andysnoopy:



It's surprising how our people think sometimes. it is really surprising. I don't want to start thinking that you are giving excuses for what the evil guy of a boyfriend is doing here.

We are talking of a 15 year old girl that was snapped up by an older man with such a huge age gap because of poverty, and the guy showed the poor little girl glimpses that he could be a good boyfriend by helping her in area of serious needs and even her education and even offering to have her live with him while going to school under a reliable financial backup. Tell me!! which poor 15 year old girl under such situation won't fall for the mirage?? How's she suppose to know that her "Lover and Angel" would turn into a monster??

Have you guys ever stop to think that the girl might be in love too?? I have seen girls doing more stupid things in the name of love, even girls from "rich" background too.. heck i've seen old men doing crazier things for love. So who are we to judge her situation??

She doesn't sell stuffs and so what!! How many of y'all sell stuffs here?? Is that enough reason to exonerate the guy putting an impressionable young girl through hell? She's ready to move on that is why she sought our advice. The least we can do is offer advice and support not trying to be "holier than thou". Who knows what y'all have in your various closest?? Some of y'all judging her might be prostitutes with a phone and internet access to NL.

Our country is going to the dogs and the number one reason is that we have perfected the art of hiding while judging. Nonsense

jaybee3:

How is it a non issue if the credibility of the story is now in question?
The story should have been posted as received


@ishilove

What exactly did you edit, did you just introduce line spacing and paragraphs or you changed some of the sentences?

Can you ask her if she is interested in counselling as the bare minimum

Ishilove:

Line spacing, paragraphs, tense consistency etc. I didn't add or remove anything from the story but just changed the grammatical structure. Next time I will simply post the story like that to avoid any controversy.

And yes, I will ask her about counselling. Counselling is very important considering all she has been through.

Orijin101:
To read the shortest verse in the bible which says; "Jesus wept" took me a total duration of 3hour. . . And ishilove also know i'm a reading-stammerer. . .
Even the devil knows i will never take my time to read that novel. . .

She is tired of being his sex machine and abortion bag

But me

I'm just tired of your comments about your inability to read long posts.

If you can't take the time to read something, then obviously, you don't deserve to know what it's about!

mranswer:
kagan wawanci koh?

mranswer:

kagan wawanci koh?

Joavid:


Is she still 15?
She almost lost her life at the age of 15 due to an abortion she had for him and she still went on to stay with him after that because of poverty?
Abeg!!

If you read her story well, there was a period after her secondary school education she went to work as a maid only for her to gain admission again and go back to the man? Na jazz


and am sure she kept her parents in the dark all this time.

Ol' girl is just afraid of being alone and struggling to make a living.
I mean, her condition is not so bad, her parents still pay her fees unlike some people who their parents can't.

There are millions of people who are in uni and have no parents to carter for them and they help themselves.

Am not judging her (if you know what judging means) And I won't pat her in the back while giving her advice because she is not a kid!!!

The best advice is the one you give yourself, and you draw it from other people's experience and advices.

Acidosis:
From what I can deduce from this story


The problem is not POVERTY, but LOVE.


OP is madly in love with the man. Its a crazy love; such that no amount of contributions will make her leave the god completely.

Give her N1,000,000, and watch her call the man first thing tomorrow morning to apologize. I know her type. She might end up giving the man the whole money.

I'm not discouraging whoever wants to help. OP needs to be sincere, the utmost help you need is BREAKING OUT of this EVIL LOVE you've found yourself.

You've tried so hard to hate him, but you can't. If you hate this man, no one will tell you how to survive without him, in fact, you won't come here to seek HELP.


Break out of LOVE, and watch everything fall in place.

Emrys16:
Just buy Uta Pia pia 20Naira, i dont need to tell you what next to do to him

anumide:

emsheddy:
Eyaaa! No wonder the thing dey bite u like this! I admire u n ur sister Mental strength n courage bro! but u will agree with me that not everybody has that in them too. The opportunities n circumstances can never be the same.

Acidosis:
What exactly do you want from this man?


Your parents pay school fees.


So what exactly do you get from this 'god'? accommodation and free food? Abeg im dey live for banana island?

You're not the only girl from a poor background on earth.

There are rich women who have had more s e x and abortions.

By implication, the decision to have s e x and abortion is never predicated upon the clause called poverty.

If your parents could raise school fees, why do you feel you need a man to afford accommodation?

The fact that you allowed a man have s e x with you @15years shows poverty isn't the reason you moved to his apartment @20+ to further your studies.

Kindly move closer to God, repent, delete this man from your life/history and settle down until you find the RIGHT man.

Joavid:

The intriguing part is both she and the man in question are nairalanders.
Choi! Nairalanders I carry yansh for una!

fellis:


I wonder why men tend to attempt sexually exploiting a girl just because she is helpless.
What kind of sick pleasure can one gain from taking advantage of a helpless person?

Bonapart:
this babe you want to see the other side of me or wat do you want

Bonapart:
this babe you want to see the other side of me or wat do you want

dinachi:
Well. There are so many things to do. The first is to move out of that house immediately because as long as you are in your comfort zone you can't act. Seek out a friend and stay in their house for a few weeks. If you do not have any friend who can help, look for a church and start staying there and before anybody begins to talk, I have done it before.I slept in a church for almost a month to find my footing.
What skills do you have? Are you computer literate? If not start going to building sites to look for a job. If you are a good marketer, you can look for painting contracts get a painter and collect money and give him the job.Or you can start real estate agency. You do not need any capital. Look for an empty house for rent and look for clients to take it. The street is blessed!
Meanwhile be strong in your church and let your leaders in the church know what you are passing through. This is not time to look for another boyfriend.

Cutehector:
There is something wrong somewhere.....

voltron:

na gan shi, mai kafan masara

mranswer:

hahaha ya garin?

0ubenji:

hmmm..kayefi
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maybe we both shud go in search of that wrong tin in the SOMEWHERE..abi ki lo feel?