Gurgle:


I didn't abuse; abuse would have been if I said all guys were stvpid. I said some . don't see anything abusive about that.

as you said, so are some girls

I understand clearly what you stated, nobody is stup.id. People are brought up from different background and cultures. Some attitude might be societal norms for someone meanwhile another person might find it offensive. So if u don't agree to their kind of person, just quietly move on than venting your rage by calling some set of ppl stu.pid.

LadyBoss1:
Hey peeps
Lolz ok so yes i went on a lunch date thing today with a guy i was introduce to by a mutual friend, we've seen each other before but there was no spark so i didnt really entertain it.

Anyway as you all know i'm single and have been for a while now... We decided to meet a place close to me so i can get back to work on time .

Ok we ordered food , had light convo just general stuff

Now the issue
Ok oh this guy orders wine i had a little bit but im not really a wine drinker anyway , and then the guy kept saying
"Why dont you drink some "?
"Have some more wine are you shy"
I told him no like its bloody lunch time who gets wasted at lunch
And he said to me he thought i was a classy chic, but he thought WRONG!

After he said that i felt insulted just killed the mood , but didnt say anything just told him i have to go and would call him later.


Please lol how is that unclassy? this is why i dont bother going on yeye date so annoying .. Anyway thats the end of him (history) he can go find a wine drinker somewhere else or do u think i am over reacting? Dont get guys

If i were him, i would've made sure i smooch those your seemingly fat asses before you take a walk incase that marks the end of everything.

Firsteva, is that you?

You did nothing wrong my dear...

If the guy had used his money he used to pay for food and wine to buy data or gas for his kitchen and at that time he has wasted dining with you he used it to hustle for better money instead of wasting it dining with you,it might be the time God wanted to bless his hustle but he instead wasted it on you,he might just be able to buy that work place of yours and sack you or be rich enough to make you a Boss of your own so you can resume work at anytime but he choose the wrong priority...

Work now and women will chase you later even if the ones in your class.

At this age of yours, you are still sampling guys. What gave you the impression that the guy wasn't testing you of your alcohol consumption rate? I did this check on my lady and she passed. Do you even care to sms him for the lunch ? Have you given him another opportunity to see you? Remember, as you are checking him out based on your dos and don'ts so also is he. Common break free from stereotype and allow things to flow. Do not listen to those presenting the guy to you as a sex seeker and monster. If you like him, give him another chance or you try and re-asses him using other yardstick aside alcohol. You are no longer a kid my sister, be smart and get this guy to run after you with your well seasoned and planned female godly traits. Common! bait him till he makes you his Mrs. Try again sis.

LadyBoss1:
Hey peeps
Lolz ok so yes i went on a lunch date thing today with a guy i was introduce to by a mutual friend, we've seen each other before but there was no spark so i didnt really entertain it.

Anyway as you all know i'm single and have been for a while now... We decided to meet a place close to me so i can get back to work on time .

Ok we ordered food , had light convo just general stuff

Now the issue
Ok oh this guy orders wine i had a little bit but im not really a wine drinker anyway , and then the guy kept saying
"Why dont you drink some "?
"Have some more wine are you shy"
I told him no like its bloody lunch time who gets wasted at lunch
And he said to me he thought i was a classy chic, but he thought WRONG!

After he said that i felt insulted just killed the mood , but didnt say anything just told him i have to go and would call him later.


Please lol how is that unclassy? this is why i dont bother going on yeye date so annoying .. Anyway thats the end of him (history) he can go find a wine drinker somewhere else or do u think i am over reacting? Dont get guys

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You overreacted, in my opinion. The guy's conduct wasn't kosher, but we are not responsible for what happens to us, but for how we react to what happens to us. A little alcohol can make a guy speak out of turn, but doesn't mean he isn't a nice person and doesn't like you...

LadyBoss1:
Anyway thanks for your comments so far.. I'll update you guys... He finally sent me a message

prettythicksme:
See thinking what if d guy just love gurls who drink?there are some guys like dat.

Then he shouldn't have shamed her. Simple.

robinicule:
niggas can be so unromantic....why would u think drinking to stupor on a date is classy...mehn that guys I.Q is sub zero.

but that is her level...I was introduced...

LadyBoss1:
Hey peeps
Lolz ok so yes i went on a lunch date thing today with a guy i was introduce to by a mutual friend, we've seen each other before but there was no spark so i didnt really entertain it.

Anyway as you all know i'm single and have been for a while now... We decided to meet a place close to me so i can get back to work on time .

Ok we ordered food , had light convo just general stuff

Now the issue
Ok oh this guy orders wine i had a little bit but im not really a wine drinker anyway , and then the guy kept saying
"Why dont you drink some "?
"Have some more wine are you shy"
I told him no like its bloody lunch time who gets wasted at lunch
And he said to me he thought i was a classy chic, but he thought WRONG!

After he said that i felt insulted just killed the mood , but didnt say anything just told him i have to go and would call him later.


Please lol how is that unclassy? this is why i dont bother going on yeye date so annoying .. Anyway thats the end of him (history) he can go find a wine drinker somewhere else or do u think i am over reacting? Dont get guys

You should know by now that the guy in question is arrogant and very moronic in nature,dont pact with him.

LadyBoss1:


Well ur parents justs wants whats best for you i guess .. But sometimes dont judge a book by its cover u might be shocked at what u find
hope ur fasting is going smooth .

its going o.true!

Emi omo baba Asumo?


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Where I won see lala?

tchidi:
Ladyboss1, shebi na Asumo12 ba?
I no truss that guy!!

Beht why u fink say na me nah?


Bad belle is allowed tho!

LadyBoss1:

Says his a producer oh, has studio or whatever n his 29 so i thought ok approaching 30 let me see, he even wore shirt self i thought he was human being ..

Abeg, im seriously getting confused here, what about him wearing a shirt?

ransomed:
At this age of yours, you are still sampling guys. What gave you the impression that the guy wasn't testing you of your alcohol consumption rate? I did this check on my lady and she passed. Do you even care to sms him for the lunch ? Have you given him another opportunity to see you? Remember, as you are checking him out based on your dos and don'ts so also is he. Common break free from stereotype and allow things to flow. Do not listen to those presenting the guy to you as a sex seeker and monster. If you like him, give him another chance or you try and re-asses him using other yardstick aside alcohol. You are no longer a kid my sister, be smart and get this guy to run after you with your well seasoned and planned female godly traits. Common! bait him till he makes you his Mrs. Try again sis.

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modelmike7:
. . . . . Well, looking at it from another angle, if you actually said those 2 words up there 'bloody and wasted' to his face, perhaps that could be what he was referring to as in him thinking you were classy, but you aren't. He might not even be referring to the fact of you taking or not taking wine. No classy girl will used those words in a guy's presence. Just thinking outta the box! Think about it also Lady!!

Thanks for pointing this out. You have got issues that needs checking. No decent lady on a first date would use 'bloody n wasted ' , come on , those are words classified as offensive. I'm sorry if you used offensive words, then he is right : you are not classy .(no disrespect meant )

Why did you go on the lunch date when you never saw anything in him to spark any interest?.... free lunch? However...the guy is a big jerk. Being a mutual friend he should've found out about you and know better how to make a good impression. But then again...maybe his friend has his eyes on you and fed him information to make him fail...probably told him you have a weakness for wine...would gulp down a whole bottle and get careless and hornee. Didn't happen so he took the insult route. Whatever...you handled it well.

seedord247:
Lmaoooo all these local naija men say he want to F her....

They are used to cabin biscuit and zobo drink dateeee

Seriously...
A guy takes a lady @ work out on a Lunch date n he suddenly wants t F her... How and Where

..and btw, It Is Very 'Bush' for a 'lady' to allow wine be ordered wen she isn't interested in drinking it.

Who does that

Y'all need to change Ur circle.


Just thinking of it sef, shows how improbable d whole 'take advantage of her' ish is..After all o.p chose time n location.

All dese local, 'I have arrived' girls sef

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imma2:


I understand clearly what you stated, nobody is stup.id. People are brought up from different background and cultures. Some attitude might be societal norms for someone meanwhile another person might find it offensive. So if u don't agree to their kind of person, just quietly move on than venting your rage by calling some set of ppl stu.pid.

OK noted, thanks for your correction.

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If u always portray urself like u did on ur dp. Blive me some guys will not only force u to get drunk, they'll send u to buy d condom too.

The only thing that drew my attention was "you all know i'm single and have been for a while..." how the fûck are we to have known?

On the other issue, you would have jejely drank the wine, wine does not kill, the worst that would have happened is you would have been tipsy, and so what?

ransomed:
At this age of yours, you are still sampling guys. What gave you the impression that the guy wasn't testing you of your alcohol consumption rate? I did this check on my lady and she passed. Do you even care to sms him for the lunch ? Have you given him another opportunity to see you? Remember, as you are checking him out based on your dos and don'ts so also is he. Common break free from stereotype and allow things to flow. Do not listen to those presenting the guy to you as a sex seeker and monster. If you like him, give him another chance or you try and re-asses him using other yardstick aside alcohol. You are no longer a kid my sister, be smart and get this guy to run after you with your well seasoned and planned female godly traits. Common! bait him till he makes you his Mrs. Try again sis.

very funny comment, what if she isnt interested in being his Mrs? U mean she should act desperate because to you she is no longer a child? Crazy. She should force herself to start liking him when his first impression has put her off, abegi

RedBenson:


If i were him, i would've made sure i smooch those your seemingly fat asses before you take a walk incase that marks the end of everything.

Firsteva, is that you?

redbaba, who is me?

U too like fat asss sef the op is a fine girl sha.

Its a cheap trick .guys looking for how to score tend to look for ways to make d babe loose her inhibition...one cheap way is to get her drunk. However u don't hv to overreact when refusing... I guess u didn't like d guy....o

LadyBoss1:


U see and then he insults me on top
U just cant win

Come on let's go out. This time around you will enjoy it. I swear

firstEVA:
redbaba, who is me?
U too like fat asss sef the op is a fine girl sha.

You can say that again. No big/fat ass, no me. I've got no time for flat assses.

pipz:
@ladyboss

Let me narrate my own experience.

An Aunty introduced me to this chick. Never seen her before. I goggles her name and etc but found little or nothing really bout her. So I started calling her, the communication wasn't bad. She asked where I got her no from I said from my Aunty in the U.S. Etc. even my aunt has never seen her, she got to know about the girl thru her friend who is this babes Aunty as well.
So we set a date up. Said we'll do movies 1st and any other thing later. This was about 2 weeks ago. I sold my car few days before then. So we spoke before the movies and went online to see which movie and time we would see and how to connect and alas we where both staying on the island.in my mind I was like nice one at least I don't have to travel to see her. We picked an 8 pm movie. Then I told her I'm not mobile but will come pick her never the less. So I called her by 7 and also called an uber same time to come pick me then will head to her place to pick her up too. But she said we are already running late for the movie so she'll come join me at the cinemas. So I was like no wahala, see u at the cinema. Getting to the cinema I tickets for us then waited a little while. Called her to know how close she was and stuff. And behold she showed up and I was like whoa ! She wasn't looking too bad. Then I got her pop corn and water and I just water, she asked why and I was I already had a coke and not a fan of too much sugar.
The movies went on well we laughed screamed and had fun no too much talking. It was Jurassic World 3d. After the movie I suggested we chill out at a bar downstairs so we requested for a table for 2 and the menu. But the didn't have the cocktail she wanted so we changed and went to the next bar. I couldn't suggest any other place as I wasn't mobile and felt it will be wrong if I said we should leave for some other bar in her car.
The next bar had close to what she wanted so and I ordered a bottle of beer for myself I asked her to do alchol, jokingly oooo. And she said naaa, maybe some other time. She said she wanted wings I was like babe take all u want. She asked me why I didn't want some I was like I'm ok. We chatted well and laughed apparently she is a Yankee babe but works in oil and gas here. I asked for her bday, she said that's a wired question .... Don't know why. She asked were I work and etc. told her mine but she didn't tell me hers. I found out from LinkedIn about hers though. After some time she said she has to go so I saw her off to her car and asked her if she had a nice time and would want to do this again. She said sure she did and will do it again. I was happy (in my mind I was like I've found something serious) we spoke after I got home and the next day. And after that this babe has refused to pick my call again. What on earth went wrong. My cousin a babe told me it was wrong for me to go on a date without a car she said I would have at least went to borrow one. My elder bro was like this is when u know a girl will stay with u. I've sent her like 2 text msgs to no avail.
Can some pls tell wat I did wrong.

@ladyboss, that guy is a douchebag

Bro you've done no wrong, she's crazy and you need to be cocky also,cause she work in oil and gas doesn't give her the impetus to feel like a boss to you, if she aint ready to play ball tell her off.

Don't send those sms any longer or a call, a biitch is what you make out of her, you a man so act like one

For the borrowing of car? That some crass and lame thing todo,never impress a lady,be real and forge for what comes your path no way a lady will make you feel insecure and intimidated.

She's rich,beautiful got nothing ascribable to a wife material if she can't come down from her high horse to talk things through.

I'm a cocky,rude,iDGAF kinda guy,and I'm a dominant so if a girl fucksup believe me no way I will go back to her for a word I move on,its a mans world not a woman's world,so get to your fit I walk like a peacock and stand like zeus to women!

haul:


Bro you've done no wrong, she's crazy and you need to be cocky also,cause she work in oil and gas doesn't give her the impetus to feel like a boss to you, if she aint ready to play ball tell her off.

Don't send those sms any longer or a call, a biitch is what you make out of her, you a man so act like one

For the borrowing of car? That some crass and lame thing todo,never impress a lady,be real and forge for what comes your path no way a lady will make you feel insecure and intimidated.

She's rich,beautiful got nothing ascribable to a wife material if she can't come down from her high horse to talk things through.

I'm a cocky,rude,iDGAF kinda guy ,and I'm a dominant so if a girl fucksup believe me no way I will go back to her for a word I move on, its a mans world not a woman's world ,so get to your fit I walk like a peacock and stand like zeus to women!

are you serious. does it normally work

Gurgle:


are you serious. does it normally work

Does it normally work I careless so far I get what I want,what the other party feel is not my problem

Still on this matter? I can't remember when last I went for a date. One thing that works for me is that you don't have to force anything especially if it's on a first date. What would be would definitely be.

If a girl really likes you, forgerrit. She fit mix d wine with alomo drink for u.