sinaj:
I think she is feeling guilty within nd keeping in touch or getin along with you will relieve dat guilt



If you can handle d emotions nd memory, you shud yield to her request buh if u cnt, move ya dumb ass on

chccho:

Hmmn,yielding to her request is totally out if it,after what she put me thru!!!!

chccho:
I have been having a Lil issue lately
My ex n i broke up bout 2yrs ago after I found out she was having an affair just next door long story short she got pregnant for d guy n moved in with him...
She calls me once once tryn to keep in touch saying hi n all.
I ignored her calls for a while until lastweek when she called again to say hello and dis time she even wanted to invite me to her baby's bday...I had to ask her r u OK?? And declined d invite she has somehow tried to be friendly and even sents me WhatsApp msgs too..all this has stired up passed memories with her n I kinda miss her but the past is d past...am just wondering if its right to keep in touch with her at all? Why all dis sudden friendship? Would it be harsh to tell her not to ever call me again?

Dollyak:
Run... She is most likely contacting you for emotional rebounds. I wouldn't be surprised if she had just broken up with another guy.
2. She is either lonely.
3. She might be trying to check up on you to make sure you haven't moved on. Some people hate to see their ex happy.

The point is you need to run because some girls can be very manipulating.

chccho:

Like u read my mind..tanx dear

Gurgle:


No it wouldn't be too harsh at all. if that's what you feel you need to do then do it

chccho:

OK gurgle

Gurgle:


ya im starting to feel annoyed on your behalf. did she even apologise for what she put you through before she started friending you on Whatsapp self what a joke

chccho:

Mehn, girls r crazy these days brother..
She didn't apologize n somehow wants to be friends for what, I don't knw

Gurgle:


why does everyone always think im a guy? do I type like one or what?

anyway if you want you can always ask

like are you going to explain why you acted the way you did, and so on

maybe that might clear it up for you. then you can evaluate the situation

but do you think you are in the right frame of mind to talk to her? you sound like youre slipping back into liking her

Clinton594:
[size=13pt]Lol it depends on understanding shaaaa.
I still relate me my Ex of three years breakup.... We're in the Same school and we chat sometimes.... She also lives next door to my guy.

We never had to quarrel b4 breaking up, it was just a mature breakup.... Cos seriously our G.P was telling on us and ever since.... there's been great improvement.
I'm in my finals and I'm happy we made that decision then[/size]

chccho:

Loool, sorry I jst thot u were a guy,maybe its d way u typed.
I don't think I even wana talk cos it will bring back memories I have put behind me n that's what really hurts d most..

Gurgle:


lol need to work on my masculine typing...

yeah then i would advise you to just delete her and forget it. i have actually just done that with somebody and i feel 100 times better. i wish i had done it before instead of tolerating nonsense

chccho:

Lmao @ masculine typing that was funny
Don't sweat it jor, I now knw u r a babe

sarmiie:



Chop knuckle, bro

Gurgle:


Wow look what somebody just said to me

sarmiie:


Lol....my bad...you definitely type like a dude..ur being asexual (no m or f) doesn't help matters too.

It's all goo tho. Should u ever feel snoopy, u can use that skill to check ur bf's fidelity.

Gurgle:


how do you put the (m/f)? ive been wondering why i don't have any

i think i'll just leave it since it makes people read my posts with a neutral mind

looool do you think so? I never thought of that. although by that time he would probably be used to my manly typing too

sarmiie:


I don't think u can do the m/f thing anymore. It should have been done when u registered. People never read with a neutral mind, except its about technobabble. In their minds, u'r male. C'est finis!!

True about the boyfriend tin, but if u have a close, trusty male friend, he can show u how to.

Gurgle:


I never thought I would be into that kind of thing. snooping into my mans phone/e-mails

unless I suspect he is in any kind of trouble

I don't think I would have that time but I may be wrong, judging from the kind of things I read on here these days

even you who is suggesting it, wouldn't you feel terrible knowing your gf was reading all your private stuff

sarmiie:


Hey, I'm not in any way telling you to do it. I'm just saying that ur "masculine" mode of typing has its uses too.....besides, haven't you heard of "trust but verify"??. I don't date insecure people, so if my gf does that, then she must have had a very legitimate reason.

Nature8:
The best thing is to get her out of your memory and move on with your life bro.. I guess you still love her, that's why you haven't tell her to stop calling.. Don't give her the chance to manipulate you again.. She's married to someone she cheated and betrayed your love with.. Don't be too nice to her, tell her not to call you again and focus on her husband..

Dollyak:

No worries. I am sorry but you are not her priority, the other guy is/was. She deserves everything coming at her.

chccho:

Hmmn,yielding to her request is totally out if it,after what she put me thru!!!!

Gurgle:


lol trust but verify. yeah that's true.

haha but you wont know how secure she is until youre in deep, that's how people get into these situations.

anyway, here's to a bright future with no need for snooping