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The World In Dire Need Of Better Men And Women by jearile(m): 12:09pm On Jun 25, 2015
Ladies that always like to be only on "asking & collecting" side more often end up becoming stingy and greedy wives and mothers. Learn to also give tangibly to your male counterpart without them asking because most times no real dude will even ask from you. It is an act that shows you belong to a different class of ladies and not to be taken or misunderstood as a gesture to minister your "in love" emotions towards him.
Guys that have turned their girlfriends to house helps; she cooks, clean and wash for you because you are the boss. Men with this mentality end up acting like prison warden to their wives and children. Even if a woman lacks self-respect, you can culture her to place herself in such a high esteem by treating her the way a lady ought to be appreciated. That's what makes you her right man.
For those of us who wish to raise our own families sooner or later, the reason why we weren't born married into this world is so that as we grow, we learn to become more repsonsible; not just for our own benefit per se but also for our unborn children and the society at large. Your action(s) at this present moment puts you in a better position for the next moment that is to come. Let's leave frivolities and concentrate more on life threatening priorities that we need to conquer now before they conquer us in our quest of being champions as fathers and mothers. That you crave to be allowed to enjoy your youthful age shouldn't be an unreasonable licence for you to build up past and habits you may eventually have to fight with thereafter at the detriment of your comfort and longevity.
Some are learning, some are playing; some are changing, some are just there - how you prepare, will determine how you'll perform.

The world in dire need of better men and women - apply now!

~Sir Jerry.com
Re: The World In Dire Need Of Better Men And Women by bukatyne(f): 12:49pm On Jun 25, 2015
jearile:
Ladies that always like to be only on "asking & collecting" side more often end up becoming stingy and greedy wives and mothers. Learn to also give tangibly to your male counterpart without them asking because most times no real dude will even ask from you. It is an act that shows you belong to a different class of ladies and not to be taken or misunderstood as a gesture to minister your "in love" emotions towards him.
Guys that have turned their girlfriends to house helps; she cooks, clean and wash for you because you are the boss. Men with this mentality end up acting like prison warden to their wives and children. Even if a woman lacks self-respect, you can culture her to place herself in such a high esteem by treating her the way a lady ought to be appreciated. That's what makes you her right man.
For those of us who wish to raise our own families sooner or later, the reason why we weren't born married into this world is so that as we grow, we learn to become more repsonsible; not just for our own benefit per se but also for our unborn children and the society at large. Your action(s) at this present moment puts you in a better position for the next moment that is to come. Let's leave frivolities and concentrate more on life threatening priorities that we need to conquer now before they conquer us in our quest of being champions as fathers and mothers. That you crave to be allowed to enjoy your youthful age shouldn't be an unreasonable licence for you to build up past and habits you may eventually have to fight with thereafter at the detriment of your comfort and longevity.
Some are learning, some are playing; some are changing, some are just there - how you prepare, will determine how you'll perform.

The world in dire need of better men and women - apply now!

~Sir Jerry.com

@Bold, Yes...

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