing her after she had her last child......

Whenever she tries to kiss him,he just pecks her on the lips and that's all...and if she complains......he says its for the younger generation that she should forget about it........

When she tries to talk about it, he says she's nagging and being childish and looking for trouble where there's none.

Now its been over a year and she been fantasizing about it, recently she ran into her ex and one thing led to another and she had a very passionate kiss but nothing else happened.

She has been feeling guilty....her ex has been calling her but she has refused to pick his call because she never intended to cheat on her husband.......

Hubby has warned her not to bring up the issue of kissing .....now she is fantasizing about kissing....

Is there another way to communicate it to hubby?

Are we sure its kissing or lack of sex

fellis:
@Op,
Try again to talk to your husband, let him understand how important kissing is to your relationship.
Sit him down when he is in a good mood, be playful about it and present your case in a loving non threatening manner.
Hopefully he will see reason and change

But if he insists on being a disgusting sadist homosexual, selfish asshole and tries to deprive you of an important part of intimacy then by all means cheat on him.
Cheat wella, to your hearts content.
Go back to your ex and do all manner of tongue gymnastics with him, french kissing, german kissing, italian kissing etc. But guard your infidelity with your life.
Make sure hubby never finds out.
All the best!

Ps, if you decide to go for option 2 then don't feel guilty about it at all. Men are selfish cu^nts that won't hesitate to cheat on you if you deprive them of any kind of intimacy.

Madam, for your mind now you think you can guard infidelity successfully. It were better you divorced him to be free to practice every kind of kissing gymnastic with your ex or other men than do it under the umbrella/institution of marriage. You're playing with serious deadly, poisonous, lethal fire. Your type is the reason why many good men are serving jail term for murder.

Moana:


I have always seen guys on NL saying that a woman should be blamed if her husband falls into the arms of another woman because she is not focusing on him enough and i will use this opportunity to give the same advice, the husband should be blamed for letting his wife fall into the hands of another man. Since he doesnt want to be romantic with his wife, let her find happiness elsewhere.

Lol. In all honesty, that's quite fair.

Only God can save all dis unromantic african men....its bcoming a scourge.....aw person no go wan kiss him wife......it doesnt make u less manly na......my 60smtin yr old oldman still de kiss him wife. Dat husband needs correct o.t.

germainediva:
She is 30 been married for 6yrs with 3kids. She noticed hubby stopped kissing her after she had her last child......

Whenever she tries to kiss him,he just pecks her on the lips and that's all...and if she complains......he says its for the younger generation that she should forget about it........

When she tries to talk about it, he says she's nagging and being childish and looking for trouble where there's none.

Now its been over a year and she been fantasizing about it, recently she ran into her ex and one thing led to another and she had a very passionate kiss but nothing else happened.

She has been feeling guilty....her ex has been calling her but she has refused to pick his call because she never intended to cheat on her husband.......

Hubby has warned her not to bring up the issue of kissing .....now she is fantasizing about kissing....

Is there another way to communicate it to hubby?

incredibly stoopid nonsense lime this just scare me off marriage st times .



I mean cheating on your man because of ordinary kiss? Have you lost your marbles?



Bloody idiots everywhere

abbey621:


Maybe you should read the OP's post a second time, you'll notice the man does not want to hear of it again, which can only mean that her complaint was more of a nag. Typical Nigerian women nags, it's nothing new. Unless the guy is a psycho, there's no way she can talk to him from the heart and not respond positively. I'm talking tears, down on bended knees and all. When women wants something really bad, they can go above and beyond......She can continue complaining or she can start persuading!

i dont think a man who loves his wife has to be begged to kiss his wife passionately its something that requires common sense its as simple as that