The small things you do for a woman are the ones
that mean the most. Why? Because those are the
things that show her you’re willing to put effort in
for her, just because. No holiday or special
occasion needed.
A good boyfriend or husband knows that any man
who waits until Valentine’s Day to romance the
woman in his life is missing the point 364 days out
of the year.
He also understands that while grand romantic
gestures are great, the thought put into everyday
activities are even better.
Here are fifteen small things that actually have a
big impact.


1. Remember her friends’ names .
She’s told you about Susie at least 17 times since
you’ve been together, not referring to her as “You
know, that girl with the weird eyebrows” will let
her know that you actually pay attention when she
speaks—especially about things that may not involve
you directly.


2. Clean up after yourself.
The cave men out there have given all of us guys
the unjust reputation of being complete slobs. There
are three possible scenarios here:
A: You have your own place which she visits, in
which case she will appreciate you keeping it clean.
B: You share a place, in which case she will really
appreciate you keeping it clean.
C: She has her own place and you spend time
there, in which case it is imperative that you help
keep it clean. It’s not really that hard.


3. Actually tell her how you feel.
Men are notorious for not being open and honest
about their feelings, and just like you tell women
you’re not a mind-reader, neither are they. She
will appreciate you respecting her enough to open
up to her.


4. Don’t pressure her into anything.
Guilt trips are never cool, no matter how small the
issue is.


5. Don’t criticize her food/drink choices.
“Are you really going to eat that?” “Are you sure
you want another drink?” Yes, she is. And now
she’s going to order two because of your stupid
comment.


6. Don’t take forever to respond to her text.
You don’t have to be completely glued to your
phone, but you probably are anyway. If she texts
you, at least have the courtesy to text her back in a
reasonable amount of time. It will show her that
she is a priority to you even when you’re busy. It
just takes a few seconds.


7. Watch what she wants to watch.
Maybe you couldn’t care less about the Real
Housewives Of Beverly Hills, but being in a
relationship isn’t always about only taking part in
your own interests, it’s also about taking part in
things that your partner enjoys, even if it’s not
your favorite.
Plus, you will get bonus points and probably get to
pick the next movie you go see.


8. Learn to cook.
If you don’t already know how, learn at least one
or two dishes to make for her now and then. It
doesn’t have to be anything extravagant, and
women think it’s sexy when you’re in the kitchen.
Sounds like a win to me.


9. Give her massages.
She’s had a long day. And even if she hasn’t, why
would any guy complain about this? It’s an excuse
to get physically close to her and make her feel
relaxed. As if you needed an excuse for that,
though.


10. Take her on a date.
It doesn’t matter how long you’ve been together,
you should never stop dating. Whether it is out to
dinner or a night on the town, it is important to
not let things get stale. Give her a good reason to
dress up and go out.


11. Whatever you’re getting, get her one too.
Going out to grab a coffee? Getting up to get some
water? Don’t come back empty-handed. Even
though it’s something tiny, she will appreciate your
thoughtfulness.


12. Give her space.
The only thing worse than a guy who doesn’t give
her enough attention is a guy who gives her too
much attention. Sometimes she just wants to read a
book or watch a trashy TV show by herself.
Respect her alone time, it will allow her to rest
and reset, and she will love you for it (especially if
she doesn’t have to ask).


13. Listen. Just listen.
Men are naturally problem solvers. When we
hear about an issue we are compelled to attempt to
come up with a suggestion or solution. When a
woman vents to you, that’s not what she’s looking
for.
She wants you to simply listen and at least make
an attempt to understand. She doesn’t want you to
give her the answer, but the support she needs to
figure it out on her own.


14. Don’t talk badly about your ex(es).
Women understand that how you speak about those
from your past is usually more of a reflection of
you than it is of them. Someday, if your
relationship ends, you are basically predicting to
her how you’re going to talk to your friends or
your next girlfriend about her. Not very
reassuring.


15. Go shopping with her.
Dude, it’s Saturday, and you’re not doing anything
anyway. If she wants to go to the mall, just go
with her—but be in good spirits about it.
I never understood why so many guys have a
problem with this. You get to go and help her pick
out clothing that makes her look sexy, and then you
get to see her wear it later on, it’s a win-win.
Just don’t be a downer while you’re there or it
will do more harm than good.
Oh, and offer to carry her bags. Just offer.


Source: Yourtango.com

Too much tory

But then i remember, we are talking about women.
Oh geez

Ok

Nice

Same old stupid nd dumb post



Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew Rubbish

[size=14pt]Thanks OP, I will try that on adeh39.[/size]

hmmmmn, who get time.

This for those that want to be her maga....

Alrite will add them to the to do list

that no 1 no follow...i will so much prefer it ...if my guy dont remember my friends name...

make i catch myself say i dey go shopping.
or watch telemundo or nollywood movies.


i'll just go bananas.

Ehn?
Okay . . . wait, stop. EHN?!!

Hmm

Okay

True

Women are mainly driven by emotion. Just as we need logic and structure in our lives, they need emotion.

So the idea is that if you really want to keep a woman, you need to know what drives her.

marshalcarter:
Same old stupid nd dumb post




Mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeew
Rubbish

did u just call dis write up dumb? Gosh! Anoda aminal on d loose. Can u kindly post urz? Why nt write sometin worthwhile and informative. Mtheeew.

falconey:

NO.9 - give her massages?


Hell no I'm the one hitting that! I should be the one geting massages!

She should be massaging my nuts against next match.

what a mentality! To think u are d same nigga dat wouldn"t stop nagging becos of se.x.

Feranchek:
Nice

nice? What exactly is nice abt the writeup?

falconey:




woa woa WTF

are u having sex? Why the moan? And what is fvck abt it?

Jollyjoy:
did u just call dis write up dumb? Gosh! Anoda aminal on d loose. Can u kindly post urz? Why nt write sometin worthwhile and informative. Mtheeew.

Yes ma'am
Nope....m not postin mine

Jollyjoy:
nice? What exactly is nice abt the writeup?

Sweetheart, tell me you won't love your boyfriend more if he does these things

Feranchek:


Sweetheart, tell me you won't love your boyfriend more if he does these things

more indeed'!

Jollyjoy:
more indeed'!

Lol. Seems like that ex at the supermarket is actually still causing some katakata for my baby head o0oo

Feranchek:


Lol. Seems like that ex at the supermarket is actually still causing some katakata for my baby head o0oo

lolz! No,it all byegone.

Jollyjoy:
lolz! No,it all byegone.

Talk true o0o0! Cos the guy the op talked about is quite a lovable one and no one will be angry coz someone else said he's 'Nice'

Feranchek:


Talk true o0o0! Cos the guy the op talked about is quite a lovable one and no one will be angry coz someone else said he's 'Nice'

na true jare,lovable abi? Ok nah,i hear u.

Jollyjoy:
na true jare,lovable abi? Ok nah,i hear u.

Na now you come. Just gimme SMALL shance, and I go do EVERYTHING wey the op talk

Feranchek:


Na now you come. Just gimme SMALL shance, and I go do EVERYTHING wey the op talk

eeehen,shebi e don reach like dat ni?