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Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by ogbonnajoe(m): 3:22am On Jun 27, 2015 |
Not every man can take the disappointing and humiliation from NIgeria wives imported to America. Wives killers on rampage in the US An Epidemic: Nigerian Men Killing Their Nurse Wives In America "Yes, I have killed the woman that messed up my life; the woman that has destroyed me. I am at Shalom West. My name is David and I am all yours.” Those were David Ochola’s words during his 911 (U.S. Emergency Number) call to authorities after shooting dead, his 28 years old wife, Priscilla Ochola, in Hennepin, Minnesota. The 50-years old, husband was tired of being “disrespected” by his wife, a Registered Nurse (RN) whom he had brought from Nigeria and sponsored through nursing school only to have her make much more than him in salary - a situation which led to Mrs. Ochola “coming and going as she chose without regard for her husband.” The couple had two children – four years old boy and a three year old girl. In Texas, Babajide Okeowo had been separated from his wife, Funke Okeowo, with whom he resided at their Dallas home. Upon the divorce, the husband lost the house to his wife, along with most of the contents therein, as is usually the tradition in the U.S. Divorces where the couple still has underage children. Mr. Okeowo, 48, divorced his wife because not long after she became an RN and made more money than him, she “took control” of the family finances and “controlled” her husband’s expenditure and movement. The husband could no longer make any meaningful contribution to his family back in Nigeria unless the wife “approved” it. He could not go out without her permission. Frustrated that his formerly malleable wife had suddenly become such a “terror” to him to the point of asking for in court and getting virtually everything for which he had worked since coming to the US thirty years prior, the husband got in his vehicle and drove a few hundred miles to Dallas to settle the scores. He found her in her SUV, adorned in full Nigerian attire on her way to the birthday bash organized in her honor. She had turned 46 on that day. Mr. Okeowo fired several rounds into his wife’s torso while she sat at the steering wheel, mercilessly killing her in broad daylight. Also in Dallas (they sure need anger management classes in Dallas), Moses Egharevba, 45, did not even bother to get a gun. The husband of Grace Egharevba, 35, bludgeoned her to death with a sledge hammer while their seven year old daughter watched and screamed for peace. Mrs. Egharevba’s “sin” was that she became an RN and started to make more money than her husband. This led to her “financial liberation” from a supposedly tight-fisted husband who had not only brought her from Nigeria, but had also funded her nursing school education. Like Moses Egharevba, Christopher Ndubuisi of Garland, Texas, (these Texas people!) also did not bother to get a gun. He crept into the bedroom where his wife, Christiana, was sleeping and, with several blows of the sledge hammer, crushed her head. Two years before Christiana was killed, her mother, who had been visiting from Nigeria, was found dead in the bathtub under circumstances believed to be suspicious. Of course, Christiana was a RN whose income dwarfed that of her husband as soon as she graduated from nursing school. The husband believed that his role as a husband and head of the household had been usurped by his wife. Mr. Ndubuisi’s several entreaties to his wife’s family to intercede and bring Christiana back under his control had all failed. If the circumstances surrounding the death of Christiana’s mother were suspicious, those surrounding the death of a Tennessee woman’s mother were not. Agnes Nwodo, an RN, lived in squalor before her husband, Godfrey Nwodo, rescued her and brought her to the US. He enrolled her in nursing school right away. Upon qualifying as a RN, Mrs. Nwodo assumed “full control” of the household. She brought her mother to live with them against her husband’s wishes. Mrs. Nwodo quickly familiarized herself with US Family Laws and took full advantage of them. Each time the couple argued, the police forced the husband to leave the house whether he had a place to sleep or not. On many occasions, Mr. Nwodo spent days in police cells. Upon divorcing his wife, Mr. Nwodo lost to his wife, the house he had owned for almost 20 years before he married her. He also lost custody of their three children to her, with the court awarding him only periodic visitation rights. Even seeing the children during visitation was always a hassle as the wife would “arrive late at the neutral meeting place and ... www.fb.com/ hopefornigeria |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by otipoju(m): 3:40am On Jun 27, 2015 |
I dont see myself marrying a Nigerian.... those ladies are just something else. Hardly have them as friends sef. Our spirit no just ryhme at all. God will guide me sha. 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Nobody: 3:52am On Jun 27, 2015 |
I know a lot of people will quickly condemn the killings but haven lived here for awhile now, I appreciate the situation those men found themselves. I have a relative who is currently seeing hell in the hands of a formerly bush lady(sorry I have to put it this way)he married and trained in the same nursing with his sweat just because she has seen a little civilisation. This man was having two jobs and working his @ss off just to pay bills and also see his wife through studies. Now he is about to loose the house he bought over 20years ago to that witch. One thing in life is that the evil one does will always bounce back. Inasmuchas killing is killing, permit me to say Rest in Pieces to those wicked ladies. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by donholy28(m): 4:08am On Jun 27, 2015 |
US turned d system upside down and killed Respect...Wives,Kids no respect and if u divorce a woman....half ur property don go...but d man suppose use style bundle im wife back to Nigeria...make she come and answer to d Gods. 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by raayah(f): 4:38am On Jun 27, 2015 |
Look at them giving excuses for murder!! If every american spouse kills their spouse because of divorce settlements... over 50% of Americans will be dead. I wonder if its only Nigerian men that marry nurses. Nursing is not an easy job. Nurses work long and odd hours. You dont expect your wife to work 12 hrs and come home and cook, clean and take care of kids. She is not superman. Nigerian men(not all of them) can take their respect and shove it. Thankfully these men will spend the rest of their life in Jail. They will have time to think if respect is more important than freedom. 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by ogbonnajoe(m): 8:43am On Jun 27, 2015 |
when I first read of this a lot of questions popped up in my mind *where they not aware of those American protective laws for women? *Did they marry this women with an ulterior motives like making them perpetually naive and harken only to their needs? *Where they not aware that American culture differs signicantly from what we have over here? There is no reason for a wife to dishonor or disregard her husband just as there isn't any reason whatsoever for a man(husband for that matter) to kill his woman. 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by ayokellany: 3:21pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
raayah: More ladies with your line of thought should be ready to die. It's not alright but definitely okay 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by raayah(f): 4:19pm On Jun 27, 2015 |
ayokellany: More men like you should be ready to spend the rest of their lives in Jail. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by ogbonnajoe(m): 7:11pm On Jun 28, 2015 |
blood is sacred......killing is sacrilage |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Nobody: 12:49pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
ogbonnajoe: There is no point killing your wife just try and return to Nigeria with her say for xmas and then burn her international passport,take her phone and all her contacts. She will find it difficult to return to the USA 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Nobody: 2:23pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Cc Dinachi. What do you have to say concerning this topic,sponsoring someone with your hard earned money only for her to in return pay you back by calling the police on you,carting away your house of about 20 years and separating you from your children Well as for me,it simple,any woman that will try that with me,I will simply take my kids with me back to nigeria,stay for a while then relocate to another country,probably south africa or dubia and live a happy life.... Some women are blessings while some are curse I for example love a submisive women...staying in america does not means I can't have my way too...I will simply take my kids with me,and leave you,the house and your nurse job to live your happy life |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Obodo999(m): 3:35pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
azuson: Its you that will suffer the financial burden of raising the Children . The best is for the husband to come back to Nigeria and leave the wife to take care of her Children herself .... 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Obodo999(m): 3:45pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
I sponsored my wife to Germany with my hard earned money. We have 4 children. When she started misbehaving and called Polizei for me, I simply moved back to Nigeria and left her kids for her. After a year, she is begging me to come back . Men, don't stress yourself by fighting for children custody. Its not worth it. The Children will look for you when they are adults. 10 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Moana(f): 8:02pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
ayokellany:let someone kill your daughter the same way 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by kubba: 9:13pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Obodo999: I understand, but, You sound cold! Don't you miss them? Your kids 3 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by kubba: 9:15pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Unfortunately, dead women can't talk |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by KanwuliaJara: 10:27pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
I was not imported! Hallelujah!!!!! |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by dangotesmummy: 11:37pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
raayah: 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by dangotesmummy: 11:37pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara: |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by dangotesmummy: 11:41pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:sy they're still looking for respect and submission in America they'll find it in prison 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by KanwuliaJara: 11:43pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
dangotesmummy: Dem go wait taya ke! Wey SHYMM3X? 2 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by dangotesmummy: 11:48pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:so it's now a crime for the wife to earn more than her husband simply because he brought her to "America" and paid her tuition fees in nursing school. She has to be perpetually kissing his @ss I said you cannot see that thing on this thread 4 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by cococandy(f): 11:49pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
Recycled overflogged and dead topic. |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by KanwuliaJara: 11:50pm On Jun 29, 2015 |
dangotesmummy: Hahahahaha 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Richy4(m): 3:38am On Jun 30, 2015 |
raayah: In as much as i do not support murder, i do not think you have dated a control freak before especially the ones you made whom they are. If you are single, pray that a control freak do not come your way. And if you are married, lucky you. Most law in the western world favors the women a lot. That was why some Nigerian ladies being what they are took advantage of that. |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by Shymm3x: 5:34am On Jun 30, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara: Those angry women provoked the violence. |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by dangotesmummy: 6:26am On Jun 30, 2015 |
Shymm3x:by earning more than their husbands or by being unsubmissive; being financially liberated and independent, refusing to perpetually kiss their @ss or being unavailable. Which one? |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by kaboninc(m): 7:38am On Jun 30, 2015 |
dangotesmummy: Sambarry? 1 Like |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by mutter(f): 7:43am On Jun 30, 2015 |
No one not even the state or any institution has the right to take life. But of what use is this when the life has been blown out. We need to look for ways to prevent it happening. Laws made to protect women before are now being used by women to exploit men. These laws where made when women had a disadvantage on the job market but modern technology has made it possible for women to do every job a man can do. So the women today are more exposed more educated and are using the laws as a weapon to deal with the men. I just find it sickening when I see how some of these girls that came from home talk to their husbands. I always scold them when they do it in my presence.A woman's respect is her husband. Respect your husband and you achieve more respect for yourself. I don`t even understand how a woman can live under the same roof with a man she does not respect!A real woman delights joy in respecting her husband and submitting to him. Gosh when I try to imagine how a home would be where this is missing! When you respect and love a man you share everything with him. It is no longer about mine and yours. I know some will say the men are not working hard enough but did the women not know that when they followed him there. What people do not understand is that there is sometimes a very long and hard process to first get into America and then have the right to stay there. These men have sometimes spent years living a hard life without a regular routine. So they have in some ways been broken by the system. Now the woman the marry and brings does not go through that struggle. She now gets there and spits in the face of the man that provided her with something better. So sad in a foreign land the family should be strong and united to survive. Now the man is gone the home is broken and hardly any good comes out of the kid`s. 9 Likes |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by dangotesmummy: 7:53am On Jun 30, 2015 |
kaboninc:what |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by kaboninc(m): 8:08am On Jun 30, 2015 |
dangotesmummy: What happened to sambarry? |
Re: Nigerian Men In Usa, Killing Their Imported Wives From Nigeria. by dangotesmummy: 8:13am On Jun 30, 2015 |
kaboninc:she's fine |
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