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See Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Nobody: 10:57am On Jun 25, 2015
1. Many ladies will end up singles for life because of media exposure: It is so disheartening how a lady will glue her eyes on a mobile phone from morning to night, only to raise it up to focus on television to watch another celebrity entertainment channel. Tell me, what else will dominate this lady’s mindset if it’s not how to live a fake celebrity life being promoted on television channels?

2. Many ladies of nowadays dislike cooking and doing home chores: Just because they have been totally brainwashed by movies showcasing men playing the role of women in a family. Now, with this attitude, how do you expect a man to desire to marry when he knows he is only buying more headache and trouble than a helper for himself?

3. Modern fashion and craze for gadgets is a great barrier to most ladies finding love and marriage: How do we explain a single lady whose only desire in life is to acquire the latest clothes in town, the latest mobile phones and ipads to the detriment of her woman worth? How can a single lady maintain this lifestyle for long without bowing low to immoral lifestyle? How do you expect a man from a responsible family background, and who is in his right senses to propose marriage to a lady whose utmost desire and concern in life is to acquire costly electronic gadgets, clothes, jewellery, perfume name them. Of course, majority of men would like to date such a trendy lady for fun and show-off, but wouldn’t want to propose marriage even if she is earning the money herself because her expensive lifestyle already is a big turn off to most responsible serious-minded single men. Only men that are out to catch fun will be closely attracted to her, and her chances of getting a marriage proposal from them is as slim as a camel passing through the eye of a needle.

4. Excessive make-up turns most decent and serious-minded men off: If you have observed, you will discover that most men dislike excessive make-up, and more don’t even like it at all. Excessive make-up makes you look like an Egyptian Mummy. A slight make-up is okay, but if you are out for marriage, try always to look simple and natural, it will attract better men, decent and serious-minded men. Unless you are still living in your high school life and not thinking towards marriage.

5.Cut Down Your Participation in social network sites: If possible, limit your use of facebook and twitter accounts because they may be doing you more harm than good, but you wouldn’t know until you hit 35 years plus and still single and searching. No man would want to marry a lady who jumps from one social network site to another because it is a clear sign of an unfaithful lady or about to be unfaithful lady, yes, that’s how men view it. Who are you to have a thousands of friends on facebook, same on twitter, maybe on wassap, 2go, twoo, BBM, badoo, eskimi, and you are not a celebrity?

6. Stop Giving Your Number Out To Every Dick & Harry! No man would want to propose marriage to a lady whose phone is always talking and laughing with unserious calls. You may not be a playgirl, but he would judge you as one, and will likely flee at the slightest chance or disagreement.

7. You Don’t Bring Any Value Into The Life Of Men You Date or Are Dating: Because your best friend married without contributing anything to the man that finally married her, doesn’t mean it will work for you that way. Think, work towards equipping yourself so that you can be a value and also add value to his life to convince him that you are worth committing to. Adding value to his life isn’t by giving him money, or material gifts, nope….good counsels, being his best friend, helping him attain his goals in life, lending him moral, mental and spiritual support, and by not just being a liability that only bring requests and problems to be solved.

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Re: See Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Nobody: 11:00am On Jun 25, 2015
Re: See Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Mekybliss(f): 11:05am On Jun 25, 2015
Lmao
Re: See Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Nobody: 11:09am On Jun 25, 2015
Stop reclycling this shi.it, it has been posted be4. Btw vote agarawu23 4 mr nairaland. Your vote count.
Re: See Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Nobody: 11:10am On Jun 25, 2015
Mekybliss:
Lmao
goodday! Hope u have done the needful. GOD BLESS U AS U DO.
Re: See Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Nobody: 11:12am On Jun 25, 2015
Drchristian, correcturself,levul, suzzy16,kgbreast and the rest plz go and vote agarawu for mrnairaland.
Re: See Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by suzzy16(f): 11:17am On Jun 25, 2015
Jollyjoy:
Drchristian, correcturself,levul, suzzy16,kgbreast and the rest plz go and vote agarawu for mrnairaland.
tanx for d mention,dear
Re: See Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by correctyourself(m): 11:18am On Jun 25, 2015
Op, thank you very much, your post is highly educating and I hope ladies will learn from it. Cheers.
Re: See Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by justmag(m): 11:25am On Jun 25, 2015
Who EVER Came up with this needs to go to the village to find his girl
Re: See Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Nobody: 11:31am On Jun 25, 2015
Mtchewwwww.
If you can't get a man then you should remain single.
A man cannot define your happiness.
Re: See Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Nobody: 11:32am On Jun 25, 2015
suzzy16:
tanx for d mention,dear
u welcum plz vote him.
Re: See Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Brownhypo: 11:44am On Jun 25, 2015
when ladies clock 30 still single, they turn prayer warriors by force grin
Re: See Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by lokito: 12:35pm On Jun 25, 2015
Mekybliss:
Lmao


And you girls should stop laughing out the remaining small *ass* that you have.
Re: See Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by laurenjones: 1:05pm On Jun 25, 2015
lokito:



And you girls should stop laughing out the remaining small *ass* that you have.

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Re: See Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Mekybliss(f): 1:25pm On Jun 25, 2015
lokito:



And you girls should stop laughing out the remaining small *ass* that you have.
I have enough
Re: See Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Mekybliss(f): 1:29pm On Jun 25, 2015
Jollyjoy:
goodday! Hope u have done the needful. GOD BLESS U AS U DO.
sure I have. And bless you too

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Re: See Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by MEGGATRON(m): 1:31pm On Jun 25, 2015
wow incredible!!!

NO7 is the definition of all nigerian girls between the age of 18-30
Re: See Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Portsmouth86(f): 2:05am On Jun 26, 2015
I was born in the 80's and I'm married cheesy

I think this is something that both men and women do alike, majority being younger peers- Its not good at all, who wants to be sitting with spouse and both busy on each others mobiles- I work all night in banking and the last thing I want to do is pick up my mobile, any time I get to spend with my husband is precious and he gets my full attention just as he does with me.

Its a great shame that more and more people put too much personal things on social media too.
Re: See Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by Mznaett: 8:02am On Jun 26, 2015
Was marriage meant for everyone??
Re: See Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by spill(m): 7:42pm On Aug 02, 2015
Your write-up is the bitter truth. I love the article.... Hid to the advice single ladies
Re: See Why Single Ladies Born In 80’s & 90’s May Never Get A HUSBAND Soon by dhantey324(m): 8:08pm On Aug 02, 2015
Girls are getting married every blessed Saturday and Sunday.. Just live and enjoy ur life, one day ur turn go come

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